fallen out of love
confused

Owensboro, KY

#1 Jun 26, 2013
I think I've fallen out of love with my bf. He is a great guy but I'm not sure if he's the one for me. How do you know if these sudden feelings are real or just a phase? I don't want to push a good guy away but I don't want to hold him back from being happy if I'm not happy with him anymore. What do I do?
welll

Owensboro, KY

#2 Jun 27, 2013
Ask for a break. You don't have to explain. Just take a week away from him. Not to pursue someone else. Just to see if separation makes you feel strongly again. If it doesn't work. Leave.
Tara

Owensboro, KY

#3 Jun 27, 2013
He probably feels the same and doesn't know how to break up with you.
Yea

United States

#5 Jun 27, 2013
I feel the same way lets take a week off and just have us time.
Bet

Chicago, IL

#6 Jun 27, 2013
I agree, let's just do our own thing. If we are meant to be, we will be.
Lol

Florence, KY

#7 Jun 27, 2013
If people took time to understand their feelings divorce wouldn't b so bad. Unhappy homes wouldn't b. a break will show if u want him/her anymore
yeah

Owensboro, KY

#9 Jun 27, 2013
welll wrote:
Ask for a break. You don't have to explain. Just take a week away from him. Not to pursue someone else. Just to see if separation makes you feel strongly again. If it doesn't work. Leave.
So true... Usually, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
confused

Owensboro, KY

#10 Jun 28, 2013
We already don't see each other much. We don't live together and both work opposite hours during the week. We really only get to see each other on the weekends.
evildoer

Morgantown, KY

#11 Jun 28, 2013
How long have you been with him?
yeah

Owensboro, KY

#12 Jun 28, 2013
confused wrote:
We already don't see each other much. We don't live together and both work opposite hours during the week. We really only get to see each other on the weekends.
Then it sounds like maybe both of you need to spend more time together. I know you can't help the work schedule part, but maybe try doing differnet things together on the weekends that you usually don't do. Have both of you ever went out of town and took a vacation together?
confused too

Owensboro, KY

#13 Jun 28, 2013
confused wrote:
We already don't see each other much. We don't live together and both work opposite hours during the week. We really only get to see each other on the weekends.
I am in the same boat as you. I have been with my boyfriend for a total of about 8 years. We dont live together either-never have. We do pretty much work the same hours but we both have a life outside of the other- seperate houses, yardwork, laundry, friends, family etc. I used to be completely totally head over heels in love with him but so much has gone on in our relationship that I just dont feel that way anymore. I love him but certainly not the way I used to or the way I should. I am really hoping things will change and I will get that feeling back that I used to have but right now I am just going through the motions I think out of habit more than anything. Good luck to you. And me too, I think we are both going to need it.
Just Me

United States

#14 Jun 28, 2013
The things that go on in a relationship can really change things for the better or make you feel like your the only one they don't want to be with. Hard to stop loving them sometimes though.
welll

Owensboro, KY

#15 Jun 28, 2013
confused wrote:
We already don't see each other much. We don't live together and both work opposite hours during the week. We really only get to see each other on the weekends.
There has to be something triggering the loss of feeling, or they weren't real to begin with. Find the problem, find the solution. How long have you been in this relationship?

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