trying to be friends with an ex

trying to be friends with an ex

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confused

United States

#1 Apr 15, 2013
Do you think it's possible to be friends with a person you thought you would spend the rest of your life with romantically.
nope

Owensboro, KY

#2 Apr 15, 2013
No it's not. Unless the person in love wants to torture themselves with false hope.
yes -no answer

United States

#3 Apr 15, 2013
It all depends on if this person you are talking about has chemistry towards you. Do they come on to you?
Jeanie

Bowling Green, KY

#4 Apr 15, 2013
confused wrote:
Do you think it's possible to be friends with a person you thought you would spend the rest of your life with romantically.
I don't think it's a good idea, especially if you're still in love with them. It's just going to hurt more being around them and not being able to be with them. I know for me i couldn't do it.
oil

Fishers, IN

#5 Apr 15, 2013
I'm good friends with my ex even though we had a horrible breakup. After many years later we are mature enough to understand that we are two good people that just couldn't work it out romantically. We both want the best for each other but it did take many years to get to this point
chester

Tucker, GA

#6 Apr 15, 2013
What caused the break up?
confused

United States

#7 Apr 15, 2013
Jeanie wrote:
<quoted text>I don't think it's a good idea, especially if you're still in love with them. It's just going to hurt more being around them and not being able to be with them. I know for me i couldn't do it.
I want to have them in my life just because I care about their well being. She is attractive but I don't think I can give her everything she needs.
Jeanie

Bowling Green, KY

#8 Apr 15, 2013
confused wrote:
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I want to have them in my life just because I care about their well being. She is attractive but I don't think I can give her everything she needs.
Well why don't you try to talk to her? Explain this to her. You never know she may do it.
confused

United States

#9 Apr 15, 2013
chester wrote:
What caused the break up?
We were just not on the same page
confused

United States

#10 Apr 15, 2013
Jeanie wrote:
<quoted text>Well why don't you try to talk to her? Explain this to her. You never know she may do it.
I have I think she wants more of a romantic relationship. When we were together we were great.
maybe

United States

#11 Apr 15, 2013
It could be possible but if there are still feelings there for either of you it will be a constant battle of what ifs.
confused

United States

#12 Apr 15, 2013
maybe wrote:
It could be possible but if there are still feelings there for either of you it will be a constant battle of what ifs.
That's what I'm afraid of
Jeanie

Bowling Green, KY

#13 Apr 15, 2013
confused wrote:
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That's what I'm afraid of
Well if she still loves you and you can't love her the way she may want. I would leave it alone unless you want the same and are not sure. All you can do is try, it never hurts to try. Just be honest and open about what you want and ask her to do the same.
confused

United States

#14 Apr 15, 2013
confused wrote:
<quoted text>I have I think she wants more of a romantic relationship. When we were together we were great.
Another thing is I'm incredibly attracted to her.
maybe

United States

#15 Apr 15, 2013
confused wrote:
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That's what I'm afraid of
. If there are still feeling then maybe another chance is written in the stars. Just test the waters and see what develops. At least then you can live with knowing you gave it another shot.
Kim

Tucker, GA

#16 Apr 16, 2013
If this is about me I'm looking for another job . I can see that I'm really making you feel uncomfortable by sharing my feelings . And I can't feel the way I do and be around you any longer .
Kim

Tucker, GA

#18 Apr 16, 2013
No one wrote:
Is this about me?
I don't know who you are ?
pol

Fishers, IN

#19 Apr 16, 2013
Sounds like you don't love her you are just lusting her. Dont be selfish because it will end up biting you in the butt and hurting 10 times worse. If you can't give her what she needs just keep it moving because that's what she will be looking for
umyeah

Owensboro, KY

#20 Apr 16, 2013
confused wrote:
Do you think it's possible to be friends with a person you thought you would spend the rest of your life with romantically.
No!
Jeanie

Bowling Green, KY

#21 Apr 16, 2013
confused wrote:
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Another thing is I'm incredibly attracted to her.
So are you still around her a lot? If so that has to suck.

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