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Since: Feb 12

Owensboro, KY

#21 Jan 14, 2013
Fun wrote:
<quoted text>so go make some. There has to be somebody u could chill with. If not grab a cousin go to a club and mingle. U will find some. I normally have one or two friends that I go out with. A couple years ago my friend who I clubbed with at the time got a man and wouldnt go. I hadnt been out in months so I had no one to go with. Literally no one. Not one single person. I was not going to sit at home so I just went by myself. I was standing there all alone just scanning for someone I knew and this girl that i might have kinda remembered walked up and was sure she knew me. she was alone that night too. I did finally remeber her she actualy knew a friend of mine and we had all chatted a couple times like 5 years proir and she remembered ne. So we had sooo much fun that night. We danced with each other which attracted guys. it was fun. Every weekend after me her and her friend all went out every weekend. it was great and we are all still freinds. Awsome. The point of my story is just get out there. U never kmow who u might bump into or meet. If u cant find a.cousin go yourself. Someone will talk to u.
I don't do clubs or bars. I don't dance. None of that is fun to me.

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#23 Jan 14, 2013
Life is the point of life. There is beauty, ugliness, pain, pleasure, and much more all around you. Life is about what you focus on. If you focus on pain, your life will be mostly painful. If you focus on beauty, it will be mostly beautiful. If you focus on yourself, your life will be lonely. If you focus on the past, your future will be empty. You don't need a partner to make you happy. If you have no friends, make some. Go to a homeless shelter and volunteer. Find a group of people who are interested in what you are interested in and make an effort to connect with them. Friendships take effort. People aren't meant to live their lives alone, but that doesn't mean that they need a partner. It means that they need friends that they can connect with and build relationships with. If you can't be happy alone you won't be happy in a relationship. Not for very long. You may feel happy for a while, but it won't last until you learn to be happy yourself. Happiness is largely a choice. It's not always easy to be happy. You have to choose to focus on the good things in life. It's not easy, especially at first. But it does become a habit after a while. Take time to enjoy the simple things in life. Stop worrying about what you don't have, and focus on what you do have.
Fun

Owensboro, KY

#24 Jan 14, 2013
Miss Smarties wrote:
Life is the point of life. There is beauty, ugliness, pain, pleasure, and much more all around you. Life is about what you focus on. If you focus on pain, your life will be mostly painful. If you focus on beauty, it will be mostly beautiful. If you focus on yourself, your life will be lonely. If you focus on the past, your future will be empty. You don't need a partner to make you happy. If you have no friends, make some. Go to a homeless shelter and volunteer. Find a group of people who are interested in what you are interested in and make an effort to connect with them. Friendships take effort. People aren't meant to live their lives alone, but that doesn't mean that they need a partner. It means that they need friends that they can connect with and build relationships with. If you can't be happy alone you won't be happy in a relationship. Not for very long. You may feel happy for a while, but it won't last until you learn to be happy yourself. Happiness is largely a choice. It's not always easy to be happy. You have to choose to focus on the good things in life. It's not easy, especially at first. But it does become a habit after a while. Take time to enjoy the simple things in life. Stop worrying about what you don't have, and focus on what you do have.
that is really great advise for anybody.
Fun

Owensboro, KY

#25 Jan 14, 2013
GreenSkulls wrote:
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I don't do clubs or bars. I don't dance. None of that is fun to me.
thats fine. Go do anything u like. Just get out there. What do u like to do. Volunteer for a cause u believe in. take a class at a gym. Just do something. There are people everywhere. Take ur kids to the park. Start a conversation with the other parents. Go to ur kids pta meetings or any extra curricilar activities they are involved in. the possible places to meet new people are endless. Just go do something. Ask someone u chat with on here to meet somewhere.

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Since: Aug 12

Cadiz, KY

#26 Jan 15, 2013
Miss Smarties wrote:
Life is the point of life. There is beauty, ugliness, pain, pleasure, and much more all around you. Life is about what you focus on. If you focus on pain, your life will be mostly painful. If you focus on beauty, it will be mostly beautiful. If you focus on yourself, your life will be lonely. If you focus on the past, your future will be empty. You don't need a partner to make you happy. If you have no friends, make some. Go to a homeless shelter and volunteer. Find a group of people who are interested in what you are interested in and make an effort to connect with them. Friendships take effort. People aren't meant to live their lives alone, but that doesn't mean that they need a partner. It means that they need friends that they can connect with and build relationships with. If you can't be happy alone you won't be happy in a relationship. Not for very long. You may feel happy for a while, but it won't last until you learn to be happy yourself. Happiness is largely a choice. It's not always easy to be happy. You have to choose to focus on the good things in life. It's not easy, especially at first. But it does become a habit after a while. Take time to enjoy the simple things in life. Stop worrying about what you don't have, and focus on what you do have.
How did you get so wise?
shRo

United States

#27 Jan 15, 2013
It's sharp

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