bill

Oceana, WV

#22 Dec 4, 2009
the attorney general has got their information and knows what they are doing before they release this to the public. maybe they will have to take some of their crooked money and hire them a good attorney.
duh

Orgas, WV

#23 Dec 4, 2009
money turns the best of people. how is it the good book says it "the love of money is the root of all evil" as everyone says these people are good people and i could not see them doing it, BUT money can do some strange thing to people and how they turn out.
MRS Stafford

United States

#24 Dec 4, 2009
winner77 wrote:
For opnce I agree with FDG. Innocent until proven Guilty. Or at least that's the way it should be. I have delt with Adam Toler on two occasions. My brother-in-law passed away in 2000, just after Adam Toler opened in the store front in Oceana. They treated us fabulous. Let us pay after the insurance money came in not up front which made it so much easier on us. Just this past August my mother in law passed away and once again they helped us with everything and never once pressured us for money. The final insurance just came in this month and our bill is paid. The Tolers are wonderful people. I truly believe that if this has happened it was made by mistake not on purpose.
Once again I see people coming on this message board and saying "I seen the bill myself" "It's a fact". Well we don't know you and we don't know it's a fact. My name is Carl Cox and I live in Matheny and I know for a fact that the Toler's run a wonderful funeral home and will do anything for the bereaved.
I absolutely agree with you, these are wonderful people! April
MRS Stafford

United States

#25 Dec 4, 2009
bill wrote:
the attorney general has got their information and knows what they are doing before they release this to the public. maybe they will have to take some of their crooked money and hire them a good attorney.
You obviously don't know these people or you envy them. They are GOOD people and they would not STEAL from anyone, I'm sure this is nothing more than an honest mistake or some kind of explanation which will come out eventually. People like you need to keep your nasty opinions to yourself!
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beamer

United States

#27 Dec 5, 2009
Maybe now Rebeckah will get that nose of hers, out of the air..And quit acting like she is so much better then anyone else.
LOL

Orgas, WV

#28 Dec 5, 2009
nose in the air or not, i'd hit it and in more ways than one too =)
Spencer

Clear Fork, WV

#29 Dec 5, 2009
These people have never acted that way. Why do you take such pleasure out of this? There is something wrong with someone who can't wait to get a chance to "bad mouth" others. I have known this family for years and find them to be honest, hardworking people. Leave them alone -- I feel sure you will find they have done nothing wrong.
thats bull CRAP

Clear Fork, WV

#30 Dec 5, 2009
They are the BEST people that Ive ever meet they would not do some thing like that!!!!!
sure

Oceana, WV

#31 Dec 5, 2009
I'm sure their nice to their friends but I have seen them many times in speed way and tried speaking to them and they just look at me like I am trash and stick their noses up and I have even said your little girl is very pretty and she just looks at me like whats it to you not even a thank you. I think they are rude and snotty
Sad

Pineville, WV

#32 Dec 5, 2009
Oh boy,you people sure have them wrong!We prepaid my fathers funeral and after all was done Donna called and sent me a check for over 700.00!No matter where I see them they speak and give me a hug.They are wonderful and compassionate people!!!!!!
crunchy monkey

Lyburn, WV

#33 Dec 5, 2009
sure wrote:
I'm sure their nice to their friends but I have seen them many times in speed way and tried speaking to them and they just look at me like I am trash and stick their noses up and I have even said your little girl is very pretty and she just looks at me like whats it to you not even a thank you. I think they are rude and snotty

i agree with you. i've seen the same thing @ the same place.
wvgirlalmost30

Brenton, WV

#34 Dec 5, 2009
and again...uggggggGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG GGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG GGGGGGGGg...people..seriously. .what does the personality of someone have to do with their business....that is what is wrong with this town..too many people want to point out all to the negatives of someone when they cant even do a critical self evaluation when they look in the mirror...seriously..when you go out in public are you always smiles?..do you always act happy and jolly..and how many people actually drive nice cars and have nice homes..but are in an enormous amount of debt..and why is it..that when someone is living a plentiful life..people have to down it...and call people stuck up..seriously..grow up or get another job...thank you..tired of peoples whining!!!
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SHUT UP

