accountability

Saint Charles, KY

#1 Feb 23, 2013
Since my divorce a few years ago, I had hopes of finding someone who would finally treat me like the lady I know I am and deserve to be treated as.(Yes, I know I am not going to find anyone on Topix nor is that what my intentions are. This is just a vent.) I have dated a few guys and they all start the same with them trying to impress, buying dinner and sending flowers and then it quickly becomes more of them at my home eating my groceries and using my things. I wonder if I am being petty, but then I think if you're dating, and he is the man then he should be treating me not living off me. Not that any of them have lived with me. It just feels like I buy the groceries and fix the meals and wait on them. Not much different than being married aside from the double income. Now I am supporting myself and kids and feeding another person. When we go places as in vacation we split the cost. If we go on little outings I buy the tickets. Is it just me or does that not sound like a real man? I think a real man would be embarrassed to ask a woman to pay. Especially when he talks about how much he makes.
Some guy

Owensboro, KY

#3 Feb 23, 2013
He shouldn't have to pay for everything but he should deff offer. And shouldn't be costing you money

Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#4 Feb 23, 2013
accountability wrote:
Since my divorce a few years ago, I had hopes of finding someone who would finally treat me like the lady I know I am and deserve to be treated as.(Yes, I know I am not going to find anyone on Topix nor is that what my intentions are. This is just a vent.) I have dated a few guys and they all start the same with them trying to impress, buying dinner and sending flowers and then it quickly becomes more of them at my home eating my groceries and using my things. I wonder if I am being petty, but then I think if you're dating, and he is the man then he should be treating me not living off me. Not that any of them have lived with me. It just feels like I buy the groceries and fix the meals and wait on them. Not much different than being married aside from the double income. Now I am supporting myself and kids and feeding another person. When we go places as in vacation we split the cost. If we go on little outings I buy the tickets. Is it just me or does that not sound like a real man? I think a real man would be embarrassed to ask a woman to pay. Especially when he talks about how much he makes.
I think those are the wrong guys for you. You can do better than those. There are good ones out there that will treat you like a lady.
maybe

Princeton, KY

#5 Feb 23, 2013
accountability wrote:
Since my divorce a few years ago, I had hopes of finding someone who would finally treat me like the lady I know I am and deserve to be treated as.(Yes, I know I am not going to find anyone on Topix nor is that what my intentions are. This is just a vent.) I have dated a few guys and they all start the same with them trying to impress, buying dinner and sending flowers and then it quickly becomes more of them at my home eating my groceries and using my things. I wonder if I am being petty, but then I think if you're dating, and he is the man then he should be treating me not living off me. Not that any of them have lived with me. It just feels like I buy the groceries and fix the meals and wait on them. Not much different than being married aside from the double income. Now I am supporting myself and kids and feeding another person. When we go places as in vacation we split the cost. If we go on little outings I buy the tickets. Is it just me or does that not sound like a real man? I think a real man would be embarrassed to ask a woman to pay. Especially when he talks about how much he makes.
You need to date a woman. NEVER thought I would. We do everything better than men. Who knows....might find one that pays 4 everything LOL.

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