Taking one for the Team

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Not Sure

Owensboro, KY

#1 Nov 4, 2013
Okay LADIES (no need for obvious men comments)

My BF and I have been together 4 years and we are engaged to be married in March of 2014. The other night we were talking and somehow the idea of a threesome came up in the conversation. I have been in one (two females and a male) but he is never experienced one before. After telling him I thought it was fun but no big deal he has this idea of having one BEFORE we get married to "sew his oats" I suppose. I was thinking it may be fun so I told him I would think about ti and let him know. That night we had unbelievable mind blowing sex. I'm not stupid, although he was totally into me I know he was thinking other things because he was seriously more horny than normal. Afterwards while we were smoking and watching tv in bed he asked if I would be up for him and a buddy instead of another girl which blew my mind. Although I do think it would be seriously hot to have two guys in my face while I went back in forth, it blew my mind he would offer this as trade for his "pre martial threesome" we had talked about earlier. He said the only rule was the guy must use a condom for sex and he couldnt cum in my mouth if I so chose to finish him off that way. So should I do it you think ladies? Or do you think it will make things weird? We have a very solid relationship but I'm not sure once I took his friend in my mouth we may all 3 feel awkward, however it's gotten me wet just typing this. Id like serious replies only. NO I'm not looking for someone to jump in and no I'm not looking any NSA sex from any stranger that posts on here about how hot he is and how much better he would be for me. I just want opinions, especialy if someone has done it.
just my two cents

Indianapolis, IN

#2 Nov 4, 2013
Not Sure wrote:
Okay LADIES (no need for obvious men comments)

My BF and I have been together 4 years and we are engaged to be married in March of 2014. The other night we were talking and somehow the idea of a threesome came up in the conversation. I have been in one (two females and a male) but he is never experienced one before. After telling him I thought it was fun but no big deal he has this idea of having one BEFORE we get married to "sew his oats" I suppose. I was thinking it may be fun so I told him I would think about ti and let him know. That night we had unbelievable mind blowing sex. I'm not stupid, although he was totally into me I know he was thinking other things because he was seriously more horny than normal. Afterwards while we were smoking and watching tv in bed he asked if I would be up for him and a buddy instead of another girl which blew my mind. Although I do think it would be seriously hot to have two guys in my face while I went back in forth, it blew my mind he would offer this as trade for his "pre martial threesome" we had talked about earlier. He said the only rule was the guy must use a condom for sex and he couldnt cum in my mouth if I so chose to finish him off that way. So should I do it you think ladies? Or do you think it will make things weird? We have a very solid relationship but I'm not sure once I took his friend in my mouth we may all 3 feel awkward, however it's gotten me wet just typing this. Id like serious replies only. NO I'm not looking for someone to jump in and no I'm not looking any NSA sex from any stranger that posts on here about how hot he is and how much better he would be for me. I just want opinions, especialy if someone has done it.
From someone who has been there and had a threesome before marriage with my husband, here is my two cents. Husband and I had never had a threesome. It happened one night before we were engaged. It was myself, husband and his best female friend. Things got weird between she and I. It was the first time either of us had been with another woman. I fell for her hard, I wanted her in a bad way. She asked me to have a threesome with her and her boyfriend. My boyfriend had a fit that he wasn't invited and made me stop talking to her. It broke up two friendships. For me, the experience wasn't worth losing her as a friend.

I think you may realize later that you have a thing for the other male involved. I suggest you watch the movie "Chasing Amy", it may give you a different perspective on your proposed situation. Good luck with whatever you decide.
....

Owensboro, KY

#3 Nov 4, 2013
I think you should go for it. It's got both of you do hot already to even think about it. Just lay ground rules of your own about the friend that joins and make sure it's someone you trust. I'm sure things will only get better in your relationship. I don't think you have to worry about it being awkward at all. You're gonna get some crazy hot sex after all. Get it, girl. [:
Hunter Thompson

