fiancés in jail. I'm pregnant and lost.

fiancés in jail. I'm pregnant and lost.

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i dont know anymore

Tucker, GA

#1 Jul 27, 2013
Here's the story. My boyfriend did some bad stuff and is now in jail and is facing a long time in jail. The judge has let him out to rehab twice already and both times he left the rehab and has went back to jail. He says he left the rehab for me both times. But I don't know. This last time he was out we found out I was pregnant and two days later he got arrested again for complying with court orders from when he left the rehab. I've stayed by his side every time he's been in jail.. But this time is different. I don't know if I can do it this time. Please I need advice of what I should do! Stay by his side or just be done finally?!?!
Abortion is for You

Chicago, IL

#2 Jul 27, 2013
i dont know anymore wrote:
Here's the story. My boyfriend did some bad stuff and is now in jail and is facing a long time in jail. The judge has let him out to rehab twice already and both times he left the rehab and has went back to jail. He says he left the rehab for me both times. But I don't know. This last time he was out we found out I was pregnant and two days later he got arrested again for complying with court orders from when he left the rehab. I've stayed by his side every time he's been in jail.. But this time is different. I don't know if I can do it this time. Please I need advice of what I should do! Stay by his side or just be done finally?!?!
Get an abortion, then have your tubes tied. You're both idiots and should not be bringing more of your defective gene pool into this world. Thanks!

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Since: Jul 13

United States

#3 Jul 27, 2013
Be done until he gets himself together. No kid wants to grow up watching their father or mother constantly go to jail. Bad habits can addictive and contagious. If he doesn't want to man up, be responsible, and get himself on track for the better good of his family then you don't need him because he will continue on with the broken promises and negative behaviors.
i dont know anymore

Chicago, IL

#4 Jul 27, 2013
Thanks for your advice sweetie! Too bad I'm not a murderer :)
i dont know anymore

Chicago, IL

#5 Jul 27, 2013
That's exactly what he does! He makes all these promises then it's like as soon as he gets out he just forgets everything he said to me while he was locked up.

Since: Jun 13

Ashburn, VA

#6 Jul 27, 2013
i dont know anymore wrote:
That's exactly what he does! He makes all these promises then it's like as soon as he gets out he just forgets everything he said to me while he was locked up.
be done with him u now have the most important job u will ever have and that is being mom. Ur baby does not need that drama growing up
Been there

Lexington, KY

#7 Jul 27, 2013
i dont know anymore wrote:
That's exactly what he does! He makes all these promises then it's like as soon as he gets out he just forgets everything he said to me while he was locked up.
No contact. And get to some group meetings.
You think it's tough now, wait until you have the welfare of a young one to worry about? Are you clean? If not and you're pregnant, that's not murder but a slow torture.
i dont know anymore

Chicago, IL

#8 Jul 27, 2013
Been there wrote:
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No contact. And get to some group meetings.
You think it's tough now, wait until you have the welfare of a young one to worry about? Are you clean? If not and you're pregnant, that's not murder but a slow torture.
Yes, I'm clean. I don't do any drugs or drink. I already have one kid so I already have my life together for him. I work two jobs and go to school full time. And I never get in any kind of trouble. We've been together since my first son was born and he's helped me raise him and treats him like his own cause his dad got abusive while I was pregnant so I left him. He's always treated me and my son amazing but he makes extremely stupid decisions.

Since: Jun 13

Ashburn, VA

#9 Jul 27, 2013
i dont know anymore wrote:
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Yes, I'm clean. I don't do any drugs or drink. I already have one kid so I already have my life together for him. I work two jobs and go to school full time. And I never get in any kind of trouble. We've been together since my first son was born and he's helped me raise him and treats him like his own cause his dad got abusive while I was pregnant so I left him. He's always treated me and my son amazing but he makes extremely stupid decisions.
u just need to be strong mom for ur kids. If he loved the kids enough then he would make the changes to be there instead of jail
Hello

Owensboro, KY

#10 Jul 27, 2013
i dont know anymore wrote:
Thanks for your advice sweetie! Too bad I'm not a murderer :)
Topix is a terrible place to get advice because you run into judgemental sad people who try to bring others down.
i dont know anymore

Chicago, IL

#11 Jul 27, 2013
Hello wrote:
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Topix is a terrible place to get advice because you run into judgemental sad people who try to bring others down.
You're being judgemental too. How sad.
Been there

Lexington, KY

#13 Jul 27, 2013
You sound like you can do this by yourself. Why let someone drag you down?
Curious

Owensboro, KY

#14 Jul 27, 2013
Abortion is for You wrote:
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Get an abortion, then have your tubes tied. You're both idiots and should not be bringing more of your defective gene pool into this world. Thanks!
Couldnt have said it better myself...ty
i dont know anymore

United States

#15 Jul 27, 2013
I do know wrote:
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I've never seen a troll so starved for attention. Are you really that mad that they ignored you earlier?


That other I don't know anymore wasn't me, actually.
i dont know anymore

United States

#16 Jul 27, 2013
Hello wrote:
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Topix is a terrible place to get advice because you run into judgemental sad people who try to bring others down.


That other reply wasn't me. Thank you.
i dont know anymore

United States

#17 Jul 27, 2013
Been there wrote:
You sound like you can do this by yourself. Why let someone drag you down?


He just keeps saying he's gonna change. And I've been dumb enough to keep believing him. I told him earlier I wasn't gonna be with him anymore till he shows me he's gonna change to be in our kids life. I love him so much, but I don't want my kids to have to look at their dad behind glass just to see him.
typical redneck

Owensboro, KY

#18 Jul 27, 2013
i dont know anymore wrote:
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He just keeps saying he's gonna change. And I've been dumb enough to keep believing him. I told him earlier I wasn't gonna be with him anymore till he shows me he's gonna change to be in our kids life. I love him so much, but I don't want my kids to have to look at their dad behind glass just to see him.
am hoping you are just stupid and not seriously trying to get good advise from a smut site. Give the baby up, leave your loser boyfriend, and never, ever be a burden to working class again

Since: Jun 13

Ashburn, VA

#19 Jul 27, 2013
i dont know anymore wrote:
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He just keeps saying he's gonna change. And I've been dumb enough to keep believing him. I told him earlier I wasn't gonna be with him anymore till he shows me he's gonna change to be in our kids life. I love him so much, but I don't want my kids to have to look at their dad behind glass just to see him.
be strong for u and ur kids. U can do it
hey

Chicago, IL

#20 Jul 27, 2013
If this who i think it is we have seen each other a couple of times we need to hang out sometime
john

Elizabethtown, IN

#21 Jul 27, 2013
hope things work out for you...

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