Feels so guilty!! Husbands best frien...

Feels so guilty!! Husbands best friend of twenty years and I are in love!!!!

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OBJECTION

Tucker, GA

#1 Jan 1, 2013
We all grew up together and were friends. I've always had a special bond with his bf but we truly are I do believe with all my heart SOUL MATES. Were madly in love and I have never felt Like this about anyone. He absolutely completes me and understands everything about me and is an amazing man with the biggest heart. What am I going to do? I don't want to hurt anyone but I don't know how to even begin to explain to my husband of ten years. His bf and I have never been physical as even as much as a kids. I wouldn't not even dare touch another man bc I'm married but we can't go on trying to hide and pretend how will feel about each other to everyone. I know it sounds extremely bad and I'm.sure some of you will have plenty of horrible things to say but you can't get it unless your in this position. I know it will hurt many people but in the end its the best for everyone I think instead of wasting anymore of mine or my husband's life being together when I'm not happy and never will be. What do you all think?
said bf

Owensboro, KY

#2 Jan 1, 2013
Would said best friend even be with you if you were to leave your husband? Sticky situation
THE Husband

White Plains, KY

#3 Jan 2, 2013
You should remove all temptations and do whatever you can to love your husband again. ... and hope he forgives you. You are getting ready to destroy everything he has ever known about trust and friendship.
Friendly

Owensboro, KY

#4 Jan 2, 2013
She can't remove her husbands best friend from their lives without confessing to her husband which I believe is a bad Idea. If I were u I would do ur absolute best to reconcile any love u have for your husband. Don't forget that something made you married him in the first place. I've been in a similar situation but the other man was not one of our friends and at the end of the day I stayed with my husband and did not break up my family. I was completely head over hills in love with another man but I couldn't bare to rip my husbands heart out or take his children away. Don't get me wrong, I thought about leaving all the time but in the end I stayed. Do I still think about the other guy? Of course I do, but I'm doing everything I can to reconnect with my husband and keep my family together. If you decide to stay with your husband I would stay far from his best friend at all times but if you decide to leave your husband you need to do it ASAP. Dragging it out will only make things worse. If you had small children I recommend staying with your husband.
Rodney M

Owensboro, KY

#5 Jan 2, 2013
just let them train you. One in the mouth, one from behind...it's a win win!
Lifetime

Tucker, GA

#6 Jan 2, 2013
This is a lifetime movie. I'd do whatever makes you feel better. Being with somebody that doesn't make you happy sucks. Then again, being with somebody that makes you too happy is going to suck when they die.

So it's suck now vs later, or suck later vs now.

“Sexy is as Sexy does”

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Since: May 12

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#7 Jan 2, 2013
Do whatever makes YOU happy.
WOW

Tucker, GA

#8 Jan 4, 2013
Heather I did not know you had it in you oh there mind you have had a lot of people in you
wondering

Hopkinsville, KY

#9 Jan 4, 2013
What if you leave your husband and then it doesn't work out with his bestfrind? Hmmm, that would really suck.
THE Husband

Tucker, GA

#10 Jan 4, 2013
Remove the best friend. You will have to tell your husband and he will probably lose a friend but it will be ok because he will have a wife who did the right thing.... a wife who made some mistakes but in the end protected her husband and did the right thing. I know it's easier said than done though when you think you are in love with someone else..... Good luck
just a tip

Owensboro, KY

#11 Jan 4, 2013
You should kill yourself, it's the only way to make it right.
Curios

Southfield, MI

#12 Jan 4, 2013
Were you able to sever your ties to the other man??
Friendly wrote:
She can't remove her husbands best friend from their lives without confessing to her husband which I believe is a bad Idea. If I were u I would do ur absolute best to reconcile any love u have for your husband. Don't forget that something made you married him in the first place. I've been in a similar situation but the other man was not one of our friends and at the end of the day I stayed with my husband and did not break up my family. I was completely head over hills in love with another man but I couldn't bare to rip my husbands heart out or take his children away. Don't get me wrong, I thought about leaving all the time but in the end I stayed. Do I still think about the other guy? Of course I do, but I'm doing everything I can to reconnect with my husband and keep my family together. If you decide to stay with your husband I would stay far from his best friend at all times but if you decide to leave your husband you need to do it ASAP. Dragging it out will only make things worse. If you had small children I recommend staying with your husband.
lol

Owensboro, KY

#13 Jan 4, 2013
Rodney M wrote:
just let them train you. One in the mouth, one from behind...it's a win win!
Ur disgusting!!
BigJohn

Asheboro, NC

#14 Jan 4, 2013
Rodney M wrote:
just let them train you. One in the mouth, one from behind...it's a win win!
Simple. Just spend three nights a week with you husband and three nights a week with the best friend (I'm sure your husband will enjoy the break from your goofy ass). Then, they can just DP you on the seventh day.

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