J.R.

United States

#1 Aug 21, 2013
Im in a real bad spot. I have a friend who is in a relationship wit a girl that is real sweet. They had there ups and downs already in the 7 or 8? Months they been together my friends girl f*ucked up and it's been drama since. Not to long ago my friend told me that she stays wit the girl for wrong reasons. Says she loves her but ain't in love wit her no more. Her girl have her a car to drive and does anything for her tryna make sh*t right again. My friend is lettin this girl think that the relationship is gettin better but really my friend is jus there til somethin better comes around. She's talkin to other females an sh*t to. Me and my friend are pretty close but I've known her girl for a while now and she's got a kid and sh*t that's close to my friend. Do I tell my friends girl and deal wit my friend later or jus keep my mouth shut and stay outta the mess?
UsLesbians

Owensboro, KY

#2 Aug 21, 2013
You should be honest with them both because if they found out you knew, you could lose a friendship.
J.R.

United States

#3 Aug 21, 2013
My friend that's doin wrong is the one that told me everything. She trusted me with it but I feel like sh*t not tellin her girl bc like I said I've known her girl for a while now. We ain't really friends. We don't talk unless she comes over to mine and my girls house with my friend(her gf that's bein shady) but I feel real bad for her. But on the other hand I don't wanna go behind my friends back when she trusted me to tell it all to.
LesbianMom

United States

#4 Aug 21, 2013
You should most certainly tell the girl! For starters? If she were an ACTUAL friend she wouldn't put you in a situation that makes you feel uncomfortable or in some way makes you pick a side. No matter how close you are to the girl, as a human being in general with a heart that is clearly involved and feelings, she has the right to know. Not just for herself, but for her child as well. Your friends girlfriend is an adult and can decide for herself whether or not she wants to get close to someone taking the risk of them walking out and leaving her heartbroken. But her child? Smh. Her child is too innocent to make that decision. The child's mother needs to know so she can do her job as a mom and protect her baby. DEFINITELY tell her and don't worry about what your "friend" will say. If she were any sort of decent person that you needed in your life? She would NOT be doing this to this poor girl and her INNOCENT child!
in the shadows

United States

#5 Aug 22, 2013
[QUOTE who="J.R."]Im in a real bad spot. I have a friend who is in a relationship wit a girl that is real sweet. They had there ups and downs already in the 7 or 8? Months they been together my friends girl f*ucked up and it's been drama since. Not to long ago my friend told me that she stays wit the girl for wrong reasons. Says she loves her but ain't in love wit her no more. Her girl have her a car to drive and does anything for her tryna make sh*t right again. My friend is lettin this girl think that the relationship is gettin better but really my friend is jus there til somethin better comes around. She's talkin to other females an sh*t to. Me and my friend are pretty close but I've known her girl for a while now and she's got a kid and sh*t that's close to my friend. Do I tell my friends girl and deal wit my friend later or jus keep my mouth shut and stay outta the mess?[/QUOTE]

I kno where u r comin from but I am in a different position. See I am "best friends" with my ex gf and her gf nos that we text and talk. What she doesnt no is that we sleep together sometimes. She works at US bank so she always has an excuse to stay over or go in early but really we are hookin up in my car. I dont no her gf but I feel kind of bad because her gf trusts us enough to text. Idk what to do about it I love my ex and I feel bad about what were doin but I cant make myself stop.
Twist Em up

United States

#6 Aug 22, 2013
Solution to every thing three words ....BIG LESBIAN ORGY! And ill even come too!
Youshouldnt

