confused

Owensboro, KY

#1 May 2, 2013
Are they really something we should listen to or is it just our insecurities showing themselves?
what

United States

#2 May 2, 2013
explain what feelings dear are you worried about
curious

Owensboro, KY

#3 May 2, 2013
Being lied to.
confused

Owensboro, KY

#4 May 2, 2013
Yes being lied to.
Ladies man

Tucker, GA

#5 May 2, 2013
What are you being lied to about
suggestion

Holton, IN

#6 May 2, 2013
Usually those "guy feelings" aren't with out cause. Could you be overreacting? Yes. But I would suggest trying to stay neutral, while investigating deeper. Try not to falsely accuse them, and dont play the fool.

Level 6

Since: Mar 13

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#7 May 2, 2013
What do you think you are being lied to about?

Gut feelings should be listened to and like suggestion said warrants further investigation.
qewdude

Pittsburgh, PA

#8 May 2, 2013
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Belly Full
Fed up

Owensboro, KY

#9 May 2, 2013
confused wrote:
Are they really something we should listen to or is it just our insecurities showing themselves?
Sometimes they are. Sometimes not.
confused

Owensboro, KY

#10 May 2, 2013
I'm trying to decide if its just my insecurities or legit. Of course it's a man lol. Aint it always a man.
been there

United States

#11 May 2, 2013
My gut feelings have always been right, its your insecurities that make u want to try agian. Maybe if i had done this or maybe if i had done that. relationship takes two. be strong and move on
Curious

Owensboro, KY

#12 May 2, 2013
been there wrote:
My gut feelings have always been right, its your insecurities that make u want to try agian. Maybe if i had done this or maybe if i had done that. relationship takes two. be strong and move on
My gut feelings haven't always been right. My intuition tells me something is wrong and that is always right but about half the time what I think is wrong isn't. It's either my insecurities or something else getting in the way. So now I usally go on fact finding missions in order not to look like a fool. But old habits are hard to break. It's best to be able to admit to yourself that you might be wrong and look at the cold hard facts instead of a "feeling".
whats the diff

United States

#13 May 2, 2013
Between gut feelings and intuition? what happend to the days when u meet someone and fall in love or don't. decide to be faithful or leave. If you feel you have to dig its my experience you will always find dirt.

Level 1

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#15 May 2, 2013
confused wrote:
I'm trying to decide if its just my insecurities or legit. Of course it's a man lol. Aint it always a man.
I'm sorry but no its not always a man. I would have to say your gut feelings are usually accurate. At least mine have been.
looking

Providence, KY

#16 May 2, 2013
Sorry cant have my man!!!!! I'm keeping both of them!!!!!!
bee

Owensboro, KY

#17 May 2, 2013
I always go with my gut
truth

Princeton, KY

#18 May 2, 2013
confused wrote:
Are they really something we should listen to or is it just our insecurities showing themselves?
Trust your gut.
Martha Love

Honolulu, HI

#19 May 3, 2013
confused wrote:
"Are they really something we should listen to or is it just our insecurities showing themselves?"

Both are possibly true! Your gut feelings hold the knowledge of the impact of your past experiences upon you. So you can listen to how you are feeling in regards to a relationship and your gut will remember similar times in the past when you were experiencing something similar lacking ( it could even be in early childhood — in a relationship of a different kind). You need to reflect back in time and center on that feeling in your gut (the emptiness connected to an insecurity as you have called it) and see where it takes you. Then look around in that feeling memory and you will learn a lot about yourself and your needs as a person. Your gut may be holding a message for you that may be very important in making a current decision or it may be telling you that you still have something inside that needs to be resolved within for the current relationship to work. Your gut may be both telling you that you are not getting what you need out of the current relationship and it may also be telling you that you need to explore inwardly and clear yourself of past unresolved issues to help be strong enough to make this relationship in the present work. Remember that for others to know you, you have to be willing to show them who you are and often we hide in our insecurities form others the best part of ourselves.

Martha Love,
Author of “What’s Behind Your Belly Button? A Psychological Perspective of the Intelligence of Human Nature and Gut Instinct”

Blog: http://instinctualgutfeelings.blogspot.com

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