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confused

Owensboro, KY

#1 Sep 3, 2013
so i just found out that a girl is texting my husband. he didn't tell me about it, i found it on his phone. he says nothing is going on, that he didn't tell me because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. i think that sounds weird. would you confront the girl if you knew who it was?
:)

Henderson, KY

#2 Sep 3, 2013
Yes
ithinkilovehim

Douglasville, GA

#3 Sep 3, 2013
If yu confront her, be nice cuz ur guy is the one who should be in trouble. Be nice until she gets hateful of of course. But if your guy hasnt given yu a reason to not trust him, then believe him wen he says nuthin goin on.
Ohyea

United States

#5 Sep 3, 2013
confused wrote:
so i just found oOhut that a girl is texting my husband. he didn't tell me about it, i found it on his phone. he says nothing is going on, that he didn't tell me because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. i think that sounds weird. would you confront the girl if you knew who it was?
Yes ma'am I would contact the person texting your husband. People have NO RIGHT texting any married person. They is the start of
Something. Also, married people should NOT be texting single people. Adultery starts somewhere.
Yetagain

United States

#6 Sep 3, 2013
confused wrote:
so i just found out that a girl is texting my husband. he didn't tell me about it, i found it on his phone. he says nothing is going on, that he didn't tell me because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. i think that sounds weird. would you confront the girl if you knew who it was?
Yet again looks like another home wrecking wh$re! Yes you should!
its about trust

Hopkinsville, KY

#7 Sep 3, 2013
Depends...is this someone you both know or just a random chick .. If its some random c*nt hell ya I'd call her and ask if she knew he was married. However I have guy friends I text and its nothing like that.. Im married and my husband knows I text them bc he knows he can trust me...if you can't trust him then maybe you need to think about that bc now he knows your looking at his phone he will just find another way to hide it if he is a cheater. My husband also has girls he text but I know them and he would never cheat on me.
Mmmm

United States

#8 Sep 3, 2013
its about trust wrote:
Depends...is this someone you both know or just a random chick .. If its some random c*nt hell ya I'd call her and ask if she knew he was married. However I have guy friends I text and its nothing like that.. Im married and my husband knows I text them bc he knows he can trust me...if you can't trust him then maybe you need to think about that bc now he knows your looking at his phone he will just find another way to hide it if he is a cheater. My
husband also has girls he text but I know them
and he would never cheat on me.
Never say never. May bite you just sayin. And I hope it doesn't to you.
Its about trust

Hopkinsville, KY

#9 Sep 3, 2013
Trust me we have talked about it and he has already told me if his that unhappy that he is going to cheat he would just leave first
Mmmm

United States

#10 Sep 3, 2013
Its about trust wrote:
Trust me we have talked about it and he has already told me if his that unhappy that he is going to cheat he would just leave first
That's the way it should be. Affairs/adultery/cheating, whatever one wants to call it effects so many people. There is never a winner. Family are thrown apart and kids get hard feels that are hard to restore and will never except the one that took the parent away Parents get hurt because they didn't raise their children this away. Other family member get hurt
and don't except the other person. If there are grandkids they are thrown because kid like kids holidays and get together will never be the same. They miss mom and dad/ grandpa and nana's. People seem to always get all wrapped up with THERE feelings and fail to stop and look at the Kids, grandkids feelings. What happened to family first?
confused

Owensboro, KY

#11 Sep 3, 2013
I know if the girl, but we don't all hang out together or anything. He's been with her before, before we were together. and I usually trust him. I was going thru his about something concerning our kids, and saw a strange message from someone I didn't know. this whole thing is pretty crazy.
Janie

United States

#12 Sep 3, 2013
Married people have every right to text and be texted by others. Just because you married them doesn't mean you own them. and keep your big fat nose out of his phone.
Its about trust

Hopkinsville, KY

#13 Sep 3, 2013
confused wrote:
I know if the girl, but we don't all hang out together or anything. He's been with her before, before we were together. and I usually trust him. I was going thru his about something concerning our kids, and saw a strange message from someone I didn't know. this whole thing is pretty crazy.
So what did he say about her, is he going to continue to text her even though he knows it hurts you or is he going to stop
confused

Owensboro, KY

#14 Sep 3, 2013
Janie wrote:
Married people have every right to text and be texted by others. Just because you married them doesn't mean you own them. and keep your big fat nose out of his phone.
we usually share everything. I have never gone thru his phone before. like I said, it was something about my kids that made me check it. and if you saw the message you'd think itccwas strange too. I'm not posting the exact message here in case she reads this website because I'm not looking for that kind of drama.
Well

Hopkinsville, KY

#15 Sep 3, 2013
What was the msg about? If it was bad I'd be pissed myself!
confused

Owensboro, KY

#16 Sep 3, 2013
Well wrote:
What was the msg about? If it was bad I'd be pissed myself!
it wasn't sexual in nature, though it could have been. it was at 6 am, which was strange because he works nights and that's about the time he gets off work. and it was random small talk, like they talk frequently that she'd be sharing that with him.

he said she's just psychotic and has been sending him random messages for a long time, and that he's never responded and has asked her to stop but she hasn't.

best believe if he's telling me the truth that I will totally bust out the skank.
Well

Hopkinsville, KY

#17 Sep 3, 2013
You can find out if his telling the truth, not sure what phone company you go threw but you can get a log of texts. It won't show the msg but it will show if he was texting her back. That's what I would do. Then you would know if shes always texts him or if he has been texting her also. My guess is he doesn't want you to know the truth if he is calling her psychotic. Men tend to say bad sh*t about the other woman. Do you know how long this has been going on?
Janie

United States

#18 Sep 3, 2013
Leave well enough alone. It's really none of your business.
Hey

Hopkinsville, KY

#19 Sep 3, 2013
Janie wrote:
Leave well enough alone. It's really none of your business.
She asked what would you do? And people are telling her so STFU!
confused

Owensboro, KY

#20 Sep 3, 2013
Well wrote:
You can find out if his telling the truth, not sure what phone company you go threw but you can get a log of texts. It won't show the msg but it will show if he was texting her back. That's what I would do. Then you would know if shes always texts him or if he has been texting her also. My guess is he doesn't want you to know the truth if he is calling her psychotic. Men tend to say bad sh*t about the other woman. Do you know how long this has been going on?
I really have no idea. and, unfortunately, we aren't on the same phone plan, so I can't see that information, but that would be an excellent way to check and not involve anyone else.

and I wonder that, too. if she really is psychotic, then why wouldn't he just tell me? why wouldn't he just change his phone number? block her on Facebook?
confused

Owensboro, KY

#21 Sep 3, 2013
Janie wrote:
Leave well enough alone. It's really none of your business.
my husband keeping secrets from me is definitely my business.

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