Who is he

Owensboro, KY

#23 Jan 14, 2013
What's his name? If he's cheating, the world will tell you
awesome

Hopkinsville, KY

#24 Jan 14, 2013
I agree with sexxxxy you need to go. It's not good for you or your little girl. There is always a way out. Try family or friends. It might suck but it's better than dealing with his shit and remember that you are a person not an object!! Sometimes you have to put yourself first!

Level 1

Since: Aug 12

Cadiz, KY

#25 Jan 14, 2013
what a loser wrote:
call a friend or parent to pick you up when he hides the keys, then have your dad show up with his shotgun and force him to give up your car keys, then get your stuff and leave. you believe he is cheating, and all the abuse, LEAVE! dont be like these other dumbass girls and stay in a shitty relationship just because you think you're in love.. get out now, there is plenty of other guys out there that will treat you right.
This... X 1000
Well

Owensboro, KY

#26 Jan 14, 2013
[QUOTE who=":( "]Every time we fight he is mean with his words. I am starting to believe I am useless and worthless. I can never do anything right. As of today, I can't even do sex right. I'm lost. Lonely and scared. Everyday I cry. Everyday he knocks me down more. I don't even want to live anymore[/QUOTE]
Maybe you should try and stand up for yourself and see if that changes his attitude?
Well

Owensboro, KY

#27 Jan 14, 2013
Life wrote:
My current lover has cheated on me 4 times that I know about and wonders why things aren't working.
Seems like there is a reason you are still with him/her. You either don't believe it or since you two are still together it actually SHOULD be worked on. True love is hard to find.
Well

Owensboro, KY

#28 Jan 14, 2013
[QUOTE who=":("]<quoted text>
I do not think there are any good men out there
[/QUOTE]
You are wrong there are LOTS of good men around !
truth

Princeton, KY

#29 Jan 14, 2013
The thought of being alone is one of the scariest that we experience. The fact that he hides your keys is incredible scary to be...classic abuser behavior. We all deserve to have love, respect, and someone who doesn't hurt us emotionally, physically, spiritually, or sexually. God bless you. I hope you find peace of mind, spirit, and security.
just another girl

Tucker, GA

#31 Jan 14, 2013
[QUOTE who=":("]<quoted text>
Not really. I work but not enough to support my daughter and myself. We have two vehicles but he has hidden my keys, again[/QUOTE]

I have a spare room......live by myself ........ur welcome to it......drama free is a must

Level 1

Since: Aug 12

Owensboro, KY

#32 Jan 14, 2013
just another girl wrote:
<quoted text>
I have a spare room......live by myself ........ur welcome to it......drama free is a must
Wow
?!?!

Morganfield, KY

#33 Jan 14, 2013
RedFoX88 wrote:
<quoted text>Wow
Why is that "wow" ? Ppl cant help each other ?

Level 3

Since: Jan 13

Richmond, KY

#34 Jan 14, 2013
goodguy wrote:
there is good guys out there, like myself. im apparently so much of a nice guy that im always friend zoned.
Thank God I'm not alone any more! there are other nice guys suffering in singleness as myself. misery loves company LOL I think the nice guys and the poor mistreated women must live on different planes of existence, why else would they never find each other. fact is stranger than fiction.

Level 1

Since: Aug 12

Owensboro, KY

#35 Jan 14, 2013
[QUOTE who="?!?!"]<quote d text>
Why is that "wow" ? Ppl cant help each other ?[/QUOTE]

No it's wow because that's a very generous offer

Level 1

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#36 Jan 14, 2013
Get out. No excuses. No listening to the part of you that says stay with him. Ignore the fear of being alone or whatever is keeping you there. Get. Out. Your daughter will grow up thinking this is normal and will end up in the same situation if you stay. I have been where you are. It got physical eventually. I almost died. Do not wait that long. Just go. If he works, wait till he leaves. Take your kid and whatever you need that you can carry and take a cab to oasis. They'll pay the fee. If you can't get a cab walk to a phone and call one from there. Don't think about it. Just do it. If he doesn't work, get him to take you to the grocery store along with your kid and just walk up to someone that works there and ask to use the phone and call 911. He won't do anything to you in public. Just do whatever you need to do to get out and screw whatever consequences you think there may be. Nothing is worth this. Nothing is worth raising your child in that situation. Just go.

Level 1

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#37 Jan 14, 2013
just another girl wrote:
[QUOTE who=":("]<quoted text>
Not really. I work but not enough to support my daughter and myself. We have two vehicles but he has hidden my keys, again"

I have a spare room......live by myself ........ur welcome to it......drama free is a must
you're awesome.

Level 1

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#38 Jan 14, 2013
You can also send me your address and I will have someone come get you. I'm not in town. But I have lots of friends and family who would love to help.
Fun

Owensboro, KY

#39 Jan 14, 2013
Call oasis. I volunteered there for a while and it seemed like a really nice place. the whole time I was thinkin I how I wish I would have known about them years ago. U can live there. They feed u have day for your child counseling anything u need. They help I get into college find a permanent home everything go there it will be the best thing uve ever done. if I had know about it my life would have been soo much better so much quicker its good now I just could have gotten on my feet so much quicker had I known about places like these. So go there

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#40 Jan 14, 2013
truth wrote:
We all deserve to have love, respect, and someone who doesn't hurt us emotionally, physically, spiritually, or sexually.
I completely agree with your entire post, but this line above continues to stick out in my mind. How often do we see these very ideals, the things we so yearn for, twisted and used against the one we profess to love? I'm not the kind of person who quickly says 'leave him' nor am I holding myself out there as some better alternative. However, if this truly is happening in your relationship, you probably should make plans to get out of that environment, both for your sake and the welfare of your child. Sorry, but it's the sad truth.

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#42 Jan 14, 2013
music_eagle_4 wrote:
<quoted text>
misery loves company LOL I think the nice guys and the poor mistreated women must live on different planes of existence, why else would they never find each other.
That's not far from reality. They're not LOOKING for each other, so they don't see one another as either available to them or as a viable alternative. If you're 'attracted' to the badboy, player type and keep getting burned, but don't look at other types of men, you'll repeat the same terrible relationships over and over. Who among us has never suffered from buyers remorse? Most people change or adapt after 1 or 2 bad experiences. Some become trapped, either in the one or the pattern.

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#44 Jan 14, 2013
Miss Smarties wrote:
You can also send me your address and I will have someone come get you. I'm not in town. But I have lots of friends and family who would love to help.
You and the other girl are both awesome. I'm guessing you don't have any ulterior motives and just want to see her and her child get to a better place. Very nice work, whether she takes you up on this or not. Bravo my dear.
real
#46 Jan 15, 2013
just because ur situation called for them actions does not necessarily mean everyone else's does im sure the advice is appreciated but she might be the type to bash her face in the wall then call 911 ...... just stating noone knows the real truth theres two sides always is

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