Judge overturns California's ban on same-sex marriage

veryvermilion wrote:

Why do you suppose so many "straight" men are involved in this issue? They're so emotional--so angry. And they're the same ones--over and over and over.
"Country Girl" kind of came and went. I'm not sure there are any other women who are on this thread; carrying on about the "horrors" of same-sex marriage.
There is that study, which clearly found that most men who have strong negative feelings about male homosexuality, tend to have homosexual tendencies themselves.( http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8772014 )
I believe that's what's going on here...
Thoughts?

VV lisps to us "straight guys are so emotional!"

Too funny!

Rock Hudson wrote:

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That's not an air of superiority, it's effluvia.

Jizzy came out on another forum tonight. Goes by "The Big Bear".

Full flaming. I almost believed him when he used to say he was straight. He's a pretty good liar.

Nothing wrong with being gay but at least we now know where he's coming from.

Maybe he'll be more relaxed and fun now.

veryvermilion wrote:

Why do you suppose so many "straight" men are involved in this issue? They're so emotional--so angry. And they're the same ones--over and over and over.
"Country Girl" kind of came and went. I'm not sure there are any other women who are on this thread; carrying on about the "horrors" of same-sex marriage.
There is that study, which clearly found that most men who have strong negative feelings about male homosexuality, tend to have homosexual tendencies themselves.( http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8772014 )
I believe that's what's going on here...
Thoughts?

My thought is, that it's simply fabulous how you found a study to quote. Absolutely spellbinding. Gee whiz, amazing how you always have a study or a poll to quote. That is a manufactured result. As I'm certain that you are aware of.

Rock Hudson wrote:

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Propaganda, intended to intimidate men into silence, for fear of being labelled "gay". Simply fallacious, to us, but please yourselves, if you wish, and buy your own hype. Thoughts? Frank, Pietro and I have our own thing going on...

Don't forget Ronald and his honey. Arf!

Frankie Rizzo wrote:

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VV lisps to us "straight guys are so emotional!"
Too funny!

He'th tho thweet...

Whoops! The so-called straights don't like to be accused of maybe having a little sugar in their tanks.

So, why do they hang out here? Why do they come back; time and time again?

It's like I used to tell Kimare...

Coming to a site where you KNOW you'll interact with gay men, over and over again is kind of like coming to an online gay bar--one where no one knows who you are.

Hell hath no fury like a closet case.(quote me on that)

And some of these bitches are showing A LOT of fury!

Frankie Rizzo wrote:

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Don't forget Ronald and his honey. Arf!

My apologies to both Ronald and his honey. I've no wish to be rude or exclusive. I wasn't sure that Ronald or his honey wished to be associated with a hater, racist, or socialist/communist/fascist/bi gfoot/homophobe/(I ran out of stuff to use) like myself...

veryvermilion wrote:

Whoops! The so-called straights don't like to be accused of maybe having a little sugar in their tanks.
So, why do they hang out here? Why do they come back; time and time again?
It's like I used to tell Kimare...
Coming to a site where you KNOW you'll interact with gay men, over and over again is kind of like coming to an online gay bar--one where no one knows who you are.
Hell hath no fury like a closet case.(quote me on that)
And some of these bitches are showing A LOT of fury!

So says the over-grown baby, with the easily offended sense of propriety. Personally, I don't give a rats ass if you "accuse", LOL, you have nothing better to use, than some false claptrap? Cool beans, and "snap", and , have an "around-the-world" to go with that...I love it. I love your lies. You may not think you do it, but even pretending to be as knowledgeable, skilled or prepared as you do are all forms of lying. Lying to yourself is a deep betrayal though, as if you spend a lot of time convincing yourself you're someone other than who you truly feel yourself to be inside, Continue, and life is going to be much tougher for you than it needs to be. Stopping the lies to yourself can be an enormously cathartic experience if you're willing to give it a go.
Sometimes, you know you're lying to yourself but the inner voice that's goading you to deceive yourself screams more loudly. Allow yourself the space to spot the lies you tell yourself by not beating yourself up over the discoveries you'll make and by making compacts with yourself to overcome the worst of this habit so that you can lead a more satisfying life. Using defensiveness, victimization, anger, intellectualizing or outrage as means to protect your vulnerability is a form of self deception. When you get on your high horse and claim that others are wounding you or not adhering to your point of view, you are lying to yourself because your reactions are defense mechanisms. Lies are often something we tell when we want to protect ourselves. The desire to protect is a response to something that you fear. The more you acknowledge your fears, the less you'll need to lie. It will probably take practice, but once you're alert to the need to be more self-truthful, you'll catch yourself when you lie to yourself and start stopping it from happening. Amazing things will happen as you are more truthful to yourself––you'll trust yourself more, you'll feel your self worth increase and you'll understand your limitations. You can do it, little peewee, I know you can. I have nothing, but the utmost faith in your abilities. You can be the little boofoo that CAN...

