how do i tell my fiance???

how do i tell my fiance???

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confused

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#1 Sep 17, 2013
Hello, I just recently got engaged and I have missed three periods and think I might be pregnant. I'm afraid if I was to tell him he might leave because he already has a daughter who is 1, what to do?

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#2 Sep 17, 2013
use contraception...dumbass
Wow

Richmond, KY

#3 Sep 17, 2013
Wow to the comment above me people like you is what's wrong with a lot of this world, no compassion what so ever for others. There could be other reasons why she didn't use contraception! My opinion on this subject is you just need to be 100 percent honest and let him know what's going on. If he truly loves you he isn't going anywhere and if he does you didn't need him to begin with. Good luck!
quest

Owensboro, KY

#4 Sep 17, 2013
confused wrote:
Hello, I just recently got engaged and I have missed three periods and think I might be pregnant. I'm afraid if I was to tell him he might leave because he already has a daughter who is 1, what to do?
Yes tell him if he leaves it wasn't meant to be and better to know now than later.
Yea

Richmond, KY

#5 Sep 17, 2013
Why would you be engaged to a man you think might leave you if you're pregnant. Sounds like you both need to do some growing up before you think about marriage and kids....
mac

United States

#6 Sep 17, 2013
Yea wrote:
Why would you be engaged to a man you think might leave you if you're pregnant. Sounds like you both need to do some growing up before you think about marriage and kids....
Amen. I def second this comment. If u have doubts of how he will 'handle' a situation involving u both then yall need to reconsider marriage that's forsure.
confused

United States

#7 Sep 17, 2013
He will stay he loves me were happy it's just a big step a second child already. I don't appricate the rude comments I was just asking for advice.
just me

Princeton, KY

#8 Sep 17, 2013
confused wrote:
He will stay he loves me were happy it's just a big step a second child already. I don't appricate the rude comments I was just asking for advice.
Its a big step that could have been prevented. He is just as responsible for it as you.
just me

Princeton, KY

#9 Sep 17, 2013
confused wrote:
Hello, I just recently got engaged and I have missed three periods and think I might be pregnant. I'm afraid if I was to tell him he might leave because he already has a daughter who is 1, what to do?
If you have missed 3 periods take a test. No sincd worrying until you are sure.
lol

Gilbertsville, KY

#10 Sep 18, 2013
confused wrote:
Hello, I just recently got engaged and I have missed three periods and think I might be pregnant. I'm afraid if I was to tell him he might leave because he already has a daughter who is 1, what to do?
Seriously you should have told him after you missed your first period. He may be upset that you have waited this long to tell him or even take a test. Prenatal care is very important. Tell him. And get to a dr.
concerned

United States

#13 Sep 18, 2013
Im finding out tomorrow, I don't feel any differant or anything, thank you to the ones who tried to help, I'm just nervous is all....
not the daddy

United States

#14 Sep 18, 2013
just me wrote:
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Its a big step that could have been prevented. He is just as responsible for it as you.
No, he isn't
not the daddy

United States

#15 Sep 18, 2013
Just tell him goodbye. He won't go the distance, you've been dishonest.
seriously

Owensboro, KY

#17 Sep 18, 2013
hiv wrote:
Whoever posted my brothers name on this site is a PIECE OF
SHIT he has family that didnt even know and it wasnt 4 u 2
release a name. And if i find out who posted my brothers
name they will answer 2 me and thats a promise.
Wtf???
confused

United States

#19 Sep 19, 2013
Test said no :) :)
Sarah

Ocala, FL

#21 Sep 19, 2013
confused wrote:
Test said no :):)
Tests can be wrong. If you missed three periods...you are probably pregnant. Did you do a home pregnancy test or go to a doctor ? You need to go to a doctor...FAST. You need to tell your boyfriend....FAST.
You can't start your marriage without being totally HONEST with him. If you are afraid to tell him...you shouldn't be marrying him.
Sarah

Ocala, FL

#22 Sep 19, 2013
How long have you been dating ?
Hunter Thompson

United States

#23 Sep 19, 2013
Sarah wrote:
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Tests can be wrong. If you missed three periods...you are probably pregnant. Did you do a home pregnancy test or go to a doctor ? You need to go to a doctor...FAST. You need to tell your boyfriend....FAST.
You can't start your marriage without being totally HONEST with him. If you are afraid to tell him...you shouldn't be marrying him.
If she trapped him, she shouldn't be marrying him.
dumb

Richmond, KY

#24 Sep 19, 2013
If you have to get on topix and ask how to talk to your fiance...your relationship already isn't working. What about your family or his family? If you cant even talk about something this serious to the man you want to marry...maybe you two should reevaluate the situation.
Wow

Richmond, KY

#25 Sep 19, 2013
Ignore the stupid comments people need to use this site more like you are, to get advice ask opinions not to bash and trash talk people. You seem happy the test was negative just wait a few weeks and if you still don't start take another one just to be on the safe side. I hope everything works out for you and the best of luck. As for the ones of you with rude comments, grow up!

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