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why

Evansville, IN

#22 May 2, 2013
unsure wrote:
Its nothing now, because the relationship is over. Im not sure if it is love or loneliness that's left me so unsure of myself. Not sure why im having trouble moving on.
most likely loneliness or the thought of it.. or could be love, just never know unless u step up and find out for sure, don't give up if you really think it's love. but if there are doubts then it's most likely not...cause love has not doubts.Love is True, there is no room for doubting if its meant to be or not.. if you love them then go for it.. you only live once.. life is too short for regrets..JS
regret

Cadiz, KY

#23 May 2, 2013
Love is that feeling you get when you see that person and it just makes everything better and you can feel it when you kiss and you think about them all the time and can never get them off your mind. If you find this don't ever let it go because you will end up so hurt like me and live your life with regrets. Love is a great thing. I was scared of what I was feeling and let her go and now I'll never have that kind of love again. She lit up my world and now I'll be in the dark for the rest of my life.
unsure

Indianapolis, IN

#24 May 2, 2013
regret wrote:
Love is that feeling you get when you see that person and it just makes everything better and you can feel it when you kiss and you think about them all the time and can never get them off your mind. If you find this don't ever let it go because you will end up so hurt like me and live your life with regrets. Love is a great thing. I was scared of what I was feeling and let her go and now I'll never have that kind of love again. She lit up my world and now I'll be in the dark for the rest of my life.
I did have those feelings. More then ive ever felt for someone. But they betrayed me. Now I don't know if I should have fought for someone who broke my heart. Im not a forgiving person, but if it is love, is it worth it? Do you sacrifice your pride and put your heart on the line again? Im a firm believer that's what you see is that you get. I see what they are. Is that what love is about? Accepting things you wouldn't accept from any one else because you need that person in your life?
regret

Duluth, GA

#25 May 2, 2013
unsure wrote:
<quoted text>I did have those feelings. More then ive ever felt for someone. But they betrayed me. Now I don't know if I should have fought for someone who broke my heart. Im not a forgiving person, but if it is love, is it worth it? Do you sacrifice your pride and put your heart on the line again? Im a firm believer that's what you see is that you get. I see what they are. Is that what love is about? Accepting things you wouldn't accept from any one else because you need that person in your life?
Don't let pride get in the way if you love this person. How did they hurt you?
unsure

Indianapolis, IN

#26 May 2, 2013
regret wrote:
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Don't let pride get in the way if you love this person. How did they hurt you?
Lies, cheating, broken promises, double standards, just all around betrayed. I wasn't perfect in the relationship but I deserved so much better then that. Its not just pride, its a conscious decision not to be played with.
been there

United States

#27 May 2, 2013
Betrayed is a strong word, you may love them but do u really want to b hurt over and over? You see what they are? Marriage and forever takes A LOT more than just love. Take a look at this persons history, how did they betray you? My gut feelings have always been right in the end and it sounds like you can do better.
Happy

Owensboro, KY

#28 May 11, 2013
If hedidthat to u he doesn't deserve u. U deserve better. And no u don't lower your standards for love. Find someone who deserves u and will lce u back. Love yourself first. IF utake him back hell probably do it again because he'll think he can. Men do to u what u let them respect and love yourself and ditch any man that doesn't as well
ditto!

Duluth, GA

#29 May 11, 2013
Fed up wrote:
<quoted text>And then they become obsessed with something else because they have OCD, and an attachment disorder and start ignoring you and wonder why you are always "bitching" that they never spend time with you anymore and then they find something else to obsess with and the "bitching" gets worse and they ignore you more and then they start drinking and staying out all night and wonder why you are asking if there is someone else and on and on and on until finally you break up and then they find someone new and the cycle goes on and on and on. LOVE IS TEMPORARY PEOPLE! Created to encourage procreation.
I agree! I haven't met a single soul yet that truly practices "unconditional love". People judge and hold grudges way to much! True forgiveness just doesn't exist!
ditto!

Duluth, GA

#30 May 11, 2013
regret wrote:
Love is that feeling you get when you see that person and it just makes everything better and you can feel it when you kiss and you think about them all the time and can never get them off your mind. If you find this don't ever let it go because you will end up so hurt like me and live your life with regrets. Love is a great thing. I was scared of what I was feeling and let her go and now I'll never have that kind of love again. She lit up my world and now I'll be in the dark for the rest of my life.
Sometimes you just have to let go and move on!
John

United States

#31 May 11, 2013
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I agree! I haven't met a single soul yet that truly practices "unconditional love". People judge and hold grudges way to much! True forgiveness just doesn't exist![/QUOTE] What's grudges have to do with this ? When you aren't giving 100% you won't get 100 %
Sad face

United States

#32 May 11, 2013
Sounds like you guys should maybe just call each other and talk instead of using topix . My O my look at me now :***
Lmfao

United States

#33 May 11, 2013
regret wrote:
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Don't let pride get in the way if you love this person. How did they hurt you?
THAT'S RIGHT !!!! We've all done some things for foolish pride huh ? But then again we've gotta put some other things first now don't we ;)

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