veryvermilion wrote:

Whoops! The so-called straights don't like to be accused of maybe having a little sugar in their tanks.
So, why do they hang out here? Why do they come back; time and time again?
It's like I used to tell Kimare...
Coming to a site where you KNOW you'll interact with gay men, over and over again is kind of like coming to an online gay bar--one where no one knows who you are.
Hell hath no fury like a closet case.(quote me on that)
And some of these bitches are showing A LOT of fury!

It has always seemed very silly to me when someone gay tries to insult you by suggesting that you are gay.

I think you're a closet straight! Nana!Nana!Nana!

See how silly you are?

veryvermilion wrote:

Whoops! The so-called straights don't like to be accused of maybe having a little sugar in their tanks.
So, why do they hang out here? Why do they come back; time and time again?
It's like I used to tell Kimare...
Coming to a site where you KNOW you'll interact with gay men, over and over again is kind of like coming to an online gay bar--one where no one knows who you are.
Hell hath no fury like a closet case.(quote me on that)
And some of these bitches are showing A LOT of fury!

And, if that doesn't work for you, then, you may compress this...

8===D

Frankie Rizzo wrote:

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It has always seemed very silly to me when someone gay tries to insult you by suggesting that you are gay.
I think you're a closet straight! Nana!Nana!Nana!
See how silly you are?

Yeah, I'll bet that he has some testosterone in his tank, right?

Rock Hudson wrote:

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My apologies to both Ronald and his honey. I've no wish to be rude or exclusive. I wasn't sure that Ronald or his honey wished to be associated with a hater, racist, or socialist/communist/fascist/bi gfoot/homophobe/(I ran out of stuff to use) like myself...

Mr. Hudson.

I believe Ronald is fully aware that revolutionary government's former 60's radicals, now in charge, would like us to consider independent thinkers haters, racists and secretly gay.

Frankie.

P.S. Ronald is my favorite poster! Arf! Someone once said you can't marry a cow because cows cannot enter into contracts. Ronald responded "Why do I need a cow's consent to marry her, I don't need her consent to kill and eat her."

Frankie Rizzo wrote:

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It has always seemed very silly to me when someone gay tries to insult you by suggesting that you are gay.
I think you're a closet straight! Nana!Nana!Nana!
See how silly you are?

No, you don't. We don't need him, over here...
:-D

Rock Hudson wrote:

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My thought is, that it's simply fabulous how you found a study to quote. Absolutely spellbinding. Gee whiz, amazing how you always have a study or a poll to quote. That is a manufactured result. As I'm certain that you are aware of.

Here are a list of people who post on this thread every single day atleast 3-15 times per day. These people claim not to be gay, yet they are OBSESSED with gay marriage. These people will be on this thread seven days a week, 30-31 days a month (28-29 in February) and 365 days a year (366 on leap years). You couldn't pay these people to stop commenting about gay marriage. These people are about one or two more times getting cut off in traffic from either hanging themselves, or being the lead story on the 5 o'clock news, and it's only this thread that keeps them going for the time being....atleast here they have something to live for. Without this thread the suicide rate in their respective cities/towns would be just a little bit higher.

Frankie Rizzo approx. 82,000 comments about gay marriage
KiMare 12,115 comments about gay marriage
Pietro Armando 3,538 comments about gay marriage

Frankie Rizzo himself has almost 50% of the almost 200,000 posts on this thread. You can often find him posting 10-15 times in a row. TALK ABOUT OBSESSED!!

KiMare is obviously a lesbian. This level of hate can only be bread from an inner hatred towards ones own self. She hates herself on a very dangerous level. The only way she can live w her true self is by bashing other gays as much as possible, and cutting herself on a daily basis. Don't be too hard on her.

