looking

Owensboro, KY

#1 Oct 26, 2013
Ok. Im on a couple dating sites. I'm a decent looking guy I think. I would rate myself a 7. I was married for several years. She was hot. I used to be able to attract really good looking women. On the sites all that want to talk are obese not very attractive women. I'm interested in a couple women on there that are beautiful and seem to have a lot in common. I can't get them to respond. Whats going on ladies?
rob

Owensboro, KY

#2 Oct 26, 2013
Dating sites are a scams
funny stuff

Richmond, KY

#3 Oct 26, 2013
looking wrote:
Ok. Im on a couple dating sites. I'm a decent looking guy I think. I would rate myself a 7. I was married for several years. She was hot. I used to be able to attract really good looking women. On the sites all that want to talk are obese not very attractive women. I'm interested in a couple women on there that are beautiful and seem to have a lot in common. I can't get them to respond. Whats going on ladies?
Well I would say that's 95% of the women on dating sites. Any decent chick doesn't need those sites to find a date. Just saying.
Really

Centertown, KY

#4 Oct 26, 2013
funny stuff wrote:
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Well I would say that's 95% of the women on dating sites. Any decent chick doesn't need those sites to find a date. Just saying.
That is so not true! Some just don't enjoy running the bars!!
hmm

Arlington Heights, IL

#5 Oct 26, 2013
These girls that are even decent looking get hundreds of emails a day from guys online. It feeds their ego so you really have to stand out. Your best bet is to catch them in person and say hi and talk.
looking

Owensboro, KY

#6 Oct 26, 2013
Really wrote:
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That is so not true! Some just don't enjoy running the bars!!
I don't like running the bars either. What I don't get is they say they want a good guy but when it comes down to they don't. Thats too boring. I'm a good dad good job. I've been told I have a lot to offer.
hmmm

Owensboro, KY

#7 Oct 27, 2013
I don't think a lot of people take dating sites seriously. If you're one of the few who do, you're going to have to muddle through the crap to find something special. Honestly it's no different then the real world lol you can just flirt in your pjs
Chick

Toledo, OH

#9 Oct 27, 2013
Decent girls do get on dating sites. I joined one a year ago cuz I lived in the middle of nowhere at the time. I will be canceling my membership though cuz most guys are not sincere on those sites and I moved. I guess you could say I'm one of those good looking girls. I get tons of "flirts" or "icebreakers" or whatever you want to call them. I don't respond to them. If a guy messages me I will respond IF he has a decent profile pic, we have something in common, and he says something interesting. "Hi I like your profile" doesn't cut it for me. I hear that a lot and I'm sure those other girls do too. Try talking about something you both have in common. Try to say more than just a sentence or two. You need to stand out.
Peter

Ocala, FL

#10 Oct 27, 2013
looking wrote:
Ok. Im on a couple dating sites. I'm a decent looking guy I think. I would rate myself a 7. I was married for several years. She was hot. I used to be able to attract really good looking women. On the sites all that want to talk are obese not very attractive women. I'm interested in a couple women on there that are beautiful and seem to have a lot in common. I can't get them to respond. Whats going on ladies?
Ignore the pictures and respond to those that you have things in common. If you are only looking at the beautiful girls, you are shallow. Write a long message to a girl that has some of the same interests. You will do better. i am repulsed by FAT girls, so I wouldn't write to any FATTIES, but I would write to an average looking girl if she had things in common.
alright

Toledo, OH

#11 Oct 27, 2013
Chick wrote:
Decent girls do get on dating sites. I joined one a year ago cuz I lived in the middle of nowhere at the time. I will be canceling my membership though cuz most guys are not sincere on those sites and I moved. I guess you could say I'm one of those good looking girls. I get tons of "flirts" or "icebreakers" or whatever you want to call them. I don't respond to them. If a guy messages me I will respond IF he has a decent profile pic, we have something in common, and he says something interesting. "Hi I like your profile" doesn't cut it for me. I hear that a lot and I'm sure those other girls do too. Try talking about something you both have in common. Try to say more than just a sentence or two. You need to stand out.
You are "good looking" by your standards maybe not someone else's.
Chick

Toledo, OH

#12 Oct 27, 2013
alright wrote:
<quoted text>You are "good looking" by your standards maybe not someone else's.
Actually by my standards I'm average. I've been told a million times that I'm beautiful so I said "I guess you could say I'm one of those good looking girls". I'm not one of those girls who thinks the world revolves around them. I know I'm not everybody's type. I was just trying to make the point that there are decent girls on dating sites and that you need to say something that stands out and shows a lil of your personality when you message them.
alright

Toledo, OH

#13 Oct 27, 2013
Chick wrote:
<quoted text>Actually by my standards I'm average. I've been told a million times that I'm beautiful so I said "I guess you could say I'm one of those good looking girls". I'm not one of those girls who thinks the world revolves around them. I know I'm not everybody's type. I was just trying to make the point that there are decent girls on dating sites and that you need to say something that stands out and shows a lil of your personality when you message them.
The ones giving you these compliments were guys just trying to get lucky right?
Chick

Toledo, OH

#14 Oct 27, 2013
alright wrote:
<quoted text>The ones giving you these compliments were guys just trying to get lucky right?
I have had men pay me compliments in an attempt to get lucky but they aren't the only ones. I have had friends tell me that I don't give myself enough credit and that I'm beautiful along with my ex fiancé and some of my exes that I'm still friends with. I don't see why it matters. That has nothing to do with the topic of this thread.
Peter

Ocala, FL

#15 Oct 28, 2013
Chick wrote:
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I have had men pay me compliments in an attempt to get lucky but they aren't the only ones. I have had friends tell me that I don't give myself enough credit and that I'm beautiful along with my ex fiancé and some of my exes that I'm still friends with. I don't see why it matters. That has nothing to do with the topic of this thread.
This thread is not about YOU so stop answering and trying to make it about YOU. A guy wrote in for advice. Give your advice and SHUT UP.
Chick

Toledo, OH

#16 Oct 28, 2013
Peter wrote:
<quoted text>This thread is not about YOU so stop answering and trying to make it about YOU. A guy wrote in for advice. Give your advice and SHUT UP.
I posted on this thread to be helpful to the original poster. My other comments were responding to posts directed at me. The first one I tried to clarify what I had said and the second one I felt I had to defend myself a lil. I even stated at the end of the last one that I didn't see why it mattered because it had nothing to do with the original topic of the thread. So don't get your panties in a wad. I have no desire to be off topic and this my last post as such.
Peter

Ocala, FL

#17 Oct 28, 2013
Chick wrote:
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I posted on this thread to be helpful to the original poster. My other comments were responding to posts directed at me. The first one I tried to clarify what I had said and the second one I felt I had to defend myself a lil. I even stated at the end of the last one that I didn't see why it mattered because it had nothing to do with the original topic of the thread. So don't get your panties in a wad. I have no desire to be off topic and this my last post as such.
Blah, blah, blah.
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