just a thought

Hudson, NY

#1 Nov 25, 2012
Female born 1/20/81 at Hepburn medical. Adoption through catholic charities. Any info would be appreciated.

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#2 Nov 26, 2012
I wish you all the best. As a "search angel" I have helped over 150 people find their missing relatives (adoptees and siblings and b.moms) and it is always good to start a search when you're in your 20's. Some that I helped put it off too long and the result was finding a grave. States with open records (equal access) include Maine, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Kansas, Alaska, Oregon, Alabama, Tennessee: New York, being lawyer-driven, will not even let the adoptees' BILL get out of committee.
Thus we have many volunteers called "search angels" helping folks like you. We are not allowed to charge fees.

AHJ
thirteenthfingst ep

Vancouver, Canada

#3 Nov 26, 2012
So okay, what if anadoptive whatever does/ not want to be found? The laws imposed by The Great State of New York protect the birthparent as well asthe children.

The need of the adoptive whatever to know or connect with their adoptive whatever does not supercede a right to privacy. I hope you haven't gotten this poor girl's hopes up to think that some magic will occur that will make people happy to see them.

This is the Northcountry. There are a ton of crackheads, deadbeats and plain stupidity.
whatever

Saranac Lake, NY

#4 Nov 26, 2012
thirteenthfingstep wrote:
So okay, what if anadoptive whatever does/ not want to be found? The laws imposed by The Great State of New York protect the birthparent as well asthe children.
The need of the adoptive whatever to know or connect with their adoptive whatever does not supercede a right to privacy. I hope you haven't gotten this poor girl's hopes up to think that some magic will occur that will make people happy to see them.
This is the Northcountry. There are a ton of crackheads, deadbeats and plain stupidity.
Least they chose adoption and not abortion! You know so little and pretend to know so much thitenth know it all. Young lady, I wish you luck in your search. Don't get discouraged and most of all don't give up. Contact CC and see if you can at least register with them in case your birth mother is wanting to be found. Unfortunately they don't let the birth father's sign up.
searched and found

Ashburn, VA

#5 Nov 26, 2012
I wish you luck because it can happen if you are persistent. Just be careful because not all reunions are good ones. When I found my spouses family it tore our marriage and family apart. My spouse left us and now their life is a complete mess as well as ours being destroyed. Take it slow and be very very careful. Good luck I wish the best for you
just a thought

Hudson, NY

#6 Nov 26, 2012
I am looking because I am interested in my roots. There has always been apart of me I have questions about. My birthparents may not want to be found. That's ok! But I don't want to go through life wondering, what if? If I find them who know where I will go from there. Thank you for all the advice.
Search Angel Helper

Ogdensburg, NY

#7 Nov 26, 2012
I would like to help you, and think I might be able to help you. How can one get ahold of you?
just a thought

New York, NY

#8 Nov 27, 2012
Search Angel Helper wrote:
I would like to help you, and think I might be able to help you. How can one get ahold of you?
You can email me at lovingmyboy426@yahoo.com
love

Oswego, NY

#9 Dec 4, 2012
wishing you the best.

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