can't ever seem to end this a busive relationship

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throughsothrough

Owensboro, KY

#1 Aug 21, 2012
Sooo... My ex-husband cheated on me while I was pregnant then sued me for divorce. I was single for years, but longed for companionship. The traumatic end to my marriage combined with having a baby alone threw me for a loop, and admittedly, my self-esteem was in the gutter. That's when I met my boyfriend of two years who drinks alcoholically everyday, verbally abuses me, doesn't love my son, won't work, and doesn't call for days at a time while leaving his ringer off the hook. Every time I think I'm through he comes back and I run back. Idk why. Why???? I'm afraid of the loneliness
looking

United States

#2 Aug 21, 2012
throughsothrough wrote:
Sooo... My ex-husband cheated on me while I was pregnant then sued me for divorce. I was single for years, but longed for companionship. The traumatic end to my marriage combined with having a baby alone threw me for a loop, and admittedly, my self-esteem was in the gutter. That's when I met my boyfriend of two years who drinks alcoholically everyday, verbally abuses me, doesn't love my son, won't work, and doesn't call for days at a time while leaving his ringer off the hook. Every time I think I'm through he comes back and I run back. Idk why. Why???? I'm afraid of the loneliness
You need a better man, After you take a break, move on . How old are you?
throughsothrough

Owensboro, KY

#4 Aug 21, 2012
looking wrote:
<quoted text>You need a better man, After you take a break, move on . How old are you?
I'm 38
Caring

Owensboro, KY

#5 Aug 21, 2012
throughsothrough wrote:
Sooo... My ex-husband cheated on me while I was pregnant then sued me for divorce. I was single for years, but longed for companionship. The traumatic end to my marriage combined with having a baby alone threw me for a loop, and admittedly, my self-esteem was in the gutter. That's when I met my boyfriend of two years who drinks alcoholically everyday, verbally abuses me, doesn't love my son, won't work, and doesn't call for days at a time while leaving his ringer off the hook. Every time I think I'm through he comes back and I run back. Idk why. Why???? I'm afraid of the loneliness
Dont ever be ashamed for wanting companionship. Everyone needs it. Some more than others. Sounds as if your afraid you wont find someone if you were to opt out. You wont know unless you do try. I have a friend who has a similar situation. He helps pay the bills and gives her money, and she puts out. So, a friend with benefits relationship.
smdh

United States

#6 Aug 21, 2012
If your stupid enough to keep dealing with it, you're not to be felt sorry for. Go grab him another beer, cry into your pillow and cut him some slack for not loving a kid that isn't his.
throughsothrough

Owensboro, KY

#7 Aug 21, 2012
Caring wrote:
<quoted text>Dont ever be ashamed for wanting companionship. Everyone needs it. Some more than others. Sounds as if your afraid you wont find someone if you were to opt out. You wont know unless you do try. I have a friend who has a similar situation. He helps pay the bills and gives her money, and she puts out. So, a friend with benefits relationship.
thank you
throughsothrough

Owensboro, KY

#8 Aug 21, 2012
smdh wrote:
If your stupid enough to keep dealing with it, you're not to be felt sorry for. Go grab him another beer, cry into your pillow and cut him some slack for not loving a kid that isn't his.
truth hurts I know :(
Caring

Owensboro, KY

#9 Aug 21, 2012
smdh wrote:
If your stupid enough to keep dealing with it, you're not to be felt sorry for. Go grab him another beer, cry into your pillow and cut him some slack for not loving a kid that isn't his.
Easier said than done. Some people just feel sucked in. At least looking for input is a start.
throughsothrough

Owensboro, KY

#10 Aug 21, 2012
Caring wrote:
<quoted text>Easier said than done. Some people just feel sucked in. At least looking for input is a start.
I really think I'm through this time. I have had it.
Caring

Owensboro, KY

#11 Aug 21, 2012
throughsothrough wrote:
<quoted text>I really think I'm through this time. I have had it.
As long as your nose is clean, your i's dotted and t's crossed, go for it.
looking

United States

#12 Aug 21, 2012
throughsothrough wrote:
<quoted text>I really think I'm through this time. I have had it.
I'll drink a beer with you
throughsothrough

Owensboro, KY

#13 Aug 21, 2012
looking wrote:
<quoted text>I'll drink a beer with you
Thank you. How old are you?

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