When spouse doesn't want sex, what ar...

When spouse doesn't want sex, what are the possible options?

There are 984 comments on the Chicago Tribune story from Jun 4, 2008, titled When spouse doesn't want sex, what are the possible options?. In it, Chicago Tribune reports that:

W hat do you do when you're married and your partner doesn't want to have sex any more? What's the answer? If counseling doesn't work or your partner won't go, what are your options? Divorce? Death? Affairs? ...

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Mimi

Baltimore, MD

#1024 Mar 13, 2014
from holland wrote:
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could u be more negative, if they wistle at u or cat call u, well its a compliment, god, its saying u look good thats free speech, harresment is if they would be feeling u off, otherwise its a compliment saying ur goodlooking, as for openers those are cheap and no more then coverups for asking can i have sex with u. but ey i guess american women just like playing games:P
U talk alot of bull... if you're beyond child bearing age, you belong in a nursing home, nursing some applesause... you toothless b*st*rd
Mimi

Baltimore, MD

#1025 Mar 13, 2014
Sue wrote:
<quoted text>
This is completely true, whether it is sex, companionship, understanding, comfort, laughter, whatever. You get married to give your spouse these things and guess what folks, sex and physical contact is an important part of life. Just as kind words and comfort are from your partner. Denying these things to your spouse for any length of time is wrong. Let's be honest, people do this in their marriages to harm the other one. If there is a change in the way partners feel, it's time for counseling. Sex is like oxygen, it's not that important until you're not getting any.
Put your wife on viagra
Mimi

Baltimore, MD

#1026 Mar 13, 2014
from holland wrote:
<quoted text>
what if its a woman?
Idiot, the both of you ought to take viagra... she has a d**k too.
Mimi

Baltimore, MD

#1027 Mar 13, 2014
Tired of the Bull wrote:
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You sound so reasonable. Your wife is lucky to have you. I was married for 21 years. Up until the divorce he swore he still loved me, but he had to have the other woman. Of course he was telling her this sob story about how bad things were at home. Until she got married to him and his own family let her know how he lied and then she and I had a talk one day. I sure hope she enjoys the bee nest she is in now. They deserve each other.
You're pretty dense if it took you 21 years to have that talk with your spouse. Get your head out of your butt and wake up and smell the coffee.

“An Apple a day”

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

nil carborundum illegitemi

#1028 Mar 14, 2014
Counseling.

“An Apple a day”

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

nil carborundum illegitemi

#1030 Mar 16, 2014
Of course, a marriage is always ONLY about sex.

Petal Power

“It's a New Dawn”

Since: Feb 14

Location hidden

#1031 Mar 16, 2014
_Annabella_ wrote:
Of course, a marriage is always ONLY about sex.
NO it's NOT!!

About The Being TOGETHER Always.. Cuz, Ya DIG Them!!
Anonymous

Newark, UK

#1032 Mar 16, 2014
My girlfriend went off sex with me because she was and still is plain filth. She was more interested in flirting and flaunting around any guy that breathed, slutting about online and whatever else! Basically she's so desperate for male attention she is willing to accept the fact she's a dirty slag.
tom

Chilliwack, Canada

#1033 Mar 17, 2014
Masturbation works wonderful for me.........

Petal Power

“It's a New Dawn”

Since: Feb 14

Location hidden

#1034 Mar 17, 2014
Hard Decision really.. IS SEX all that Important to Keep the Marriage Strong???

DOES IT TOP...Clean House, Full Frig and Cupboards of Grocery items, Washed and Ironed Clothes, Meals on time, Children Cared for, Parents-in-law's Guest room readied, Sports tickets bought And MEETING you at the Door w/a MARTINI and a KISS???

THINK ABOUT IT..DUDES!!!

“An Apple a day”

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

nil carborundum illegitemi

#1035 Mar 18, 2014
Let's just castrate the guy. Problem solved!

Petal Power

“It's a New Dawn”

Since: Feb 14

Location hidden

#1036 Mar 18, 2014
Tiddley Winks Come to mind..
Four Twenty

Spring, TX

#1038 Mar 17, 2015
Well, um…what if you are not married?
Jane Addiction

Spring, TX

#1040 Mar 21, 2015
Petal Power wrote:
Hard Decision really.. IS SEX all that Important to Keep the Marriage Strong???
DOES IT TOP...Clean House, Full Frig and Cupboards of Grocery items, Washed and Ironed Clothes, Meals on time, Children Cared for, Parents-in-law's Guest room readied, Sports tickets bought And MEETING you at the Door w/a MARTINI and a KISS???
THINK ABOUT IT..DUDES!!!
Sex tops all of that. Duh.
George

Burlington, NJ

#1041 Mar 21, 2015
_Annabella_ wrote:
Let's just castrate the guy. Problem solved!
Well that is a solution. Needs to be done by a hot female urologist and all female staff. Also allow the guy one last hand job. Married men have options: get your balls cut off, jerk off or cheat. I have chosen to jerk off.
Herman

United States

#1042 Mar 21, 2015
I usually go visit her best friend, it's easier than dealing with all the drama plus we both get off good.
Texas_Ave

Spring, TX

#1043 Apr 1, 2015
George wrote:
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Well that is a solution. Needs to be done by a hot female urologist and all female staff. Also allow the guy one last hand job. Married men have options: get your balls cut off, jerk off or cheat. I have chosen to jerk off.
Wow. I can't even.
Texas_Ave

Spring, TX

#1045 Apr 3, 2015
Sex, it's what's for breakfast. Sex, the other white meat. Turn down for what.

The whole premise of the movie neighbors was this couple with a baby, trying to have sex to completion and how to milk engorged breasts while trying to deal with noisy Frat neighbors.

Zac Efron or Seth Rogen. Who would you rather?

“An Apple a day”

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

nil carborundum illegitemi

#1046 Jun 27, 2015
Who cares.

Since: Sep 14

Location hidden

#1047 Jun 27, 2015
Herman wrote:
I usually go visit her best friend, it's easier than dealing with all the drama plus we both get off good.
Too funny, but what about the coming drama with her finding out?
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