Owensboro, KY

#4 Nov 4, 2013
Not Sure wrote:
Okay LADIES (no need for obvious men comments)
My BF and I have been together 4 years and we are engaged to be married in March of 2014. The other night we were talking and somehow the idea of a threesome came up in the conversation. I have been in one (two females and a male) but he is never experienced one before. After telling him I thought it was fun but no big deal he has this idea of having one BEFORE we get married to "sew his oats" I suppose. I was thinking it may be fun so I told him I would think about ti and let him know. That night we had unbelievable mind blowing sex. I'm not stupid, although he was totally into me I know he was thinking other things because he was seriously more horny than normal. Afterwards while we were smoking and watching tv in bed he asked if I would be up for him and a buddy instead of another girl which blew my mind. Although I do think it would be seriously hot to have two guys in my face while I went back in forth, it blew my mind he would offer this as trade for his "pre martial threesome" we had talked about earlier. He said the only rule was the guy must use a condom for sex and he couldnt cum in my mouth if I so chose to finish him off that way. So should I do it you think ladies? Or do you think it will make things weird? We have a very solid relationship but I'm not sure once I took his friend in my mouth we may all 3 feel awkward, however it's gotten me wet just typing this. Id like serious replies only. NO I'm not looking for someone to jump in and no I'm not looking any NSA sex from any stranger that posts on here about how hot he is and how much better he would be for me. I just want opinions, especialy if someone has done it.
Let me know if your boyfriend needs some one on one male action. You can watch if you want.
dude

Princeton, KY

#5 Nov 4, 2013
just my two cents wrote:
<quoted text>From someone who has been there and had a threesome before marriage with my husband, here is my two cents. Husband and I had never had a threesome. It happened one night before we were engaged. It was myself, husband and his best female friend. Things got weird between she and I. It was the first time either of us had been with another woman. I fell for her hard, I wanted her in a bad way. She asked me to have a threesome with her and her boyfriend. My boyfriend had a fit that he wasn't invited and made me stop talking to her. It broke up two friendships. For me, the experience wasn't worth losing her as a friend.

I think you may realize later that you have a thing for the other male involved. I suggest you watch the movie "Chasing Amy", it may give you a different perspective on your proposed situation. Good luck with whatever you decide.
Hot!
just my two cents

Owensboro, KY

#6 Nov 4, 2013
dude wrote:
<quoted text>Hot!
Thanks
two cents

United States

#7 Nov 4, 2013
Don't do it!
I've been there and done that more than once. It is hot! Very hot and erotic just thinking ab it. That's why it is called a fantasy. But trust me when I say it NEVER IS as good as u play it out in ur head. I was very disappointed in every experience. Yes it was fun and hot but NOTHING like I had imagine. I've had a few opportunties to have husband and another guy but I declined. I have a wonderful erotic fantasy how it would play out in my mind and I don't want to ruin it.
It really isn't all that u may think it would be. Keep it a fantasy.....I wish I did.
Not Sure

Owensboro, KY

#8 Nov 5, 2013
just my two cents wrote:
<quoted text>
From someone who has been there and had a threesome before marriage with my husband, here is my two cents. Husband and I had never had a threesome. It happened one night before we were engaged. It was myself, husband and his best female friend. Things got weird between she and I. It was the first time either of us had been with another woman. I fell for her hard, I wanted her in a bad way. She asked me to have a threesome with her and her boyfriend. My boyfriend had a fit that he wasn't invited and made me stop talking to her. It broke up two friendships. For me, the experience wasn't worth losing her as a friend.
I think you may realize later that you have a thing for the other male involved. I suggest you watch the movie "Chasing Amy", it may give you a different perspective on your proposed situation. Good luck with whatever you decide.
Thanks for the input. I'm 100% positive I wouldn't fall for his friend but we did talk a bit last night and I'm thinking it would be better if it was just a stranger when we were out of town on one of my mans business seminars (at least that's what I fantasized with him last night and it got him so hard. I told him that way we don't jeopardize him losing a friend if something was to get weird. Secondly, I don't want his friends coming over for football knowing one of them has slept with me (because I know it would surely get out between those guys). That would just feel wrong. Of course the danger in that would be making sure the guy is clean which you never know so maybe this will remain a fantasy. Unless I just happen to find a guy that's hot next time we are out of town and stroke him while my husband has his way with me. that's what he was describing to me last night and it got me so horny I came from just him fingering me which seldom happens. I think that let the cat out of the bag that I was liking the fantasy.
just my two cents