Pietro Armando was just dropped on his head as a baby one too many times.

So don't be too hard on these people. After all they are the frontrunners to be America's next unabombers, movie theater terrorists, anthrax killers, etc. etc.

Smile, snicker, chuckle, laughter,(I think u get the jist of it)

Frankie Rizzo wrote:

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Mr. Hudson.
I believe Ronald is fully aware that revolutionary government's former 60's radicals, now in charge, would like us to consider independent thinkers haters, racists and secretly gay.
Frankie.
P.S. Ronald is my favorite poster! Arf! Someone once said you can't marry a cow because cows cannot enter into contracts. Ronald responded "Why do I need a cow's consent to marry her, I don't need her consent to kill and eat her."

I greatly admire Ronald's work. Rare, and always to the point.
:-D

Rock Hudson wrote:

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Are you kidding? It's you b!otches who have the thin skin. Look at VV. and, it's you who have had us banned, not the other way around..Talk about spin....

Cry me a river.

Someone has suggested that my accusing a person of being gay is an "insult". How silly! Nothing could be farther from the truth.

I'm just trying to get you boys to seek out why it is that you come here, day after day, expressing rage and fear of all things to do with male homosexuality.

COME OUT MY QUEENS! Face the truth that appears to be terrorizing you.

Mr. Hudson said it so well... "Using defensiveness, victimization, anger, intellectualizing or outrage as means to protect your vulnerability is a form of self deception.

When you get on your high horse and claim that others are wounding you or not adhering to your point of view, you are lying to yourself because your reactions are DEFENSE MECHANISMS (look up repression, suppression, transference, and reaction formation).

Lies are often something we tell when we want to protect ourselves.

The desire to protect is a response to something that you fear.

The more you acknowledge your fears, the less you'll need to lie.

It will probably take practice, but once you're alert to the need to be more self-truthful, you'll catch yourself when you lie to yourself and start stopping it from happening.

Amazing things will happen as you are more truthful to yourself––you'll trust yourself more, you'll feel your self worth increase and you'll understand your limitations."

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And then you can embrace the divas that you truly are! And then you won't be so fearful of gay men. And then you won't be so terrified of facing other gay men.

Look, my friends; you're either closeted bisexuals or full-on, Kinsey 6 gays!

Stop hating and hiding that little secret about yourselves.

You don't have to pretend to hate us in order to throw yourself and the world off your scent.

We understand your pain and your fear.

But rest assured, we will welcome you into the fold.

(rolls eyes)

All non-americans of a certain faith will please tag a boat or plane back to their own country so they can plant bombs and shoot up their own kind.

America doesn't need you anymore or ever again!

veryvermilion wrote:

Someone has suggested that my accusing a person of being gay is an "insult". How silly! Nothing could be farther from the truth.
I'm just trying to get you boys to seek out why it is that you come here, day after day, expressing rage and fear of all things to do with male homosexuality.
COME OUT MY QUEENS! Face the truth that appears to be terrorizing you.
Mr. Hudson said it so well... "Using defensiveness, victimization, anger, intellectualizing or outrage as means to protect your vulnerability is a form of self deception.
When you get on your high horse and claim that others are wounding you or not adhering to your point of view, you are lying to yourself because your reactions are DEFENSE MECHANISMS (look up repression, suppression, transference, and reaction formation).
Lies are often something we tell when we want to protect ourselves.
The desire to protect is a response to something that you fear.
The more you acknowledge your fears, the less you'll need to lie.
It will probably take practice, but once you're alert to the need to be more self-truthful, you'll catch yourself when you lie to yourself and start stopping it from happening.
Amazing things will happen as you are more truthful to yourself––you'll trust yourself more, you'll feel your self worth increase and you'll understand your limitations."
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And then you can embrace the divas that you truly are! And then you won't be so fearful of gay men. And then you won't be so terrified of facing other gay men.
Look, my friends; you're either closeted bisexuals or full-on, Kinsey 6 gays!
Stop hating and hiding that little secret about yourselves.
You don't have to pretend to hate us in order to throw yourself and the world off your scent.
We understand your pain and your fear.
But rest assured, we will welcome you into the fold.

Now, you're appearing to gain a sense of humor. Me like. We don't hate you, where'd you get that from? We just enjoy setting you straight (no pun intended). And, I don't belong in your fold, why don't you join the straights? Defend the rational side?