what do you think about older men dat...
mopepe

Clinton, MD

#137 Jul 28, 2008
im kinda mad at my 43 year old dad for dating a 26 year old.
twistie

UK

#138 Jul 28, 2008
the one question you must ask your self is he happy?
anonymous

Grand Forks, ND

#139 Jul 31, 2008
I've fallen for a man who is thirty years older. I didn't mean to be it's just the way I feel at the moment. As for a father figure, I have a wonderful father and I don't need that. He (the man I love) makes me feel absolutely wonderful. I honestly don't care anymore what people think. Even though sometimes the snickering is hurtful. Given time, people see past that age difference and will see two people completely head over heels in love with each other.

Since: Jul 08

workington

#140 Aug 1, 2008
anonymous wrote:
I've fallen for a man who is thirty years older. I didn't mean to be it's just the way I feel at the moment. As for a father figure, I have a wonderful father and I don't need that. He (the man I love) makes me feel absolutely wonderful. I honestly don't care anymore what people think. Even though sometimes the snickering is hurtful. Given time, people see past that age difference and will see two people completely head over heels in love with each other.
may i ask your age if you dont mind
big boy

Walker, WV

#141 Aug 1, 2008
hey me an my wife has been married happy marred for 27yrs he dad we one of my best friend, when were both divorced an we started dating an a she was 23 an i was 43 now we just get alone like 2 babies, now she is 49 an i am 69 we could ask for a better life. age just is a number if u love somebody. so if u love someone older then go for it. u wont bee sorry
herbert

Lubbock, TX

#142 Aug 6, 2008
Good god, learn how to type, that is horrible!
big boy wrote:
hey me an my wife has been married happy marred for 27yrs he dad we one of my best friend, when were both divorced an we started dating an a she was 23 an i was 43 now we just get alone like 2 babies, now she is 49 an i am 69 we could ask for a better life. age just is a number if u love somebody. so if u love someone older then go for it. u wont bee sorry

“Open For Business”

Level 1

Since: Aug 08

North Jersey

#143 Aug 7, 2008
I try to date younger women; I don't know why, but I do.
miss dont give a hoot

Smoot, WV

#144 Aug 9, 2008
i think if both people are of legal age and if thats what floats your boat more power to you. i dont know of any laws being broken by doing that. of course youre going to find out that some people find it yucky.lol. some guys are going to say "that lucky S.O.B." i dont see as many women dating younger men as i do men dating younger women. i think society frowns more on women dating younger guys then the other way around.

Since: Aug 08

United States

#145 Aug 15, 2008
_Poopie_ wrote:
Hey the way it see it is as long as they are both happy then what does it matter. Age is just a number.
Idk if you no joshua belcher? well i agree because i was 14 and he was 18, but dsnt matter no cuz i 1/2 well i guess you'd say fine now im age of consent. but i totally agree with you on that!
MY DAD

Ithaca, NY

#146 Aug 15, 2008
herbert wrote:
Good god, learn how to type, that is horrible!<quoted text>
dont talk to big boy like that, that is my dad he is 69 respect your elders.
MY DAD

Ithaca, NY

#147 Aug 15, 2008
rageagainstthemachine wrote:
I try to date younger women; I don't know why, but I do.
how old are you rageagainstthemachine
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Since: Aug 08

United States

#149 Aug 18, 2008
well the way i look at it is, if shes not like more than 10 yrs younger as in like a 15 yr old girl with a with a 26 yr old now i mean that my thoughts of it. but my old man well hes 20 and im 16 yeah to me im a little young but what can i say? i love him and thats why our age dont matter to us, but in some ways it does seem crazy to me with our ages i dont no why ethier? but now a number shouldnt matter in some cases depending on there age.

FDG

“Have facts, will travel!”

Level 7

Since: Feb 08

The Big Town!

#150 Aug 18, 2008
MY DAD wrote:
<quoted text>dont talk to big boy like that, that is my dad he is 69 respect your elders.
Respect is something that is earned, not handed out because of age.

Since: Aug 08

Pineville, WV

#151 Aug 18, 2008
FDG wrote:
<quoted text>
Respect is something that is earned, not handed out because of age.
I see that you are still going around spreading your brand of cheer.....