Versailles, KY

#9 Nov 5, 2013
Not Sure wrote:
<quoted text>Thanks for the input. I'm 100% positive I wouldn't fall for his friend but we did talk a bit last night and I'm thinking it would be better if it was just a stranger when we were out of town on one of my mans business seminars (at least that's what I fantasized with him last night and it got him so hard. I told him that way we don't jeopardize him losing a friend if something was to get weird. Secondly, I don't want his friends coming over for football knowing one of them has slept with me (because I know it would surely get out between those guys). That would just feel wrong. Of course the danger in that would be making sure the guy is clean which you never know so maybe this will remain a fantasy. Unless I just happen to find a guy that's hot next time we are out of town and stroke him while my husband has his way with me. that's what he was describing to me last night and it got me so horny I came from just him fingering me which seldom happens. I think that let the cat out of the bag that I was liking the fantasy.
I swore I would never fall for the girl, but it happened. I agree that if you choose to do it, it should be a stranger. Like you said, the issue is making sure they are clean because you truly never know. Good luck in your decision. Or you could just fantasize and enjoy your man.
two cents

United States

#10 Nov 5, 2013
just my two cents wrote:
<quoted text>
I swore I would never fall for the girl, but it happened. I agree that if you choose to do it, it should be a stranger. Like you said, the issue is making sure they are clean because you truly never know. Good luck in your decision. Or you could just fantasize and enjoy your man.
As u have experienced before..... sex changes everything! If u have a wonderful loving relationship and u trust each other 110% now, Do not make a mistake and ruin what u have! It will change everything. Talk dirty while ur having a session, pretend some dude is there but do not ruin a good relationship u already have. Not worth the change!
been there

Morganfield, KY

#11 Nov 5, 2013
It ruined my 10 year marriage. My ex-wife is now with my ex-best friend. It turned my whole life upside down. If you love him don't do it!
Gin

Owensboro, KY

#12 Nov 5, 2013
Marriage should be something sacred. I know you said you are not married yet but this is why people don't take marriage seriously anymore. People shack up before they are married, have sex with multiple partners, and then when they get married they suddenly expect total commitment. Really? Because before you were married you established a different set of rules and it's hard to suddenly play a different game. Do not sleep with your fiancée's friend, another guy, another girl, a stranger, or farm animals.
Not Sure

Owensboro, KY

#13 Nov 5, 2013
just my two cents wrote:
<quoted text>
I swore I would never fall for the girl, but it happened. I agree that if you choose to do it, it should be a stranger. Like you said, the issue is making sure they are clean because you truly never know. Good luck in your decision. Or you could just fantasize and enjoy your man.
exactly, I think we may just leave it at the dirty talk and fantasize from that. I do enjoy my man honey, it was his idea. Or at least his thought. I'm thinking since everything is dang near perfect right now we leave it at just talking and imagination. Only thing I worry is now he is going to want to experience something that I have and he hasn't. Maybe I opened a box I can't close by telling him I've had a threesome. I'm sure he will be fine with just imagining it, I will just have to get really naughty for him to make it seem real. Maybe I will go get a dildo today while he is at work and have a surprise for him to use on me tonight as he wishes. We can just do the dildo without all of the worries of bringing another partner in. It's just not worth the risk. Thanks for your advice everyone.
Not Sure

Owensboro, KY

#14 Nov 5, 2013
two cents wrote:
<quoted text>
As u have experienced before..... sex changes everything! If u have a wonderful loving relationship and u trust each other 110% now, Do not make a mistake and ruin what u have! It will change everything. Talk dirty while ur having a session, pretend some dude is there but do not ruin a good relationship u already have. Not worth the change!
I'm off to find my best realistic dil-doe today :-) I will see how he reacts to that tonight. i think you are correct, it's just not worth it because he is my boo boo. Thanks for the advice.
just my two cents

Indianapolis, IN

#15 Nov 5, 2013
Not Sure wrote:
<quoted text>I'm off to find my best realistic dil-doe today :-) I will see how he reacts to that tonight. i think you are correct, it's just not worth it because he is my boo boo. Thanks for the advice.
Good choice! Be thankful for what you have.
Not Sure

Owensboro, KY

#16 Nov 5, 2013
just my two cents wrote:
<quoted text>
Good choice! Be thankful for what you have.
Oh I'm thankful daily. He is my world. I got my toy. actually found a decent one in town after looking thru 25 of them that wouldn't fit in a garbage can they were so big. Do ladies actual use those things? wow
Not Sure

Owensboro, KY

#18 Nov 6, 2013
WOW, all I know to say. The dil-do worked. I'm probably going to be sore today. ROTFL
Wishing

Owensboro, KY

#20 Nov 6, 2013
Wish my wife would do that. All she wants to do is lay there after 15 years.

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