Can someone help

[I need help]

I'm married. I have been married for almost 5 years. I've never cheated. However, I got this woman that is older that is fucking hot that wants to screw me. She knows I'm married, and she won't leave me alone. She wants me to the extent that it is unexplainable. I mean, she wants to get freaky. I know I can't cheat, but me and my wife hasn't had the best relationship. My wife might have cheated on me, she might not have. I don't know.

What should I do?

[gethelp]

Stay away from her. Get your own busuness in order before you still another relationship. Attraction wont keep you warm at nite for long

[well]

stay away from the woman it will only cause trouble in the long run

[bust it]

go for it man you only live once but if your married dont kiss and tell no what i mean man

[shes country]

chesting is wrong no matter how u put it. When your married ur married!!!!

[a wife]

Stay away from the she-devil! If you're not happy with your wife, then divorce her. But don't cheat on her. Even if she's possibly done it to you, don't stoop that low and do the same. It's just wrong to cheat no matter what the situation is. And if you think you may be able to salvage what's left of your marriage (which probably won't be likely if you cheat on her) then I suggest you get away from the other woman ASAP! Don't keep putting yourself in temptation's path. If she won't take no for an answer, tell her you're going to take action if she doesn't back off! If she's bothering you at work, then go to your boss and report the harrassment. They'll make it stop if you're dead serious about it. If there are others who know about the situation, I would recommend telling your wife before she finds out through someone else. If she does, it won't be pretty. Good luck with everything.

[dont hurt wife]

Are you sure you want to do this to your wife? I was a wife and was cheated on. It hurts. Very bad. The trust is very hard to get back if ever. Stay clear of this woman if you want to save your marriage. Because, chances are if you do this and she finds out it will be over. You have to make up your own mind. But, think about if it is worth the loss it could cost you. You say the woman is hot but what about your wife. You must have thought she was hot. You married her. Take a look at her with your heart. She is still the same woman and should still be hot to you. Best of luck and hope you make the right choice.

[Grandma]

Just because the grass is greener on the otherside does not mean there isn't a septic tank feeding it...Now think about that one and let it sink in...

[searching]

cheat on her all you can.I made the mistake of not cheating on my wife for 20 years I was true then come to find out she was screwing every guy she could find so I say go for it before she does.

[Grandma]

Once a chester always a cheater. You took vows...stand by them!

[none of u]

who is the womans name who wants to screw this boy,lol

[blah blah]

Folks don't waste your time on this guy. He has already made up his mind what he is gonna do obviously. If he is even considering it to the point where he has to get advice from topix, he will have done it by weeks end.

[Grandma]

I hope and pray he does not...he at least asked others opinion because he knew it was wrong...he just needed his insecurities confirmed...and should he go ahead and have the affair...I hope he don't get something that AJAX will not wash off...You reap what you saw, honey.....

[Karma]

Yes, and karma is such a bi+ch. You may think it is a great idea, you may even think you can or did get away with it BUT karma always makes a sneak attack.

[awesome in TN]

Grandma wrote:

Just because the grass is greener on the otherside does not mean there isn't a septic tank feeding it...Now think about that one and let it sink in...

exactly...if this woman is so persistent perhaps she is a psychotic stalker. Beauty is only skin deep...but psycho goes all the way to the bone. You've seen Fatal Attraction? This stuff really happens. It more than likely will destroy your marriage and hurt your kids if you have them. I won't tell you what to do...I'm just sayin'...

[Balls Von StickyGoo]

Drop some manchowder on her face!!!!

[humdinger]

awesome in TN wrote:

<quoted text> exactly...if this woman is so persistent perhaps she is a psychotic stalker. Beauty is only skin deep...but psycho goes all the way to the bone. You've seen Fatal Attraction? This stuff really happens. It more than likely will destroy your marriage and hurt your kids if you have them. I won't tell you what to do...I'm just sayin'...

Either you're an uptight woman or a loser of a man. If he can hit that then go for it. You only live once.

[awesome in TN]

humdinger wrote:

<quoted text>
Either you're an uptight woman or a loser of a man. If he can hit that then go for it. You only live once.

not uptight just not a wh@re. Ever heard of morality? Apparently not.

[Lady Hawk]

I need help wrote:

I'm married. I have been married for almost 5 years. I've never cheated. However, I got this woman that is older that is fucking hot that wants to screw me. She knows I'm married, and she won't leave me alone. She wants me to the extent that it is unexplainable. I mean, she wants to get freaky. I know I can't cheat, but me and my wife hasn't had the best relationship. My wife might have cheated on me, she might not have. I don't know.
What should I do?

Stop day dreaming and go back to school and learn some words that are fit for people to read.

[sex]

Then ppl wonder why cheating is sooo common? WOMEN like that who don't care who the guy is with so she can get some and MEN who think that just cause she is hot she will be a nice lay and think with their dick not their brains. If ppl want to have sex with different ppl then dont be in a relationship at all. Then u can get it on whenever and not be cheating, there are plenty out there just lookin for sex with no strings attached. But you have to watch out for all the stds from sleeping around. And in the end it will be a lonely road when you dont have someone to cuddle up with and talk to.