someone help me out here

someone help me out here

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sad

Owensboro, KY

#1 Feb 27, 2013
So I tell my boyfriend the straight up truth about my past and NOW he doesn't love me anymore. I mean omg your damned if u do and damned if you don't.. Yes before him I had a fuck buddy. He was single and we had hot sex. I never cheated on my guy What the heck do we do???? Lie.
hmm

Owensboro, KY

#2 Feb 27, 2013
Describe hot sex
the past is the past

Bellevue, WA

#3 Feb 27, 2013
If he Loves you then he should Love you no matter what especially if your past didnt involve him...& by the way was that "hot sex partner" of yours by chance, his friend or family member?
truth

Owensboro, KY

#4 Feb 27, 2013
In the future, don't lie, but simply refuse to answer any questions about your past. You have the right to decide what information you share, and what you keep to yourself. He doesn't have a "right to know" about anything outside your relationship with him.
sad

Owensboro, KY

#5 Feb 27, 2013
the past is the past wrote:
If he Loves you then he should Love you no matter what especially if your past didnt involve him...& by the way was that "hot sex partner" of yours by chance, his friend or family member?
No he didn't even know him. Just hurts to hear him hurt and know its over for me being honest that had nothing to do with him.
4 what its worth

Owensboro, KY

#6 Feb 27, 2013
if you were my girl i would think thats hot. I wood want you 2 describe it n full detail so I could here how he gave it to you. I'm gettn excited just typing about it. :-) Forget him, he wasn't what u need n e way.
sad

Owensboro, KY

#7 Feb 27, 2013
truth wrote:
In the future, don't lie, but simply refuse to answer any questions about your past. You have the right to decide what information you share, and what you keep to yourself. He doesn't have a "right to know" about anything outside your relationship with him.
I agree. Wow. I'm shocked.
sad

Owensboro, KY

#8 Feb 27, 2013
hmm wrote:
Describe hot sex
I had hotter sex with my boyfriend who is hung like a donkey
Kermit

Boonville, IN

#9 Feb 27, 2013
sad wrote:
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I agree. Wow. I'm shocked.
lol sounds like you need a frog in your life
sad

Owensboro, KY

#10 Feb 27, 2013
Kermit wrote:
<quoted text>lol sounds like you need a frog in your life
A frog???? Lmao
hmm

Owensboro, KY

#12 Feb 27, 2013
Donkey kong
rock liason

Owensboro, KY

#13 Feb 27, 2013
sad wrote:
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A frog???? Lmao
You should have told him if he came on your face, or in your mouth or inside you. That's why he was mad, you didn't give enough details....duh
sad

Owensboro, KY

#14 Feb 27, 2013
4 what its worth wrote:
if you were my girl i would think thats hot. I wood want you 2 describe it n full detail so I could here how he gave it to you. I'm gettn excited just typing about it.:-) Forget him, he wasn't what u need n e way.
Just hurt my feelings. I tried to be honest and feel like crap for it.
sad

Owensboro, KY

#15 Feb 27, 2013
rock liason wrote:
<quoted text>You should have told him if he came on your face, or in your mouth or inside you. That's why he was mad, you didn't give enough details....duh
Really details???? Ok yes he came in my mouth and anywhere he wanted too. I knew him well. No diseases so why not. There's details.
hey

Owensboro, KY

#16 Feb 27, 2013
sad wrote:
So I tell my boyfriend the straight up truth about my past and NOW he doesn't love me anymore. I mean omg your damned if u do and damned if you don't.. Yes before him I had a fuck buddy. He was single and we had hot sex. I never cheated on my guy What the heck do we do???? Lie.
Wow, I've experienced my partner describing about their previous promiscuous activities and yes it did bother me, but I don't hold that against them because that was before me. It's like, you can't go back and change the past. The only thing that matters now is that they're not cheating.

Hopefully your boyfriend will come around and realize that. Maybe he is just shocked right now and is blowing off that steam. Did he think you was the type that didn't do those kinds of things?
sad

Owensboro, KY

#17 Feb 27, 2013
Well he's done so I guess I will replace him.
sad

Owensboro, KY

#18 Feb 27, 2013
hey wrote:
<quoted text>Wow, I've experienced my partner describing about their previous promiscuous activities and yes it did bother me, but I don't hold that against them because that was before me. It's like, you can't go back and change the past. The only thing that matters now is that they're not cheating.

Hopefully your boyfriend will come around and realize that. Maybe he is just shocked right now and is blowing off that steam. Did he think you was the type that didn't do those kinds of things?
Thank you hey. I've tried texting and calling. He's done. I tell the truth and this is what I get. Heartbroken.
hey

Owensboro, KY

#19 Feb 27, 2013
sad wrote:
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Thank you hey. I've tried texting and calling. He's done. I tell the truth and this is what I get. Heartbroken.
Awe, I'm sorry... Well then I guess he wasn't right for you anyways since you can't be honest with him. In a relationship honesty is everything. Goodluck to you, sweetheart.
really!!!!!!!!?? ??

Owensboro, KY

#20 Feb 27, 2013
sad wrote:
<quoted text>Thank you hey. I've tried texting and calling. He's done. I tell the truth and this is what I get. Heartbroken.
Well I think he shouldn't hold it against u either. It was before him. But for the future I would not volunteer any info about past relations or tell them u prefer not to discuss that part. Most guys get jealous and don't really want to hear detail. Besides its none of his dam buisness. Lol just how I feel. Don't lose sleep over it sweetie. Just learn from it.:)
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United States

#21 Feb 27, 2013
Lol

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