FDG

“Have facts, will travel!”

Level 7

Since: Feb 08

The Big Town!

#152 Aug 18, 2008
Roadrunner1 wrote:
<quoted text>
I see that you are still going around spreading your brand of cheer.....
I most certainly am. Did you think for a moment I was just going to stop? ;)
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ovfd

AOL

#155 Aug 19, 2008
to each is their own, if it makes a girl/man happy to be with someone old enough to be their mother/father then let them have at it. if it doesnt bother them going out and everyone wondering if its their mother/father and laughing and making fun of them why should it bother everyone else. old folks want to get lucky to.
MisterMan

Welch, WV

#156 Aug 21, 2008
Are you all talking about me, it sure seems like you are, I'm sixty five years old and have been dating a fourty five year old beautiful woman for a year and I love every minute we are together, and you had better believe I can keep her satisfied, no matter how nasty you little girls think it is. Too bad for you if you don't know how it feels to be in love, age doesn't mean a thing.
So, if you've seen us at magic mart or McDonalds and thought she was my daughter, I don't care, thats your problem. See ya, I've got a date with a beautiful young girl.....
twistie

UK

#157 Aug 26, 2008
Roadrunner1 wrote:
<quoted text>
I see that you are still going around spreading your brand of cheer.....
roadrunner would you like a chat some time
Proud mom

Humble, TX

#158 Aug 26, 2008
My 20 year old daughter dates a man that is 38 years old. At first, I was shocked and very upset. Now? I am ok with it. This is usually not what you imagine for your daughter, but if I had to choose between this man and a young guy that does not work, that does drugs, that would treat her like crap--then I would choose the older man. He is as good as gold to her, and he treats her like a lady! He doesn't talk to her like she is stupid, and he doesn't treat her like a sex symbol. He has a lot of respect for her! The only thing that I hate is that we all (my daughter, the boyfriend, and me & my husband) have to listen to everybody's comments about it -- like it is any of their business or like we're stupid and don't realize there's an age difference--or seeing everybody stare in disbelief. He's a great man and he loves my daughter more than any young man ever has. She's dated several her own age, and they've treated her wrong -- they've partied and done drugs, they wouldn't work, they were verbablly abusive to her, and they had no respect for her. Plus, these young guys were very respected among their peers. So, unless it involves you personally, then I say that it is none of your business as long as it is two consenting adults.
FYI

AOL

#159 Aug 27, 2008
Proud mom wrote:
My 20 year old daughter dates a man that is 38 years old. At first, I was shocked and very upset. Now? I am ok with it. This is usually not what you imagine for your daughter, but if I had to choose between this man and a young guy that does not work, that does drugs, that would treat her like crap--then I would choose the older man. He is as good as gold to her, and he treats her like a lady! He doesn't talk to her like she is stupid, and he doesn't treat her like a sex symbol. He has a lot of respect for her! The only thing that I hate is that we all (my daughter, the boyfriend, and me & my husband) have to listen to everybody's comments about it -- like it is any of their business or like we're stupid and don't realize there's an age difference--or seeing everybody stare in disbelief. He's a great man and he loves my daughter more than any young man ever has. She's dated several her own age, and they've treated her wrong -- they've partied and done drugs, they wouldn't work, they were verbablly abusive to her, and they had no respect for her. Plus, these young guys were very respected among their peers. So, unless it involves you personally, then I say that it is none of your business as long as it is two consenting adults.
if they are happy thats great...but alot of these young girls do it for money and they are so unhappy and it shows in their face. They want to go out and do things that he dont want to cause of his age so they just end up setting at her house and doing nothing...and she ends up fooling around on him with the man her age anyway. I am not saying all of them but most of them do this,it is very easy to look at a persons face and know if they are truly happy. my nanny always said if you are truly in love you dont have to brag about it when people look at you they know it and I think it works both ways. I wish your daughter the best. my husband is 38 and he is still going strong he still like going out and to the movies all the little things that make a relationship . I think what most people are talking about on here is like a 20 year old with a 60 year old . but if it makes them happy then let them have at it.

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