Idk

Duluth, GA

#1 Mar 21, 2013
I have a bf we've been together for a little over a year. He doesn't stay with me but I stay with him when I get the chance either I'm off work no kids type deal. I don't see home when I work or when I have my kids. When were together he acts like he wants me cares for me but when were not together I have to call him text him. He's always with his friends or just hanging out at his place from what he tells me. I can't really go out & do anything with any if my friends unless I'm off work no kids pretty much. So he wants all of my time when I'm off & no kids & bitches if I go hang out with friends. Is this fair?
Trust me girl

Duluth, GA

#2 Mar 21, 2013
Leave him girl. Yu sound to good for him. He can't learn to love a woman tht works & takes care of her kids & trys to please her man by giving all yur free time to him he can't won't ever love anything nor will he realize what he has till it's gone.

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#3 Mar 21, 2013
I have to agree with trust me girl. I mean he doesn't ever txt or call you? Seems one sided sorry
Loving life

Duluth, GA

#4 Mar 21, 2013
I have to agree with both of the posts. I was in a relationship like tht you'll finally get fed up & leave.
Been There

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#5 Mar 21, 2013
I have been where you are except my guy called all the time and even got me a cell phone back in the day to keep up with me. He was possessive and controlling and I gave up all my friends cause he didn't want anyone "influencing" me. That was tears ago. I thought it would show him he could trust me and all it did was make him expect that of me and do everything he asked or told me when he told me. That's not love and it will only get worse. Now,many years down the road I have felt unloved and unwanted cause it was just more of the same. Me giving and him doing whatever he wanted. I feel like I wasted 10 years of my life and possibly havens ses out on finding someone who truly loved me and wonder if I will ever have that. It sounds as though you already know your relationship is not right as did I when I was young. Please don't be like me and 10 years down the road you realize you should've went with your gut in the beginning. Best of luck to you.
Idk

Duluth, GA

#6 Mar 21, 2013
Yes he does call & text only when I get fed up after a while. He's given me alot of things he's helped me out alot this past valentines day he gave my something very sweet but he's very possessive also & he likes to throw up what he got me & what I didn't give him he doesn't even say I love yu he used to in the beginning. I fell for tho guy hard knowing it was wrong but he showed this sweet down to earth loving part of his self & now I don't even see tht hardly. I give him every free time I have & I'm also expecting his twins he doesn't want to move in or even stay with me I have to stay with him when I'm free I'm just so tired I believe I can raise these babies & my kids on my own I'm so fed up thank you guys for giving talks advice.
Idk

Duluth, GA

#7 Mar 21, 2013
Been There wrote:
I have been where you are except my guy called all the time and even got me a cell phone back in the day to keep up with me. He was possessive and controlling and I gave up all my friends cause he didn't want anyone "influencing" me. That was tears ago. I thought it would show him he could trust me and all it did was make him expect that of me and do everything he asked or told me when he told me. That's not love and it will only get worse.
Now,many years down the road I have felt unloved and unwanted cause it was just more of the same. Me giving and him doing whatever he wanted. I feel like I wasted 10 years of my life and possibly havens ses out on finding someone who truly loved me and wonder if I will ever have that. It sounds as though you already know your relationship is not right as did I when I was young. Please don't be like me and 10 years down the road you realize you should've went with your gut in the beginning. Best of luck to you.
Yes he sounds like the same man lol. He is exactly like tht.
IMO

Owensboro, KY

#8 Mar 21, 2013
If a man is not supportive, you're better off alone.

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