In need of help

Tampa, FL

#1 Nov 17, 2013
My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and we have a baby together but not married. We lived together before the baby was born. And now since the baby was born she is livening with her mom and will not come home and also will not come over and bring the baby over so we can have family time. So I have been staying over at her mom house with her but she gives me no attention until she needs something or her family needs a ride. I don't know what to do. I love her but I don't know how much more I can take.
lol

Greenville, KY

#3 Nov 18, 2013
In need of help wrote:
My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and we have a baby together but not married. We lived together before the baby was born. And now since the baby was born she is livening with her mom and will not come home and also will not come over and bring the baby over so we can have family time. So I have been staying over at her mom house with her but she gives me no attention until she needs something or her family needs a ride. I don't know what to do. I love her but I don't know how much more I can take.
You don't have to be with her to be a good father. Seems odd that she doesn't want to be at your house anymore. Maybe she just feels like she gets help at her parents. Maybe she's just not into you anymore. Babies require a lot of time and attention maybe she's tired. Lots of maybes. Maybe you should ask her? Life is way too short to be unhappy.
Been there

United States

#5 Nov 19, 2013
It's because she wants you when she needs you, but also playing the field to way out her options. Hasn't anything to do with being tired that's the biggest bunch of garbage I've ever heard. I'am sure both homes are supplied with everything needed in order to get a good nights rest. Sorry bro, but it seems like you've gotten yourself a whore! Drop her like a bad habit and then in time you'll see who wants to be with who. I'd suggest leaving her hanging longer than she left you or all together then maybe she'll grow up. Sounds childish. Good luck!!
gail

Greenville, KY

#6 Nov 19, 2013
As somebody that just had a baby dont take it personal. Is this her first baby? Becoming a mom for the first thing can be a very scary thing and she probably feels like she has no idea what she is doing and wants her own mom close by. On top of that there are crazy hormones running through her and unlike what the previous guy said she does not feel like playing the field or anything remotely like that. Theres also a possibility that she has baby blues or post partum depression. Both are very common. Just be supportive. All she is thinking about is how to be a mom and be good at it. She just needs some time and it has nothing to do with you.
Wow

Duluth, GA

#7 Nov 20, 2013
Yeah dude go ahead and be that Taxi cab there is no need for family time at home because I'am sure she's getting plenty of convo elsewhere ( Sarcasm) man don't let any bitch ignore you totally just because you've both recently had a child. Keep on high alert dude I've seen these types of situations turn out bad in the end.
brit

Greenville, KY

#8 Nov 20, 2013
You can sure tell which posts are from men. Clueless men. If you listen to them then you are as pathetic as they are. Giving birth is both a physical and emotional experience for a woman and it does take time to get it all together again.
PDX Dave

Portland, OR

#9 Nov 20, 2013
So basically there was a contraceptive failure? You're not entitled to "family time" because until you're married, you're not a family. You basically got your girlfriend knocked up and now you're complaining! She won't come over, will bring the baby over, while Betty take a hint. This was either an accident, or she wanted a baby and just needed a sperm donor!
In need of help

Madisonville, KY

#10 Nov 20, 2013
PDX Dave wrote:
So basically there was a contraceptive failure? You're not entitled to "family time" because until you're married, you're not a family. You basically got your girlfriend knocked up and now you're complaining! She won't come over, will bring the baby over, while Betty take a hint. This was either an accident, or she wanted a baby and just needed a sperm donor!
You seem to think you know everything, but you are wrong jr. A family consist if a father, a mother, and a child. A piece of paper made up by the government doesn't make you a family. You seem like someone that has been dumped on the side of a road.
DNA

Owensboro, KY

#11 Nov 20, 2013
Make sure the child is yours. That sounds really odd that she doesn't want to be with you. I would be really worried if I were you

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