Well welcome to the club. its kinda like fishing. you just gotta keep an eye out and be patient. don't be overly zealous or you'll scare the fish away / seem desperate etc. just be friendly and genuine (be yourself) to every girl you meet, pass in the store, at work etc. you just never know who might be admiring from a distance. also do more hobbies, follow other interests in the mean time to just take up your time to make you a more rounded, interesting individual. Hey pick up a second job for fun, one that works with the public so you increase your exposure to local women.