why is men so damed mean and hateful...

why is men so damed mean and hateful to there wife and calls you bad names

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fancy

Cleveland, GA

#1 Jul 29, 2011
would like to know
huh

Ashland, KY

#2 Jul 29, 2011
Cause they're unhappy inside for different reasons and feel they have to unleash their aggression on someone else. Someone like a wife, who he probably takes for granted and who is also a woman, which are typically weaker.
The dog on the porch

United States

#3 Jul 30, 2011
huh wrote:
Cause they're unhappy inside for different reasons and feel they have to unleash their aggression on someone else. Someone like a wife, who he probably takes for granted and who is also a woman, which are typically weaker.
Yur rite!! Wives&husbands r suppose 2 b best friends. I was married a long time. My x never remarried me either. That is 1 reason & abbusive! He would rather go out. with the ugliness & nasty ho than b kind & good 2 me! Watch 4 signs ! Good luck & don't let any man put u down. I learned that a long time ago hon!!!!
notme

Alto, GA

#4 Jul 30, 2011
Why do women act so weak and put up with their crap?I would never allow a man to mistreat me or my children.I dont want to hear I dont have any place to go.There is help out there if you want it.
duh

Grayson, KY

#5 Jul 30, 2011
Probably, because you are so stupid and deserve it.
And he loves you for whatever reason and lets you see his bad side. I'm sure he pisses you off to no end too, from time to time.
Dog

Olive Hill, KY

#6 Jul 30, 2011
We all arent. Id say we are all guilty of the taking for granted thing after a long marriage but honestly that cuts both ways. You tend to get comfortable in a long relationship thats a good one and stop doing the little things you did at first, not to be mean and usually not even realizing youve done it.
Now just flat out being mean is something else, and if hes doing that all the time then he figures your so crazy about him or he thinks hes so special that you would never consider leaving. Or doesnt care if you do.
Quick way to find out is leave. Either itll wake him up or you'll find out he didnt give a hoot anyway and can move on.
sallie

Greenville, SC

#7 Jun 6, 2012
Because they are sorry and concieted. They think they are God's gift to women. I am fed up with their smirky ways, I am better off without a sorry man trying to control me for a change. Never again will I be stupid enough to fall for another smooth line.
wondering

Dahlonega, GA

#8 Jun 6, 2012
mine would start a fight with me just so he could leave.my so called friend brought her friend to my home & when they left he started the fight & went chasing after her..They start the fake fight just to leave & blame you .I knew what his game was.now he is free to f...whoever I hate men.he is just a w**** dog.
Red Rose

Lexington, KY

#9 Jun 7, 2012
duh wrote:
Probably, because you are so stupid and deserve it.
And he loves you for whatever reason and lets you see his bad side. I'm sure he pisses you off to no end too, from time to time.
Umm well first of all, no one deserves to be treated like that in any way, and second, apparently he doesnt love her, she WILL finally get tired of it and leave, I did, my hubby never hit me, it was just all the verbal and emotional abuse, and everytime he wanted away from me he would pick a fight, just so that he could leave, you get tired of it, and she will too, give it time.
hey

Chesterfield, MO

#10 Jun 7, 2012
Not all men is like that.I been with the same ladey 12 years and we have yet to ever be mean to each other.If you love some one they are also your best friend as my ladey is.We can talk about aney thing to each other and we are not jelouise of each other,Trust is a big thing and we both trust each other 110 percent.Good luck to all of you in finding the love of your life i know we was lucky to find each other.When you find your wright mate you will know it and there will be NO fighting.If your not happy get a divorce you onley live on earth one time.Every one should be happy as we are and you also can if your with the wright person.
just sayen

Dahlonega, GA

#11 Jun 7, 2012
people are only mean to you if you let them
hey

Chesterfield, MO

#13 Jun 7, 2012
duh wrote:
Probably, because you are so stupid and deserve it.
And he loves you for whatever reason and lets you see his bad side. I'm sure he pisses you off to no end too, from time to time.
YOU sound like the kind of KID that no ladey should be around,Grow up no man is not like you are for men like you are kids that never grow up.
Because

Olive Hill, KY

#14 Jun 10, 2012
because they're stupid and don't have good grammar and it makes them angry
Funny

Olive Hill, KY

#15 Jun 10, 2012
Men are only jerk offs because the woman they are with allows them to get by with it. If every woman left a man when he was mean to her then sooner or later they would straighten up.
cweaver

Kankakee, IL

#16 Jul 3, 2012
My husband and I have been together 36 yrs. Never fight. I just would let him say bad things to me, and my son(so,so, sorry for that). Now I just can't stand it anymore, I just shout back at him now for being so stupid for the way he acts.I just started doing this in the last few weeks. Even his mother has always talked bad about me, so that don't help. Crap, I'm on so much insuline, and other meds I need his insurance, but told him I was going to live with Daughter. I think he was happy to hear this, because I never would talk back to him. The jerk one time wanted another female for him, but would I stay in the other bedroom, and cook, and clean for them.
Please don't put up with anyone who hurts you or your kids in any kind of way.
So True

Stillwater, MN

#17 Jul 3, 2012
Men who are mean, stubborn, quick tempered and hateful are victims of their own unhappy heart. As with my husband he draws unhappiness like a spoinge and delivers it with 1000 watts of power.
He for instance, gets so stubborn and mouthy when things don't go his way or people voice a honest opinion to his face he acts like a raging maniac and is full of sarcasm, cruel remarks and is an expert at twisting the tables and puts all blame of his dicontent on me or anyone else even strangers. He is Dr, Jeclkle and Mr. Hide and it is a mechanism that is very hard on me once just emaothionally but now that I almost 55 it wears me down physically. In December 2011 I was taken I was admitted t the hospital with chest pains and had 4 days of wondeful peace & quiet. I told the
folks in emergency to keep him away so I could calm
down. Recently in APril when he underwent back surgery the nursing staff noticed how he treated me and unbeknownst to us- called a Social WOrker with a guise of talking to us aboout his rehab. But then asked me to step outside and asked...."how long has your husband been abusing you"? She meant verbal abuse of course. I broke down with embarrasment and surprise "how did she know?
sickntired

Wagoner, OK

#18 Jul 4, 2012
Mine get's physical puts his hands on me and breaks furniture.All because I raise my voice at times.There's an old sayin " A fox smells it's own hole" Everyone he knows thinks he's a just a great guy. I got no friends or family.He works but I bust him every few months doing something stupid like callin women and messaging em.We been together over a decade.He's pulled the unimaginable a million times.
fools

Grayson, KY

#19 Jul 4, 2012
why do women go for guys like that and if they find out later the guy is scum why stay with them ?
Seriously

Olive Hill, KY

#20 Jul 4, 2012
sickntired wrote:
Mine get's physical puts his hands on me and breaks furniture.All because I raise my voice at times.There's an old sayin " A fox smells it's own hole" Everyone he knows thinks he's a just a great guy. I got no friends or family.He works but I bust him every few months doing something stupid like callin women and messaging em.We been together over a decade.He's pulled the unimaginable a million times.
Why do you put up with that?

Since: Nov 11

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#21 Jul 9, 2012
I agree ^^ do you not have any self respect? You only get 1 life, live it the way you want to not with someone who treats you like crap! Have some pride and confidence and walk AWAY!

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