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Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#1 Jan 8, 2013
She is having issues with the guy she is with now. She was kinda joking but she mentioned us getting back together. I don't love her, and never could again, but of she moved back in, at least I could see my kids every day and I wouldn't be alone forever. I have been talking to a girl but I think I'm too jealous of a guy to deal with her being flirty. Should I try with the woman I love and want things to work with or should I try to get the ex to come back?
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#2 Jan 8, 2013
Try with the one u love. It's not fair to u or babies mom to live a lie. Neither of u will be happy.

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#3 Jan 8, 2013
Get back with the ex

Since: Feb 12

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#5 Jan 8, 2013
SexxxxyBish75 wrote:
Get back with the ex
That's your honest, heart felt opinion. For me to be miserable for the rest of my life.

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#6 Jan 8, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
<quoted text>That's your honest, heart felt opinion. For me to be miserable for the rest of my life.
No. I wouldn't want anyone miserable

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#7 Jan 8, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
<quoted text>That's your honest, heart felt opinion. For me to be miserable for the rest of my life.
Grrr I hope this doesn't double post! Topix is eating my sh!t!

No, I wouldn't want anyone miserable.

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#8 Jan 8, 2013
SexxxxyBish75 wrote:
<quoted text>No. I wouldn't want anyone miserable
Should I keep trying with the one I love with all my heart, more than anyone I have ever loved before?

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#9 Jan 9, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
She is having issues with the guy she is with now. She was kinda joking but she mentioned us getting back together. I don't love her, and never could again, but of she moved back in, at least I could see my kids every day and I wouldn't be alone forever. I have been talking to a girl but I think I'm too jealous of a guy to deal with her being flirty. Should I try with the woman I love and want things to work with or should I try to get the ex to come back?
Whatever you do, don't settle.

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#10 Jan 9, 2013
CastleOnACloud wrote:
<quoted text>Whatever you do, don't settle.
If it ends up being the ex, it won't be a relationship. I have no feelings for her and never could have. But it would rule out me ever having a relationship.

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#11 Jan 9, 2013
Why would you want to be with someone, that is only doing it, because they are having problems?

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Owensboro, KY

#12 Jan 9, 2013
CastleOnACloud wrote:
<quoted text>Whatever you do, don't settle.
The one I love is great. I wouldn't be settling at all. She is more than I ever thought I would have a chance to be with.

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#13 Jan 9, 2013
If you truly were meant to be with either of them? You wouldn't have to ask.

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#14 Jan 9, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
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If it ends up being the ex, it won't be a relationship. I have no feelings for her and never could have. But it would rule out me ever having a relationship.
So you'd be choosing between a chance at (finding) love & happiness or a living arrangement that provides more time with your kids?

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#15 Jan 9, 2013
CastleOnACloud wrote:
<quoted text>So you'd be choosing between a chance at (finding) love & happiness or a living arrangement that provides more time with your kids?
Yeah. But to be alone and loveless for at least another 13 to 14 years.
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Owensboro, KY

#16 Jan 9, 2013
What a wondeful way to confuse your kids and put them through hell again, because the divorce wasn't bad enough.

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#17 Jan 9, 2013
Well wrote:
What a wondeful way to confuse your kids and put them through hell again, because the divorce wasn't bad enough.
They don't remember living here when we we married. They were babies when she left me. Since they have gotten older, they have asked why we don't live together.

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Wild Blue Yonder

#18 Jan 9, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
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Yeah. But to be alone and loveless for at least another 13 to 14 years.
I'm getting depressed just thinking about that.

I think your kids will be happier if you are happy. I highly doubt they would want you to sacrifice yourself for them, in that way.
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Owensboro, KY

#20 Jan 9, 2013
Does the 'one you love with all your heart' return that love and want to be with you?@ GS

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#21 Jan 9, 2013
Comment wrote:
Does the 'one you love with all your heart' return that love and want to be with you?@ GS
She says she does. She is a bit flirtatious and I'm a bit jealous. We have both been hurt in the past. I'm scared to death of getting hurt again. But I know I have to take the chance if I'm ever going to be happy.

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#22 Jan 9, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
<quoted text>Should I keep trying with the one I love with all my heart, more than anyone I have ever loved before?
You do what you want but I'd never consider going back to C! I rather live alone for the next 100yrs than to live like that. JS

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