Delusions of Love
Save Yourself

Owensboro, KY

#1 Feb 23, 2014
I am happy for anyone who has found someone who loves them as much as you love them. But for anyone who has to beg someone to be true to you SAVE YOURSELF. My story is nothing but heartbreak. Reaching out to someone wo doesn't want to be reached. Accused of everything being my fault. Taking no responsibility for his issues and what he did wrong. Telling me he loves me and spitting in my face. Calling and texting me in the middle of the night only to be cussed at for calling him back the next day. Being lied to and threatened. SHOW YOURSELF SOME COMPASSION AND LET THAT PERSON GO
i did

Fishers, IN

#2 Feb 23, 2014
A long time ago.:-)....but I hear what you're saying. I just want to know who's stalking me and why?
wow

United States

#3 Feb 23, 2014
Save Yourself wrote:
I am happy for anyone who has found someone who loves them as much as you love them. But for anyone who has to beg someone to be true to you SAVE YOURSELF. My story is nothing but heartbreak. Reaching out to someone wo doesn't want to be reached. Accused of everything being my fault. Taking no responsibility for his issues and what he did wrong. Telling me he loves me and spitting in my face. Calling and texting me in the middle of the night only to be cussed at for calling him back the next day. Being lied to and threatened. SHOW YOURSELF SOME COMPASSION AND LET THAT PERSON GO
I'm a male , this seems like a true story... Wow
Curious

United States

#4 Feb 24, 2014
Why dont you speak directly to this person? The one who you think is being wronged? Just curious.
Save Yourself

Owensboro, KY

#5 Feb 24, 2014
Curious wrote:
Why dont you speak directly to this person? The one who you think is being wronged? Just curious.
I am that person and so are many people on here from what I can tell. Some people don't know how to love or be loved. They offer nothing but pain and torment and will never change. If you listen carefully in the beginning they tell you with their stories. They bring out the worst in everyone they are with. They take no responsibility for anything they do. It's always someone elses fault. They ignore you. They blame you. They ridicule you. They threaten you. They lie to you. They cheat on you. And if they EVER do admit to any of it they say it was all your fault. That you brought it on yourself. That you deserved it. They are abusers. If everyone would stop putting up with their crap we could put an end to their abuse. Let's have a Ban Abusers Day!!!
wow

United States

#6 Feb 24, 2014
There's got to be a good woman somewhere in this world, just saying
Curious

United States

#7 Feb 25, 2014
Happenned to me once and only once! If you dont get out than you allow yourself to be a victim. I'm not a big threatening looking person quite the opposite but when someone hurts me they're going to regret it. First one found that out the hard way, never touched me again.
Gentry

Madisonville, KY

#8 Feb 25, 2014
Save Yourself wrote:
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I am that person and so are many people on here from what I can tell. Some people don't know how to love or be loved. They offer nothing but pain and torment and will never change. If you listen carefully in the beginning they tell you with their stories. They bring out the worst in everyone they are with. They take no responsibility for anything they do. It's always someone elses fault. They ignore you. They blame you. They ridicule you. They threaten you. They lie to you. They cheat on you. And if they EVER do admit to any of it they say it was all your fault. That you brought it on yourself. That you deserved it. They are abusers. If everyone would stop putting up with their crap we could put an end to their abuse. Let's have a Ban Abusers Day!!!
Well how did you finally get yourself out of the situation you were in? I myself needs to be free but not sure if I'am strong enough to do it.
guest

Jackson, MO

#9 Feb 25, 2014
Save Yourself wrote:
I am happy for anyone who has found someone who loves them as much as you love them. But for anyone who has to beg someone to be true to you SAVE YOURSELF. My story is nothing but heartbreak. Reaching out to someone wo doesn't want to be reached. Accused of everything being my fault. Taking no responsibility for his issues and what he did wrong. Telling me he loves me and spitting in my face. Calling and texting me in the middle of the night only to be cussed at for calling him back the next day. Being lied to and threatened. SHOW YOURSELF SOME COMPASSION AND LET THAT PERSON GO
If you can't become best friends it will never work when the excitement wears off and it will you will need true love to hold it together no amount of babies will produce that one lasting component
Whoa

