Love or just company?
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Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#23 Jan 9, 2013
SexxxxyBish75 wrote:
<quoted text>You do what you want but I'd never consider going back to C! I rather live alone for the next 100yrs than to live like that. JS
I want the one I love. I'm just getting really scared and wondering if she doesn't want me. That would be harder on me than my divorce.

“Sexy is as Sexy does”

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#24 Jan 9, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
<quoted text>I want the one I love. I'm just getting really scared and wondering if she doesn't want me. That would be harder on me than my divorce.
Perhaps you are like myself, cursed.

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#25 Jan 9, 2013
SexxxxyBish75 wrote:
<quoted text>Perhaps you are like myself, cursed.
I don't believe in curses. I think we make our own futures. I am trying like hell to be with this amazing, beautiful woman. I just have never had a lot of experience with women and always end up being the one hurt. I don't have the finesse of some men. I try and make up for it by always being 100% honest and faithful. I guess that's not enough.

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#26 Jan 9, 2013
I'm no where near bring perfect. I feel I have nothing to offer her and that she deserves better than me. She is a great woman. I love her so much.

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#27 Jan 9, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
I'm no where near bring perfect. I feel I have nothing to offer her and that she deserves better than me. She is a great woman. I love her so much.
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think aboutit

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#28 Jan 9, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
She is having issues with the guy she is with now. She was kinda joking but she mentioned us getting back together. I don't love her, and never could again, but of she moved back in, at least I could see my kids every day and I wouldn't be alone forever. I have been talking to a girl but I think I'm too jealous of a guy to deal with her being flirty. Should I try with the woman I love and want things to work with or should I try to get the ex to come back?
Just realize that the kids will grow up and move on with their own lives. Then what will be the incentive to continue with a loveless relationship.
Nutty Ella

Owensboro, KY

#29 Jan 9, 2013
Somewhat confused by you stating she says she feels the same way you feel then stating you wonder if she doesn't want you. Are you two dating exclusively?

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#30 Jan 9, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
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I don't believe in curses. I think we make our own futures. I am trying like hell to be with this amazing, beautiful woman. I just have never had a lot of experience with women and always end up being the one hurt. I don't have the finesse of some men. I try and make up for it by always being 100% honest and faithful. I guess that's not enough.
I hear ya. I have always been 100% honest and faithful with whoever I dated. I am always the one getting hurt. Ever since my divorce over 10 years ago, I really aint found the one I want or wants me for me. Just some women wants bad boys. I can't be a bad boy if I even tried. I at least have a lot of respect for women and dont hurt them. They end up hurting me by cheating and lying. That is one of the reasons why that I am shy.
BE HAPPY

Richmond, KY

#31 Jan 9, 2013
Don't ever go back to an ex cause its "convenient" or for sake of the kids!!!! Kids are so important, but they will grow up happier if they have a healthy happy environment surrounding them. You will regret losing the woman you love only to stay with an ex spouse. resentment and hate will grow between you two. Your kids will see no emotion or love between you two and question that as well or wonder why you aren't all "happy"? Why you aren't saying I love you or sleeping in the same room with their mom, etc... Your kids will eventually be grown and lead their own lives... Then what? Would you want or tell your kids to settle later in life and not to pursue being the best they can be or marry someone who they don't love? They love you unconditionally just like you love them. They want you to be happy just like you want nothing but the best for them. You will be 10-15 years older and without the woman you love Who was perfect for you...You will have lost your chance at true happiness. Picture your life staying with the woman you love now and being happy everyday instead of miserable and regretting your decision to settle and stay for the "kids sake". Don't you think you being happy and your kids seeing daddy happy will be way better physically, emotionally, spiritually and without regrets. Lets just say I've been in your shoes before... I regret not getting my divorce alot sooner and leaving my unhappy miserable stressful life because I was too stubborn to go after the woman I did love with all
My heart. My kids are grown now but we have talked about things before and they said they could tell that I wasn't happy and always seemed distant from their mother. They would have love me either way but wish I had chosen to go after true love even it was not their mom. so long as the woman was good to me and would have been to them, then things would have been okay.

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#32 Jan 10, 2013
When the homicidal maniac tells you that your ex is a bad idea, perhaps you should listen?
geez

Whitestown, IN

#33 Jan 10, 2013
lol wrote:
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Choose the one you love. You may not find her again if you let her go. The ex would only use you long enough to find a better situation for herself and then she would be gone again and you will be lonely still.
This is the truth. She would only stay with you until something/someone better comes along. By then, you've messed up your chance at happiness with the other woman.

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#34 Jan 10, 2013
The love is no longer there. She had other plans than being with me. I told the ex, hell no. So now it's just me, alone again.

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