a boy named derwood

[Keith]

know him?

[just saying]

Keith wrote:

know him?

why are you doing this if youre not adult enough to hanlde it with the law shows how childish you are no excuses its not about what happened to you long ago its just to annoy somone about years and things in youre past if u wanted action taken youd tell the authorities instead of acting like a childish kidnext time ill spell handle right lol

[love it]

people see the post removed they start a new one knowing damn good and well that there is legal action pending lol slander is a crime so goooo ahead bash him try your best to destroy the man its so childish lol but in the end he will have the last laugh ! grow up people if he commited a crime as sooo many claim you should have reported it and hed be doing the time ! instead you slander him and youll be the one with paying his bills for years to come ....law suit is already filed !

[love it]

sorry not with just paying

[Keith]

What is his name? Why do you care? What is your connection? how do you know him? where do you know him from? is he your relative? How does this person know it is him, if he has no guilt to reflect on? I posted no last names and no addresses and no telephone numbers! Now if he feels he wants to take this to the Po Po then to the Po Po may he go...
He publicly voiced my name who I was with and even played with his own head about every aspect of my life and was dismanteling it. Now do you really think that I give a flying flip about his claim to sue me? How does he know that this post is about him? How does he relate to this? What is his CLAIM?

[Keith]

love it wrote:

sorry not with just paying

You are so full of Crap!

[Keith]

love it wrote:

people see the post removed they start a new one knowing damn good and well that there is legal action pending lol slander is a crime so goooo ahead bash him try your best to destroy the man its so childish lol but in the end he will have the last laugh ! grow up people if he commited a crime as sooo many claim you should have reported it and hed be doing the time ! instead you slander him and youll be the one with paying his bills for years to come ....law suit is already filed !

Lawyers are all about Money...(Besides it will be his loss not mine)...

[Keith]

love it wrote:

people see the post removed they start a new one knowing damn good and well that there is legal action pending lol slander is a crime so goooo ahead bash him try your best to destroy the man its so childish lol but in the end he will have the last laugh ! grow up people if he commited a crime as sooo many claim you should have reported it and hed be doing the time ! instead you slander him and youll be the one with paying his bills for years to come ....law suit is already filed !

The true is out! He is scerd'.......Is this your man?

[Keith]

How do you know who i am talking about?

[Keith]

Did williams hen pay for a lawyer for the old boy?
I will find out through the grapevine lol... all 3 better be careful...Cause I will tell on all 3 of their asses... don't think for a second I won't... cause I will... There is plenty to tell....

[Keith]

Keith wrote:

<quoted text> Lawyers are all about Money...(Besides it will be his loss not mine)...

I can Adapt....

[Keith]

Slander is the spoken or transitory form of defamation of character, a legal term that refers to a falsehood presented as true which could harm the reputation of a person or entity. Slander also encompasses body gestures as in the case of sign language. If defamation of character is placed in a fixed form, as in the case of a sign, published paper, film or recording, it is considered libel. In short, slander is temporarily uttered or gesticulated, libel is published or otherwise fixed.

Slander is a tort, or civil law, meaning a civil lawsuit can be brought against someone who is accused of slander. In the United States certain facts must be established for someone to be found guilty of slander. Assuming there is proof that the defendant uttered the alleged statement, the statement must be overheard by someone other than the subject or other “privileged” parties. Slander must also clearly identify the party or entity, and the intent must be malicious.

Winning a defamation of character lawsuit can pay off in two types of compensation: general damages and special damages. General damages covers emotional trauma while special damages covers economic loss. In the case of a slander lawsuit proof of specific special damages might be required before general damages can be awarded. Unfortunately, special damages can be hard to prove.

[Keith]

Defamation:
Any intentional (false communication), either written or spoken, that harms a person's reputation; decreases the respect, regard, or confidence in which a person is held; or induces disparaging, hostile, or disagreeable opinions or feelings against a person.

(If it is true there is no defamation...

[Keith]

Destroy Him? Naw... He did that all by himself.

[Keith]

I bet he never thought it would come to this
(While he was drugging me by proxy).. Then raping me the way he did. Did he care about my life? My health? My unborn baby? Did he care when his laughter filled the room as he was wedged and weighted against me, restricting me from departure Not letting me go? Did he care? Did he ever wish he hadn't done it?(Now he does..

[Keith]

Does this man remind you of someone you know?

[Keith]

just saying wrote:

<quoted text>why are you doing this if youre not adult enough to hanlde it with the law shows how childish you are no excuses its not about what happened to you long ago its just to annoy somone about years and things in youre past if u wanted action taken youd tell the authorities instead of acting like a childish kidnext time ill spell handle right lol

When I recieve papers (only then will I believe they were filed.)Lol...

