What do married couples do to keep th...

What do married couples do to keep things spicy in the bedroom

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Santa Barbara, CA

#1 Oct 21, 2009
Letr hear your best stuff.
also interested

Wartburg, TN

#2 Oct 22, 2009
If you find the answer to that, let me know! I've tried for years to keep things fresh and interesting, but it takes two people putting in an effort. If you're the only one trying, it'll never work.
i know

Helenwood, TN

#3 Oct 22, 2009
bring in another girl i know its weird to women haveing another girl join in but it's auctually kinda fun i dont think it's concidered being a lesbo if its just a every now an then thing! or get a video an try things that u haven't tryed befour i know that works get's ur man all bothered an stuff try different room's in your house or go for a drive an mess with ur man while he is driveing just try differnt things to spice it up..
The joker

Wartburg, TN

#4 Oct 22, 2009
"also interested" is right. It takes both people to keep things spiced up.

My wife and I have been married for 5 years.

When we got married we would have never thought of trying toys, etc. It was so embarrassing.

However now, we do.

You see the strawberries and whip cream stuff on the movies .... honestly, don't be afraid to do that. It's actually really fun.

Body paint that you can lick off is rather fun.

Kamasutra books will help spice it up a bit with new positions.

Some people like to watch pornos.

Warming lubs, etc. is also nice.

Go to an adult store and look around, you will find something.

Role play.

Actually act out your fantasies. Even if its in a tub off jello.

As funny as it sounds, play dress up. Some women like the uniform look of a police officer. Just how some men might like the teacher look. If you have a few bucks, go get something to wear.

The thing is, if you are married for a bit, things like this get easier with time. Sometimes its a little awkward at first.

Do not be afraid of doing something. It is very healthy to experience different things in sex. You might feel stupid at times, but remember, your married. Who cares?

Oneida, TN

#5 Oct 22, 2009
Try loving eachother as husband and wife and if another woman is what intrests you, Get a divorce.
Just a thought

Strunk, KY

#6 Oct 22, 2009
My husband and I role play and it is very fun!

Stearns, KY

#7 Oct 22, 2009
I would suggest the butt. As in doin it in the butt. thats nice

Santa Barbara, CA

#8 Oct 24, 2009
Take some chocolate and pour it all over each other and enjoy. Been married for 15 years and we love this.

Wartburg, TN

#9 Nov 4, 2009
Hey I've been married almost two years and my hubby and I never have problems. Its called love...If you love one another you would not want another guy or girl to interfere in you love life. Yes toys is sometimes good but it boils down to how well you know your lover and how well you turn them on. Love is the key...if there is no love there is no way. Im proud to say my hubsband and I love each other and never have problems in the bedroom or livingroom or kitchen or car or whereever we may be..
Sharon Applegate

Fremont, CA

#10 Dec 30, 2009
Lots of good ideas here! There is a retail chain in New York called Ricky’s NYC that has a ton of fun costume ideas, including some you discussed here. You can check it out online at http://www.rickyshalloween.com or http://www.rickysnyc.com .

Oneida, TN

#12 Jan 7, 2010
ooooh wrote:
I would suggest the butt. As in doin it in the butt. thats nice
This has inspired me to go back and re-watch the Lady's Man

Oneida, TN

#13 Jan 7, 2010
Someone said bring in a girl. I say bring in another man before you ever settle to have another girl brought in. What is good for the gander has to be good for the goose as well. Someone else said Butt. Well I say yeah lay it to him since it is he who has his Gspot located there not you.

Oneida, TN

#14 Jan 10, 2010
Okay wrote:
Someone said bring in a girl. I say bring in another man before you ever settle to have another girl brought in. What is good for the gander has to be good for the goose as well. Someone else said Butt. Well I say yeah lay it to him since it is he who has his Gspot located there not you.
Whatched Deliverance a few too many times???

Oneida, TN

#15 Jan 10, 2010
LOL. I do not think I have ever seen it. But I do think people need to learn there is a two way street out there and it only makes sense to travel on both sides. What is good for one has to be good for the other first. LOL

Lancing, TN

#16 Jan 11, 2010
why don't you just try being nasty. if'it's not dirty, then it's not fun. most are too ashamed to admit that they might like something because it's too kinky. the same old sex is no fun. i have seen some who couldn't even leave the lights on. don't be afraid, just get down and dirty andenjoy it. sex can be good with any person, you just have to make it that way.

Oneida, TN

#17 Jan 11, 2010
being sneaky always works for me.change it up. mess around somewhere you never have. like a closet! b careful though, u wouldnt want a broom stick were it doesnt belong!lol thats just for laughs folks

Dickson, TN

#18 Jan 11, 2010
I like putting chili powder on our private parts and singing mexican songs....that keeps things spicy! lol.
getting a laugh

Plainfield, IL

#19 Jan 25, 2011
those were pretty funny!

Sunbright, TN

#20 Jan 25, 2011
OCTO-TI spent a few years as a Family Counslor! First * Most Christian Denominations approve of Couples enjoying a vigorous sex life! SECOND * The Supreme Court has held that Consensual sex between Conseual Adults is perfectly legal! THIRD * CONVERSE - Talk is ESSENTIAL, IF you Don't ask they Won't Tell! Many Couples I Counselled Improved their marriages vastly by ceasing keeping secrets from each other! FOURTH * There is no shame in getting advice - From friends, relatives, Professionals or even Marriage Counselors! KEEP informed - from books movies, DVDs, etc. The Bible has many passages that can improve! TOPIX can be read, commented in BUT all should meet your test of COMMON SENSE! FIFTH * Be safe - Uninary Tract Infections are common for some sexual practices SO BE INFORMED and take precautions!

Minneapolis, MN

#21 Feb 17, 2012
Fuel your passions and creativity by getting some help to write creative, intimate stories about you and your spouse. This really works, and if you search the Web on "spicy, personalized stories for married christians" to find sites that honor marriage, value purity but still help you get really hot with your spouse, it can be easy to give this special gift. These stories break the boredom and build anticipation and arousal. Enjoy!

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