Centertown, KY

#7 Aug 22, 2013
[QUOTE who="J.R."]Im in a real bad spot. I have a friend who is in a relationship wit a girl that is real sweet. They had there ups and downs already in the 7 or 8? Months they been together my friends girl f*ucked up and it's been drama since. Not to long ago my friend told me that she stays wit the girl for wrong reasons. Says she loves her but ain't in love wit her no more. Her girl have her a car to drive and does anything for her tryna make sh*t right again. My friend is lettin this girl think that the relationship is gettin better but really my friend is jus there til somethin better comes around. She's talkin to other females an sh*t to. Me and my friend are pretty close but I've known her girl for a while now and she's got a kid and sh*t that's close to my friend. Do I tell my friends girl and deal wit my friend later or jus keep my mouth shut and stay outta the mess?[/QUOTE]
What you need to ask yourself is how good of a friend is she? How would you feel if she isn't in your life at all? If you tell her girlfriend on her, you broke that trust as a friend. It will never be the same. To make your self feel better you should talk to your friend, tell her how you feel and that she needs to stop with the girlfriend. If you don't care to lose her as a friend then tell it. Make sure you want to lose that friendship because trusting to tell someone everything is a friendship.
vito

United States

#8 Aug 25, 2013
[QUOTE who="J.R."]Im in a real bad spot. I have a friend who is in a relationship wit a girl that is real sweet. They had there ups and downs already in the 7 or 8? Months they been together my friends girl f*ucked up and it's been drama since. Not to long ago my friend told me that she stays wit the girl for wrong reasons. Says she loves her but ain't in love wit her no more. Her girl have her a car to drive and does anything for her tryna make sh*t right again. My friend is lettin this girl think that the relationship is gettin better but really my friend is jus there til somethin better comes around. She's talkin to other females an sh*t to. Me and my friend are pretty close but I've known her girl for a while now and she's got a kid and sh*t that's close to my friend. Do I tell my friends girl and deal wit my friend later or jus keep my mouth shut and stay outta the mess?[/QUOTE]

What is your "friend's" initials? Or their first initial?
hmmm

Richmond, KY

#9 Aug 25, 2013
It's weird that most of the posters in this thread, have a Birmingham address.
Molly

United States

#10 Aug 25, 2013
hmmm wrote:
It's weird that most of the posters in this thread, have a Birmingham address.
Most posters post from Birmingham or Owensboro. Birmingham is the new "united states"
anonymous

United States

#11 Aug 25, 2013
[QUOTE who="J.R."]Im in a real bad spot. I have a friend who is in a relationship wit a girl that is real sweet. They had there ups and downs already in the 7 or 8? Months they been together my friends girl f*ucked up and it's been drama since. Not to long ago my friend told me that she stays wit the girl for wrong reasons. Says she loves her but ain't in love wit her no more. Her girl have her a car to drive and does anything for her tryna make sh*t right again. My friend is lettin this girl think that the relationship is gettin better but really my friend is jus there til somethin better comes around. She's talkin to other females an sh*t to. Me and my friend are pretty close but I've known her girl for a while now and she's got a kid and sh*t that's close to my friend. Do I tell my friends girl and deal wit my friend later or jus keep my mouth shut and stay outta the mess?[/QUOTE]

What did your friends girlfriend do for there to be drama? If it's true, it sound like she did something super fu cked up and maybe she doesn't deserve forgiveness?
problem solved

United States

#12 Aug 26, 2013
Be with a man.
lol

Hopkinsville, KY

#14 Aug 27, 2013
problem solved wrote:
Be with a man.
Right you need the d
BoozieB

Owensboro, KY

#15 Aug 27, 2013
lol wrote:
<quoted text>
Right you need the d
They are no better!! A woman knows another woman's hot spots and how to utilize them. How to give excellent oral pleasure for more than 5 minutes too. We have strap on's that could be mistaken for real (don't ask don't tell). What do we need you for?
pretty sure

Owensboro, KY

#18 Aug 27, 2013
Riiight I can go for 15/20 if not longer. I pay attention to my girls body language. No man can give off the magic over got!!!
lol

Hopkinsville, KY

#19 Aug 27, 2013
BoozieB wrote:
<quoted text>They are no better!! A woman knows another woman's hot spots and how to utilize them. How to give excellent oral pleasure for more than 5 minutes too. We have strap on's that could be mistaken for real (don't ask don't tell). What do we need you for?
Damn calm down go put that strap on in your mouth

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