30,married and considering an affair
fix it

Owensboro, KY

#43 May 16, 2013
What you are describing isn't real love. That's why you are unhappy. You may love him, but not the right way. When you really love someone thoughts like that may run across your mind, but they are not entertained. You seem really unhappy. If you can't think of a solution, something you can do to help, there probably isn't one. Leave him.
OUateonetwo

United States

#44 May 16, 2013
And on tomorrow's exciting conclusion?
Will he take her back?
Take her to bed?
Take her to the courtHouse?
Turn ladies & germs......... Lmao
Its Ok

Princeton, KY

#46 May 17, 2013
Leave me your email and we can talk.
The claw

Hopkinsville, KY

#47 May 17, 2013
Leave no one your email. If your going to cheat get divorced. I don't know from experienced but I've thought about doing a lot and I've come to the conclusion I wouldn't want to degrade myself by making me a cheater. The cost of guilt and looking bad out ways the physical feeling. Just find yourself a friend to talk with about things no sex. What are your interest?
Chester

United States

#48 May 17, 2013
Getting a little apparently?
Why I hate Owensboro

Owensboro, KY

#49 May 17, 2013
This post and all the comments sound so typical of the low class of people here in Owensboro.
Chester

United States

#50 May 17, 2013
Who says you have any?
Or that we're in OB?
Jesse needs a new joke

United States

#51 May 17, 2013
Why I hate Owensboro wrote:
This post and all the comments sound so typical of the low class of people here in Owensboro.
Quit crying already. Need a tissue?
BOO

Tucker, GA

#52 May 17, 2013
Do your husband a favor and divorce him first! It will save him from a lot of pain later! Once a cheat, always a cheat!
aunt bee

Owensboro, KY

#53 May 17, 2013
have you tried marriage counseling?
ShaZam

United States

#54 May 17, 2013
Hay you tried poor?
aunt bee

Owensboro, KY

#55 May 17, 2013
ShaZam wrote:
Hay you tried poor?
What does being poor have to do with marriage counseling? Churches can offer it for free or if you arent the church going type contact health department for resources to help.Some mental health services are based on your income and offered to people on a sliding scale for payment.
Andy

United States

#56 May 17, 2013
You sound like a shink is still calling you?
aunt bee

Owensboro, KY

#57 May 17, 2013
Maybe I am the shrink and topix is my best study subject.
seriously

Tucker, GA

#58 May 17, 2013
Don't do it.
Really

Owensboro, KY

#60 May 17, 2013
Why I hate Owensboro wrote:
This post and all the comments sound so typical of the low class of people here in Owensboro.
Yeah, that's right, only cheating occurs in Owensboro Kentucky... right.This type of stuff doesn't happen anywhere else. LOL
There have been many high class men and women who have cheated--such as Arnold Schwarzenegger, many other politicians, Elizabeth Taylor,Princess Diana, and the list goes on... Doesn't matter how low class or high class people are, anybody is capable of such devious behavior.
Lmfao

United States

#61 May 17, 2013
Really wrote:
<quoted text>Yeah, that's right, only cheating occurs in Owensboro Kentucky... right.This type of stuff doesn't happen anywhere else. LOL
There have been many high class men and women who have cheated--such as Arnold Schwarzenegger, many other politicians, Elizabeth Taylor,Princess Diana, and the list goes on... Doesn't matter how low class or high class people are, anybody is capable of such devious behavior.
Don't forget Ronald Reagan.
honestly

Dawson Springs, KY

#62 May 17, 2013
imntrouble wrote:
Help, I'm thinking more and more about other men! An affair doesn't seem so bad. My husband is sweet but we don't connect at all. I miss laughing and being witty with somebody, a friend perhaps, a male friend? I have let myself go so I don't think any men would take interest. Maybe I'm just bored. How do I make this feeling stop?
I can tell you from experience that an affair will NOT help you or your situation. If anything, it WILL confuse you even more. Truthfully, you seriously don't need to add more problems to what you already have. You're not the first or last person to feel like this. Yes, it sucks and you feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. I'll be honest when I say that your husband likely isn't to blame for all of it, that you need to examine yourself, too. Find a way to get help for you both or just yourself to start with. Sometimes when you get in a relationship and you feel stuck or hopeless, it's because you've lost who you are. You become desperate to find you, define you, and make yourself feel some purpose. But don't hurt your husband in the process when he's probably a simple minded man who simply goes to work and comes home everyday to his wife. Think before you do something you CANNOT undo.
Mrs Kim G

Tucker, GA

#63 May 17, 2013
imntrouble wrote:
Help, I'm thinking more and more about other men! An affair doesn't seem so bad. My husband is sweet but we don't connect at all. I miss laughing and being witty with somebody, a friend perhaps, a male friend? I have let myself go so I don't think any men would take interest. Maybe I'm just bored. How do I make this feeling stop?
found your problem. You just stated that you've let yourself go. Why don't you stop moping, and do something about. Start by fixing yourself up more and maybe he'll notice you. Try adding some spice to your love life and rekindle the flame. Get your ass off topix and put this time into patching up thing between you two. You should feel bad, thinking that cheating is going to solve all your problems. That creates even bigger problems. And last, if the connection don't come back. Then it looks like you need to get out of the marriage.
Chester

United States

#65 May 17, 2013
Yeah Ho it up for him!
Then if that don't do it?
Ho it up for others?
What are you a proctologist?

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