Why can't she get it ?
Jumper

Tucker, GA

#1 Feb 22, 2013
Don't understand how a person knowingly hurt someone they say they love but yet continue to do so because they don't have the decency to place a call and tell their ex how they feel or why ? Didn't even get the "O Dear John letter" got nothing !
Reality

Dunmor, KY

#2 Feb 22, 2013
Jumper wrote:
Don't understand how a person knowingly hurt someone they say they love but yet continue to do so because they don't have the decency to place a call and tell their ex how they feel or why ? Didn't even get the "O Dear John letter" got nothing !
They don't respect you. And how can you love something you can't/don't respect. Chalk it up as a lose and move on. These experiences in life are better known as "growing pains".:(
Not it

Tucker, GA

#3 Feb 22, 2013
How wld you know if I loved or respected her ?

“Still counting”

Since: Jan 13

Owensboro

#4 Feb 23, 2013
Jumper wrote:
Don't understand how a person knowingly hurt someone they say they love but yet continue to do so because they don't have the decency to place a call and tell their ex how they feel or why ? Didn't even get the "O Dear John letter" got nothing !
I'm not condoning this but, maybe she is unsure of her feelings right now and she's still trying to figure it out.
Jumper

United States

#5 Feb 23, 2013
Well .... Maybe , really unsure the last 24 hrs , day before she said she loved me , but she won't ever call me only text . And when I text her she might reply in like 6-10 hrs later . Hiding something ? Or someone ? No matter what it is I just wanna know , for myself ! In my opinion no kind of healing process will even begin until your told that they aren't in love with you anymore which I hopes not the case , but stranger things have happened . It's also hard having children involved and my son I haven't seen in 7 days now , it sucks ! I remember when we had got together she had a lil boy by a previous marriage me saying and suggesting that she let his father see him and I even told him myself I wld never even try to come between or suggest she come between her son and his dad . Kids are not to blame for any of adults faults or situations . All I do know is I love her so much and this break up is killing me inside being away from her and my son . I hope they are ok and safe . Only had a couple texts today , which were use to talking almost all day everyday . I just hope this isn't gonna be her final choice , but if so I want to hear it from her .
Reality

Dunmor, KY

#6 Feb 23, 2013
Not it wrote:
How wld you know if I loved or respected her ?
I'm saying they don't love you or respect you.

“Still counting”

Since: Jan 13

Owensboro

#7 Feb 23, 2013
Look you may never hear her say she doesn't love you. Some people think its more cruel to tell the truth than to just leave someone hanging. Bottom line is you can hang around until you fall apart or you can walk away and just move on. If you walk away and she doesn't change the way she treats you then you're better off.
UPDATE

Madisonville, KY

#8 Feb 23, 2013
Got a call ! Wow that was hard :/ well kinda it lasted abt 2 min long enough to hear her say she does love me and has not been with the guy I thought she was. Do I totally believe ? Ahh well I guess I wld like too but you know the longer a person is away the worse/ more distant it's gonna make it if she does come home . Cld we wrk out ? Yes I do think so , easily ? No prob won't be , why ? Because some trust has been broken , but a Relationship is all about work , relationship is like a garden in the summer , It takes work ! To keep it alive . Until I see her and my son and we talk face to face and she can help weed out the lies that may have been said and set the record straight with truth . I love her without any doubt or I would had thrown my hands up years ago when life/ relationship had some rough patches . She knows I love her I do believe it but I think she has let to many followers influence her and that may be her weakness . FACT IS. If BOTH parties love each other then they will find a way to figure out the differences and push the others to the side and I am not referring to ( children ) before some read gets their panties in al bunch . COME HOME ----- you've had a home all a long . Missing my baby boy.....
Reality

Dunmor, KY

#9 Feb 23, 2013
UPDATE wrote:
Got a call ! Wow that was hard :/ well kinda it lasted abt 2 min long enough to hear her say she does love me and has not been with the guy I thought she was. Do I totally believe ? Ahh well I guess I wld like too but you know the longer a person is away the worse/ more distant it's gonna make it if she does come home . Cld we wrk out ? Yes I do think so , easily ? No prob won't be , why ? Because some trust has been broken , but a Relationship is all about work , relationship is like a garden in the summer , It takes work ! To keep it alive . Until I see her and my son and we talk face to face and she can help weed out the lies that may have been said and set the record straight with truth . I love her without any doubt or I would had thrown my hands up years ago when life/ relationship had some rough patches . She knows I love her I do believe it but I think she has let to many followers influence her and that may be her weakness . FACT IS. If BOTH parties love each other then they will find a way to figure out the differences and push the others to the side and I am not referring to ( children ) before some read gets their panties in al bunch . COME HOME ----- you've had a home all a long . Missing my baby boy.....
In reality you're a SUCKER !
UPDATE

Madisonville, KY

#10 Feb 23, 2013
Nah I wld prefer to say i'am in love with her , never said it was going to be easy nor just forgotten but when u really love someone as much as I do for her you'll try to listen , understand , forgive , NOT THE UNFORGIVABLE ~ Let's don't get the two confused , and redirection & changes . Hey I sleep well at night ! I DON'T REGRET MY DECISIONS I AM THE ONLY ONE THAT HAS TO LIVE WITH OR WITHOUT some mistakes along the way . Hey life sucks sometimes , way I see it just take the damn punch and roll with it !!! can't live your entire life afraid of making choices , but I MAKE MY OWN !!!!!!!
Watch and learn

Bowling Green, KY

#11 Feb 23, 2013
Closure with Narcissist Abusers-Fat chance

http://youtu.be/ZlMf1zXuvm0
Lmfao

Madisonville, KY

#12 Feb 23, 2013
Somebody is studying this trend way to much !! That was kinda retarded . You do what u need to and I got my end covered but thanks .
Reality

Dunmor, KY

#13 Feb 23, 2013
UPDATE wrote:
Nah I wld prefer to say i'am in love with her , never said it was going to be easy nor just forgotten but when u really love someone as much as I do for her you'll try to listen , understand , forgive , NOT THE UNFORGIVABLE ~ Let's don't get the two confused , and redirection & changes . Hey I sleep well at night ! I DON'T REGRET MY DECISIONS I AM THE ONLY ONE THAT HAS TO LIVE WITH OR WITHOUT some mistakes along the way . Hey life sucks sometimes , way I see it just take the damn punch and roll with it !!! can't live your entire life afraid of making choices , but I MAKE MY OWN !!!!!!!
I love my man. When he calls, and I happen to miss it, I call right back. It NEVER takes me 8 hours. When he calls, I call him back never text back. Good luck. But I think you're wasting precious time.

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