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Troubled

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#1 Mar 5, 2013
Should kids be used as punishment for an affair?
noooo

United States

#2 Mar 5, 2013
Never should kids be brought into the middle of any relationship to be used in any way
curious

United States

#4 Mar 5, 2013
How are kids being used as punishment?
Troubled

United States

#5 Mar 5, 2013
Won't let me see them and when I do see them it's very brief. She tells the kids what I did etc
Sad

United States

#6 Mar 5, 2013
Sorry dude.... I hope it works out
Curious

United States

#7 Mar 5, 2013
Yeah that sucks
Troubled

United States

#8 Mar 5, 2013
Yeah she doesn't care that its hurting my kids. She's just hell bent on destroying me.
woman

Owensboro, KY

#9 Mar 5, 2013
Troubled wrote:
Won't let me see them and when I do see them it's very brief. She tells the kids what I did etc
Wow, she shouldn't do that. If anything she is doing more harm to the children. She is still torn that you did this to her, but she needs to leave your children out of this. This is yours and her battle--not yours, the kids, and her battle. Tell her she needs to take this problem up with you not the children. Children should never be caught in the middle.

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#10 Mar 5, 2013
Should have kept your d!ck in your pants, loser.
Jessica

United States

#11 Mar 5, 2013
THUNDER CLAM wrote:
Should have kept your d!ck in your pants, loser.
lol exactly what i was thinking! He caused it himself now he has to deal with it. No use crying now.
yeah

Owensboro, KY

#12 Mar 5, 2013
THUNDER CLAM wrote:
Should have kept your d!ck in your pants, loser.
but

Yes, he should have, but his wife needs to keep it between him and her. He might of been a shitty husband, but me may have been a wonderful father to those children. It's like don't ruin a relationship with a child and their father just because someone is scorned. Someone can give their kids problems doing that.
I'd get back at his ass in other ways.
Troubled

United States

#13 Mar 5, 2013
Wow very judgemental people, i'm sure you never did wrong. I fell out of love with her and her brother Mark was there for me, and we hit it off. I've never loved someone as much as him. I want my children to be a part of our lives.
RacingFever8Chic kenFucker

United States

#14 Mar 5, 2013
Gaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyy
biggestyet

Owensboro, KY

#15 Mar 5, 2013
Troubled wrote:
Wow very judgemental people, i'm sure you never did wrong. I fell out of love with her and her brother Mark was there for me, and we hit it off. I've never loved someone as much as him. I want my children to be a part of our lives.
Not to judge but from the sounds of it if you and your wife were having problems then you two should have split long before you cheated. As for her brother and you. Wow as a woman ouch that's going to hurt really bad. As for her using and telling your children things about you that's is wrong. It's damaging those kids mentally. But I can see where your cheating has hurt her severely and this is the way she has to get back at you. I think you need to try to reach out to her and make amends. If that don't work there is the court system sadly.
Troubled

United States

#16 Mar 6, 2013
Troubled wrote:
Wow very judgemental people, i'm sure you never did wrong. I fell out of love with her and her brother Mark was there for me, and we hit it off. I've never loved someone as much as him. I want my children to be a part of our lives.
Not gay get your own post. It was definitely a woman.
donna

Owensboro, KY

#18 Mar 6, 2013
THUNDER CLAM wrote:
Should have kept your d!ck in your pants, loser.
for real,nasty
sle

Orange, VA

#21 Mar 6, 2013
If you had an affair you should be punished.I don't know how old the kids but am some point they should
know the truth.
Sotrue

United States

#22 Mar 6, 2013
sle wrote:
If you had an affair you should be punished.I don't know how old the kids but am some point they should
know the truth.
Agree with ya...what amazes me is when the cheater losses everything but the auto, and their cloths. Has to file bankruptcy and whine and cries when they don't have anything. You play, you pay...should of divorced before you started pulling your pants down to play. That fellows is you punishment and others may act lke they feel sorry foe ya. We don't!!! You got yourselves where you are because of your actions of being..STUPID. And putting yourself before you children.
OMG

Tucker, GA

#23 Mar 6, 2013
Maybe some just need to learn to let go and move on and quit using children as their source of " you need me " dwelling on the past doesn't change a thing .
Haha

Tucker, GA

#24 Mar 6, 2013
Sotrue wrote:
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Agree with ya...what amazes me is when the cheater losses everything but the auto, and their cloths. Has to file bankruptcy and whine and cries when they don't have anything. You play, you pay...should of divorced before you started pulling your pants down to play. That fellows is you punishment and others may act lke they feel sorry foe ya. We don't!!! You got yourselves where you are because of your actions of being..STUPID. And putting yourself before you children.
I could not agree with you more! Men that cheat obviously don't care that their children will be growing up without a father in the home bc they were selfish pieces of [email protected] Sounds like my ex!

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