United States

#10 Feb 25, 2014
Save Yourself wrote:
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I am that person and so are many people on here from what I can tell. Some people don't know how to love or be loved. They offer nothing but pain and torment and will never change. If you listen carefully in the beginning they tell you with their stories. They bring out the worst in everyone they are with. They take no responsibility for anything they do. It's always someone elses fault. They ignore you. They blame you. They ridicule you. They threaten you. They lie to you. They cheat on you. And if they EVER do admit to any of it they say it was all your fault. That you brought it on yourself. That you deserved it. They are abusers. If everyone would stop putting up with their crap we could put an end to their abuse. Let's have a Ban Abusers Day!!!
I swear I think you just described my boyfriend. We've been together for several years. I thought in the beginning if I gave things,friends up that it would prove to him he could let go and trust me but all it did was allow him to control me more. I have never once cheated on him and do more than my share when it comes to bills because I don't want him to say I'm with him for his money, which is what I'm told if I ever dare ask for help if I'm low. I take damn good care of our kid. Now,I hardly have any friends and still get accused of cheating if I spend to long at the store. There have been a few times I stand my ground and get away but then I fall for the I will change harassment. I guess I keep letting him come back because I still hold out hope that he will one day act like a normal,logical person...yeah right. Also,he would make my life a living hell if I ever dated someone else. I just wish after all these years he would realize I am a good woman and he doesn't have anything to worry about. I would live to be able to enjoy life with the one I'm with instead of just existing. I'm not wanting him to take care of me and kiss my butt or anything but it would mean a lot if he wanted to take care of me and actually cared about me feelings. I know,sounds pathetic but I guess I'm pathetic for staying.
Lol

Madisonville, KY

#11 Feb 25, 2014
Not seeing where any babies were included or mentioned but yeah great advice if it applied.
Save Yourself

Owensboro, KY

#12 Feb 26, 2014
Whoa wrote:
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I swear I think you just described my boyfriend. We've been together for several years. I thought in the beginning if I gave things,friends up that it would prove to him he could let go and trust me but all it did was allow him to control me more. I have never once cheated on him and do more than my share when it comes to bills because I don't want him to say I'm with him for his money, which is what I'm told if I ever dare ask for help if I'm low. I take damn good care of our kid. Now,I hardly have any friends and still get accused of cheating if I spend to long at the store. There have been a few times I stand my ground and get away but then I fall for the I will change harassment. I guess I keep letting him come back because I still hold out hope that he will one day act like a normal,logical person...yeah right. Also,he would make my life a living hell if I ever dated someone else. I just wish after all these years he would realize I am a good woman and he doesn't have anything to worry about. I would live to be able to enjoy life with the one I'm with instead of just existing. I'm not wanting him to take care of me and kiss my butt or anything but it would mean a lot if he wanted to take care of me and actually cared about me feelings. I know,sounds pathetic but I guess I'm pathetic for staying.
You aren't pathetic. It's hard. Get some counseling to build up your self esteem. You will either have the confidence to demand a change in him or find the will to leave. I will warn you though. Something about these people make it seem like going thru withdrawls after you leave them. Don't make the mistake of calling or texting. It will only prolong the healing process. And never make them believe it's all your fault and you're the only one with the "problem". It's simply not the case. You probably do have some issues now that weren't there at the beginning of the relationship that's why it's important to find a good counselor to help you through it.
guest

Jackson, MO

#13 Feb 26, 2014
Lol wrote:
Not seeing where any babies were included or mentioned but yeah great advice if it applied.
Babies are implied anytime, when you can catch your true love that way.that is a common trick. But it is not true love just obligation .
Lol

United States

#14 Apr 4, 2014
Save Yourself wrote:
I am happy for anyone who has found someone who loves them as much as you love them. But for anyone who has to beg someone to be true to you SAVE YOURSELF. My story is nothing but heartbreak. Reaching out to someone wo doesn't want to be reached. Accused of everything being my fault. Taking no responsibility for his issues and what he did wrong. Telling me he loves me and spitting in my face. Calling and texting me in the middle of the night only to be cussed at for calling him back the next day. Being lied to and threatened. SHOW YOURSELF SOME COMPASSION AND LET THAT PERSON GO
You are most likely the problem. Sounds familiar.

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