[Keith]

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•What Should I Do?
•It's Not Your Fault
•Seek Medical Care
•What Happens During the Medical Exam?
•Dealing With Feelings
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It's Not Your Fault
Whatever happened, it wasn't your fault. No one has the right to have sex with you against your will. The blame for a rape lies solely with the rapist.
Sometimes a rapist will try to exert even more power by making the person who's been raped feel like it was actually his or her fault. A rapist may say stuff like, "You asked for it" or "You wanted it." This is just another way for the rapist to take control. The truth is that what a person wears, what a person says, or how a person acts is never a justification for rape.
Most people who are raped know their rapists. That can sometimes lead the person who's been raped to try to protect the perpetrator. Make protecting yourself your priority. Don't worry about protecting the person who raped you.
If you want to report the crime to the police, do so. Reporting a rape may help protect others from that person — and may help you feel a little less like you were a victim.
But making a report to the police may be difficult for some people. If you don't feel comfortable reporting it, you don't have to. You may prefer to get advice about what to do from an experienced adult who can be sympathetic to you. Do whatever helps you to feel safe and heal without blaming yourself.Seek Medical Care
The first thing someone who has been raped needs to do is see a medical doctor. Most medical centers and hospital emergency departments have doctors and counselors who have been trained to take care of someone who has been raped. It's important to get medical care because a doctor will need to check you for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and internal injuries.
Most areas have local rape hotlines that can give you advice about where to go for medical help. You may want to have a friend or family member go along for support, especially if you're feeling upset and unsafe. Some rape crisis centers also provide advocates who can go along with you. You can also call the national sexual assault hotline at (800) 656-HOPE.
If you are under 18 and don't want your parents to know about the rape, ask the rape crisis center about the laws in your area. Many jurisdictions treat rape exams confidentially, but some will require that a parent or guardian be notified.
You should get medical attention right away without changing your clothes, showering, douching, or washing. It can be hard not to clean up, of course — it's a natural human instinct to wash away all traces of a sexual assault. But being examined right away is the best way to ensure you get proper medical treatment.
Immediate medical attention also helps when people decide to report the crime, providing evidence needed to prosecute the rapist if a criminal case is pursued. If you've been raped and think you don't want to report it, you could change your mind later — this often happens — and having the results of a medical exam can help you do this.(There are laws, known as statutes of limitations, that give a person only a certain amount of time to pursue legal action for a crime, though, so be sure you know how long you have to report the rape. A local rape crisis center can advise you of the laws in your area.)
Even if you don't get examined right away, it doesn't mean you can't get a checkup later. It's always best to see a doctor immediately after a rape, of course. But a person can still go to a doctor or local clinic to get checked out for STDs, pregnancy, or injuries any time after being raped. In some cases, doctors can even gather evidence several days after a rape has occurred
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[Keith]

What Happens During the Medical Exam?

When you go to the hospital after a rape, a trained counselor or social worker will listen while you talk about what happened. Talking to a trained listener can help you begin to release some of the emotions you are probably feeling so that you can start to feel calm and safe again.

The counselor may also talk with you about the medical exam and what it involves. Each state or jurisdiction has different requirements, of course, but here are some of the things that may happen during the medical exam:
•A medical professional will test you for STDs, including HIV/AIDS. These tests may involve taking blood or saliva samples. Although the thought of getting an STD after a rape is extremely scary, the quicker a person finds out about any infection, the more effectively he or she can be treated. Doctors can start you on immediate treatment courses for STDs, including HIV/AIDS, that will greatly increase your protection against developing these diseases.
•If you're female, a medical professional may treat you to prevent an unwanted pregnancy, if you wish.
•A medical professional will examine you internally to check for any injury that might have been caused by the rape.
•A medical professional or trained technician may look for and take samples of the rapist's hair, skin, nails, or bodily fluids from your clothes or body.
•If you think you've been given a rape drug, a doctor or technician can test for this, too. Be aware that this toxicology test covers any and all illegal drugs.

At any time during the medical exam, you can say if you don't want a certain test performed or evidence collected. All procedures are being done to help you, so you have control over which procedures you'd like done, as well as a say in any you don't want.

[Keith]

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Dealing With Feelings

Rape isn't just physically damaging, it can be emotionally traumatic as well. The right emotional attention, care, and support can help a person begin the healing process and prevent lingering problems later on.

Someone who has been raped might feel a lot of things: angry, degraded, frightened, numb, or confused. It's also normal for someone who has been raped to feel ashamed or embarrassed. Some people withdraw from friends and family. Others don't want to be alone. Some feel depressed, anxious, or nervous.

Sometimes the feelings surrounding rape may show up in physical ways, such as trouble sleeping or eating. It may be hard to concentrate in school or to participate in everyday activities. Sometimes it may feel like you'll never get over the trauma of the rape. Experts often refer to these emotions — and their physical side effects — as rape trauma syndrome. The best way to work through them is with professional help.

It can be hard to think or talk about a frightening experience, especially something as personal as rape. People who have been raped sometimes avoid seeking help because they're afraid that talking about it will bring back memories or feelings that are too painful. But this can actually do more harm than good.

Talking about rape in a safe environment with the help and support of a trained professional is the best way to ensure long-term healing. Working through the pain sooner rather than later can help reduce symptoms like nightmares and flashbacks. It can also help people avoid potentially harmful behaviors and emotions, like major depression or self-injury.

Every rape survivor works through his or her feelings differently. Some people feel most comfortable talking one-on-one with a therapist. Others find that joining a support group where they can be with other survivors helps them to feel better, get their power back, and move on with their lives. In a support group, you can get help and support as well as give it. Your experiences and ideas may help others heal.