Can you love two different people?

Can you love two different people?

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Serious Answers Please

Owensboro, KY

#1 Jan 24, 2013
My question is can you love two different people? One of them is a ex that's still in your life and the other is your new partner. Is it possible to love both of them or should you pick one?
lost in kentucky.

United States

#2 Jan 24, 2013
Serious Answers Please wrote:
My question is can you love two different people? One of them is a ex that's still in your life and the other is your new partner. Is it possible to love both of them or should you pick one?
You need to pick one to be your future one needs to stay in the past. To try to keep both is unfair to both of them. We are all entitled to be someone's only. Plus it's not fair to you. You may lose both of them.
Missy

Bowling Green, KY

#3 Jan 24, 2013
Take some time apart from them both, then the one you know you miss the most is that one.
drip

Owensboro, KY

#4 Jan 24, 2013
Serious Answers Please wrote:
My question is can you love two different people? One of them is a ex that's still in your life and the other is your new partner. Is it possible to love both of them or should you pick one?
forget the x cause he doesn't love you.Your just a pit stop,and that makes you a loser!Some girls just have no brains!!!
lost in kentucky.

United States

#5 Jan 24, 2013
There is a saying just because you have a past doesn't mean you have a future.
Sleek peak

Tucker, GA

#6 Jan 24, 2013
That relationship ended for a resion
serious

Russellville, KY

#7 Jan 24, 2013
Serious Answers Please wrote:
My question is can you love two different people? One of them is a ex that's still in your life and the other is your new partner. Is it possible to love both of them or should you pick one?
The answer is yes.. BUT you have to choose one. You can't be committed to either if your dividing your time. And yes you probably stand the chance of loosing both.. Are you M or F?
Oldsh-t

Tucker, GA

#8 Jan 24, 2013
Yes you can love 2 ppl at the same time and not give up anyone. For everyone saying you have to give up 1 or the other y do u? Y can u not still love an ex? Yes things ended but not all things that come to an end, end bad. Just cause you still love them and remain friends doesn't mean ur being unfair to the other person or urself. Love is a feeling not an action. If ur not acting on it whats unfair about it?
hummmmm

United States

#9 Jan 24, 2013
That is unfair you are going to hurt both if you keep it up! Chose one
yep

United States

#10 Jan 24, 2013
What if you lose both? Is that what you want?
hmm

Tucker, GA

#11 Jan 24, 2013
you need to figure out what YOU want. . Who YOU want..yes he may be an ex..but that doesnt mean he isnt the one for you..maybe at that specific time it wasnt the right time..yeah you met a new guy but if the feelings for your are more than.the current guy then maybe you should try with your ex again...sometimes goodbye is a second chance which means you two said goodbye the first time to realize what yall had was strong and you both.realize you want to be together..so if you are with a guy now but miss and still have feelings for your ex then its not fair to the new guy...so follow your heart and leave the new guy and get back to where your heart is because you are obvioualy still in love with your ex...so give you and the ex another try..you never knw it could be the best decision you ever made and it might make.you really happy
her

Owensboro, KY

#12 Jan 24, 2013
hmm wrote:
you need to figure out what YOU want.. Who YOU want..yes he may be an ex..but that doesnt mean he isnt the one for you..maybe at that specific time it wasnt the right time..yeah you met a new guy but if the feelings for your are more than.the current guy then maybe you should try with your ex again...sometimes goodbye is a second chance which means you two said goodbye the first time to realize what yall had was strong and you both.realize you want to be together..so if you are with a guy now but miss and still have feelings for your ex then its not fair to the new guy...so follow your heart and leave the new guy and get back to where your heart is because you are obvioualy still in love with your ex...so give you and the ex another try..you never knw it could be the best decision you ever made and it might make.you really happy
What if he use to beat me,and rape me?I just want him because he left me for a ugly fat chick.I don't really like him.My new boyfriend is so hot!My x is really kind of ugly,and he is kind of retarded,and he pees in the bed too.I think I'm just on drugs really bad,and that makes me confused.
lol

Princeton, KY

#13 Jan 24, 2013
Some people have two relationships going on at the same time. If everyone knows about each other, I don't see the harm.
It depends

United States

#14 Jan 24, 2013
Entirely on the situation.. Is he just trying to get you back to show that he can? Does he treat you like a yo-yo? Want you back until you try and come back, then act like it was a mistake or you misunderstood? Yes, it's possible to love two people, but not fair to either if you don't want to commit your heart. Don't be a sucker to fall for sweet talk, be with whoever is going to treat you and love you the best. IMHO

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#15 Jan 24, 2013
Sleek peak wrote:
That relationship ended for a resion
Probably due to poor spelling.
Missy

Bowling Green, KY

#16 Jan 24, 2013
Sleek peak wrote:
That relationship ended for a resion
I hope george didn't post that because he is going to be made that a liberal made fun of him. Just sayin....kissie kissie..
Missy

Bowling Green, KY

#17 Jan 24, 2013
sorry mad*
Nuckin Futs

Tucker, GA

#18 Jan 24, 2013
Oldsh-t wrote:
Yes you can love 2 ppl at the same time and not give up anyone. For everyone saying you have to give up 1 or the other y do u? Y can u not still love an ex? Yes things ended but not all things that come to an end, end bad. Just cause you still love them and remain friends doesn't mean ur being unfair to the other person or urself. Love is a feeling not an action. If ur not acting on it whats unfair about it?
Could not have said it better. Can't help how u feel however do not act on these feelings. Love from afar. Follow ur heart.
nico

Owensboro, KY

#19 Jan 24, 2013
If you can't be with the one you love the one you're with
Missy

Bowling Green, KY

#20 Jan 24, 2013
There is a diference between love & being in love. They are not the same.

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