United States

#36 Dec 5, 2009
been there wrote:
I think it is a shame that they would have a funeral home in memory of their son who went home with the Lord and Saviour and then embezzle money from us that were only trying to make things easier for our families at the saddest time on earth.
For some strange reason deep in my heart I feel that the ex husband had a hand in this cause he was the one that we went through when we done pre plan.
Very suspicious that it just now surfaces.
Since this was brought to everyone's attention more and more people are coming forward and telling what has happened to them. For instance; these people were not high class high society people until the untimely death of a loved one. Now they are high classed people who use to be just like me and you living from pay check to pay check.
When you go in to make arrangements you have to listen to the small child who has the floor which is messy with high priced toys. They don't give their time nor attention to those grieving and needing to make arrangements.
Low and behold do they dare come out to assist you if the weather is nice and sunny and warm.
They are never seen at the viewing. They ask that you keep your loved ones funeral to 30 minutes.
So now that the investigation is under way maybe these people will learn that you can't steal and live in a class that is bought from stolen money.
Bet their memorial service this year will be a memorable one with money stolen from us.
You need the hell beat out of you CHICKENSHIT, I HATE CHICKENSHIT ppl like yourself. Your probably some BIG FAT UGLY BITCH that sits on their lazy FAT ASS and just run off at the mouth but too damn CHICKEN to do anything and too damn LAZY.
well well

Oceana, WV

#37 Dec 5, 2009
when my sisters baby was still born my mom was a mess and she called them and they were so rude to her when she hung up the phone she was in tears I ask what was wrong she said Donna was so rude to me and pretty much just hung up on me I was so mad I wanted to call her back but my mom calmed me down and we called Evans & Evans and they were great Chris even called after it was all over to check on our family and he was there through it all. Take this for what you will it is the honest to Gods truth and this is why I have nothing for them. I am sure that there is people out there who has used them and were treated great but there are also the ones of us that has been treated badly by them as well. I am not whinning I have nice cars and a home and my husband makes good money and I dont act snobby or rude to people no matter what my mood is.
whatever

United States

#38 Dec 6, 2009
seems to me more and more ppl are speaking out about the crooks in oceana lets all go to their memorial service and see how they stole from ppl to make their sons memorial outshine all the others my son went to school with adam and adam never once thought he was better than anyone else which today he is in a BETTER place than us ashamed of his family you ask wouldnt you be
Patrick

Pineville, WV

#39 Dec 6, 2009
been there wrote:
I think it is a shame that they would have a funeral home in memory of their son who went home with the Lord and Saviour and then embezzle money from us that were only trying to make things easier for our families at the saddest time on earth.
For some strange reason deep in my heart I feel that the ex husband had a hand in this cause he was the one that we went through when we done pre plan.
Very suspicious that it just now surfaces.
Since this was brought to everyone's attention more and more people are coming forward and telling what has happened to them. For instance; these people were not high class high society people until the untimely death of a loved one. Now they are high classed people who use to be just like me and you living from pay check to pay check.
When you go in to make arrangements you have to listen to the small child who has the floor which is messy with high priced toys. They don't give their time nor attention to those grieving and needing to make arrangements.
Low and behold do they dare come out to assist you if the weather is nice and sunny and warm.
They are never seen at the viewing. They ask that you keep your loved ones funeral to 30 minutes.
So now that the investigation is under way maybe these people will learn that you can't steal and live in a class that is bought from stolen money.
Bet their memorial service this year will be a memorable one with money stolen from us.
First things first, for me to deal with u regarding pre-need, you got to have a license to do these services, so don't drag me in the middle of this. Second, even though I'm no longer part of this family, they are wonderful people wanting to help people in need, and Oceana should consider themselves lucky they have a business that goes the extra mile to help. And third, my daughter deserves the best and if they can get it for her, then by all means get it she is a child, and children are messy no matter whos child it is, so don't be a low life and start on my daughter.
Patrick

Pineville, WV

#40 Dec 6, 2009
also known as EX-HUSBAND IN THE PREVIOUS REMARKS
lee

Oceana, WV

#41 Dec 6, 2009
they call this child a greeter. to them i am sure it is a great child but when people are grieving and trying to make arrangements they are not wanting to be bothered by this child. also, keep it quite and out of the way at funerals.most people do not have their children at work.
Mary

Logan, WV

#42 Dec 6, 2009
The Toler's are great people! I hate to hear this, and I hope its just a big misunderstanding. No, not many ppl take thier kids to work, but then again not many ppl are lucky enough to have a job they can take their child to. I for one would work if I could take my child. I hate being away from her. And maybe rebekah doesn't have a babysitter...Is she just going to leave her there alone? They have always been very professional with their job! This doesn't need to be discussed on here! Just leave them alone. They have enough on their hands right now...
Ex-husband

Pineville, WV

#43 Dec 6, 2009
lee wrote:
they call this child a greeter. to them i am sure it is a great child but when people are grieving and trying to make arrangements they are not wanting to be bothered by this child. also, keep it quite and out of the way at funerals.most people do not have their children at work.
Listen don't start with as u would say "this child" she doesn't hurt anybody ok, and the last time I checked lots of people enjoy her presence during services, and I will ask again to leave her out of this situation.

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