me

Duluth, GA

#1 May 8, 2013
I've been seeing this guy. We've known one another for quite some time. In the past, we couldn't be together due to relationship reasons. We've been seeing each other now for about 3 weeks give or take. I am completely crazy about him and he says he is about me as well. He is a great man, father, and lover. There is a chance that he will be moving far away. He told me that he hoped that eventually I would relocate to where he is going. My whole family is here, his is where he is going. He's constantly on my mind and I think I want to go with him or eventually go to him.
I have one child, he has three. We both want more children. He's the type of man I have been wanting in my life. I didn't think I'd ever be able to have him. Since I've had him, I don't want to let him go. I can't stand the thought of losing him.
What would you do? Please, No bashing.
Wait

Owensboro, KY

#2 May 8, 2013
See how the distance works out before you uproot your child's life. You have been friends with this man and probably know him very well but you don't know him as a significant other just yet. I hope it works out for you!!! Everyone deserves love and happiness!!
Helllllllooooooo

Owensboro, KY

#3 May 8, 2013
I don't want to pry but you might consider the part where you said you couldn't be together for relationship reasons. Was he with someone else saying he'd rather be with you? That's not a good sign. Did he tell the other woman about you? If you were good friends with him and he wasn't doing anything wrong then you would have been brought around his previous gfs and vice versa, right?
me

Owensboro, KY

#4 May 8, 2013
Helllllllooooooo wrote:
I don't want to pry but you might consider the part where you said you couldn't be together for relationship reasons. Was he with someone else saying he'd rather be with you? That's not a good sign. Did he tell the other woman about you? If you were good friends with him and he wasn't doing anything wrong then you would have been brought around his previous gfs and vice versa, right?
We've known each other for a year and some. We couldn't be together at that point because he was in the process of getting separated. That process started before I was ever in the picture. We weren't close friends, I guess it would be better to say we were acquaintances.

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#5 May 8, 2013
Three weeks isn't enough time to really get to know him. People get divorced for a reason. I think I would get to know him better for your sake and your child's before I made any decisions.
really

Duluth, GA

#6 May 8, 2013
And what about your kids dad,how would he feel if you left the state with his kid.
me

Duluth, GA

#7 May 8, 2013
really wrote:
And what about your kids dad,how would he feel if you left the state with his kid.
He sees him all of 28 days a year living in the same city. I don't think it would affect him too much. My child is fully dependent upon me.

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#8 May 9, 2013
He may not see your child much but he could still give you problems if you leave the state with his kid.
me

Owensboro, KY

#9 May 9, 2013
Opala wrote:
He may not see your child much but he could still give you problems if you leave the state with his kid.
I wouldn't just take our child and leave. We would have a conversation about it. I'm sure he wouldn't be ecstatic about it but, I don't think he'd keep him here to raise him alone. I'm not sure what I'm doing yet.
Helping

Owensboro, KY

#10 May 10, 2013
I agree with the first person. I would either wait and see coz if u were that important to him he wouldn't leave three weeks into the relationship. As long as u have a place to come back to and money to get here if it doesn't work out between you it could be a fun experience. I would love to be able to just pack up and go. But then again would u be living with him. I wouldn't move my child in with someone I've only been dating for three weeks here or there. Yeah u were aquantances but u don't truly know someone for a while. So personally if I could not fully support my child alone I would stay close to my family until I could or until the relationship progresses over time.lots of time.

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