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upset

Pineville, WV

#1 Nov 13, 2012
caught my teen posing nude in front of her ipod doing something called face-time with her boyfriend (they could see and talk to each other on their ipods or iphones) after throwing a tantrum on her my question is how can i block her from doing this on her ipod or iphone they said that everybody does it but they would never do it again, but i highly dought there was any truth to that statement. any suggestions
ifitwasme

Williamson, WV

#2 Nov 13, 2012
Be a parent not a pal & take it away from her. She's not mature enough to realize how this can & will effect their future later on. More then likely when she & he break up her naked arse will be blasted all over a social media network & she will be forever embarrassed & humiliated around her peers. Later on when she might meet a decent boy & really like him he might find out she likes to show her butt to everyone to get attention & dump her. Little girls don't think about that, every guy will ask her to show them stuff mostly for bragging rights amongst their friends. It don't mean he's going to respect her & keep it to himself just because he swears he won't show it to anyone. Boys lie & girls lie but they don't think about how this will impact them tom. Good luck
upset wrote:
caught my teen posing nude in front of her ipod doing something called face-time with her boyfriend (they could see and talk to each other on their ipods or iphones) after throwing a tantrum on her my question is how can i block her from doing this on her ipod or iphone they said that everybody does it but they would never do it again, but i highly dought there was any truth to that statement. any suggestions
really

Charleston, WV

#3 Nov 13, 2012
Just because its facetime doesnt mean they cant take a still picture of her. You CAN take still pics of it and keep it on your i pod or phone and show it to who ever. Hope you know that.
Mrs Fried Chicken

Columbia, SC

#4 Nov 13, 2012
upset wrote:
caught my teen posing nude in front of her ipod doing something called face-time with her boyfriend (they could see and talk to each other on their ipods or iphones) after throwing a tantrum on her my question is how can i block her from doing this on her ipod or iphone they said that everybody does it but they would never do it again, but i highly dought there was any truth to that statement. any suggestions
sheeet.....better get her some pills.... its going down when yall aint around. knockin boots an drankin. thats all these kids do today
ghvhgftfh

Pineville, WV

#5 Nov 13, 2012
i would bust both her ass and her ipod and that would be done
Interesting

Princeton, WV

#6 Nov 13, 2012
ifitwasme wrote:
Be a parent not a pal & take it away from her. She's not mature enough to realize how this can & will effect their future later on. More then likely when she & he break up her naked arse will be blasted all over a social media network & she will be forever embarrassed & humiliated around her peers. Later on when she might meet a decent boy & really like him he might find out she likes to show her butt to everyone to get attention & dump her. Little girls don't think about that, every guy will ask her to show them stuff mostly for bragging rights amongst their friends. It don't mean he's going to respect her & keep it to himself just because he swears he won't show it to anyone. Boys lie & girls lie but they don't think about how this will impact them tom. Good luck
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You are right! I know from a very bad experience with my neice. she did the same thing with her Boyd=friend and when they broke up,He made hundreds of copies of her nude and some of them toether. the ones of them together he didnt show his face in them,but he went out and hung them on trees,telephone poles.even went to the Church where they attend and put a copy on every cars windshield one night. all because she started seeing someone else after they broke up. It was so embarassing.Talking about a NIGHTMARE.
Interesting

Princeton, WV

#7 Nov 13, 2012
And you wouldnt believe how nasty one of the photos was. very very personal,and so embarassing. talking about a mess,it was,for all the family. and she was in a mess in the photo,that should tell you what kind of photo it was.this punk needed a very good beating for that.But SHE should have known better.she learned a very bad lesson.
Say what

United States

#8 Nov 13, 2012
Do they know they can be charged with possesion of child porn if they are under age and they can also be charged for producing child porn in some states ?
Good Grief

Pineville, WV

#9 Nov 13, 2012
upset wrote:
caught my teen posing nude in front of her ipod doing something called face-time with her boyfriend (they could see and talk to each other on their ipods or iphones) after throwing a tantrum on her my question is how can i block her from doing this on her ipod or iphone they said that everybody does it but they would never do it again, but i highly dought there was any truth to that statement. any suggestions
Why are you even having to ask what to do?? Take the damn thing from her and dare her to get on it again. That's what's wrong with kids today, they don't know what the world NO means!! Parent's won't bust the kids butts when they are small so therefore, it leads to much bigger problems such as this as when they get older!! If it was my teen, taking the IPod or IPhone would be the least of her worries with me!!
Simple

United States

#10 Nov 13, 2012
upset wrote:
caught my teen posing nude in front of her ipod doing something called face-time with her boyfriend (they could see and talk to each other on their ipods or iphones) after throwing a tantrum on her my question is how can i block her from doing this on her ipod or iphone they said that everybody does it but they would never do it again, but i highly dought there was any truth to that statement. any suggestions
It is very easy to do . Take everything that she has that connects to the internet and also take all her other goodies that she enjoys so much and become her shadow ! That is what is wrong with kids today they get to do anything and everything they want and no questions ask . Wonder how many of his friends have already gotten to see her naked already ?

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Since: Jul 12

Brenton, WV

#11 Nov 14, 2012
Birth Control
WTF

Pineville, WV

#12 Nov 14, 2012
Good Grief wrote:
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Why are you even having to ask what to do?? Take the damn thing from her and dare her to get on it again. That's what's wrong with kids today, they don't know what the world NO means!! Parent's won't bust the kids butts when they are small so therefore, it leads to much bigger problems such as this as when they get older!! If it was my teen, taking the IPod or IPhone would be the least of her worries with me!!
you cant punnish a kid anymore, all the child has to do is yell abuse to the right person and the child is hauled away to a foster home and the parent is lucky not to be put in jail. and the kids know this and use it to their advantage. thats why kids get away with everything. parents are afraid to punish them.

Level 1

Since: Apr 12

Hunt Valley, MD

#13 Nov 14, 2012
upset wrote:
caught my teen posing nude in front of her ipod doing something called face-time with her boyfriend (they could see and talk to each other on their ipods or iphones) after throwing a tantrum on her my question is how can i block her from doing this on her ipod or iphone they said that everybody does it but they would never do it again, but i highly dought there was any truth to that statement. any suggestions
Well the fact that it is illegal and he can go to jail and be taggeed as a sex offender and have to register with the police for the rest of his life should be enough to scare them into reality.
Meee

Pineville, WV

#14 Nov 14, 2012
Bust her @$$ and take it away from her because obviously she's not mature enough to have a iPod when she is acting like that, she will be lucky if that boy doesn't show those pictures to everyone.
Iteresting

Princeton, WV

#15 Nov 14, 2012
Say what wrote:
Do they know they can be charged with possesion of child porn if they are under age and they can also be charged for producing child porn in some states ?
If the male is a teenager, which he is,hes 15, Hes a child also. He couldnt be charged either. Both are underage,theres really nothing that can be done. Believe me, Her parents tried everything they could do to have the police to do something.
Steph

Sausalito, CA

#16 Nov 14, 2012
upset wrote:
caught my teen posing nude in front of her ipod doing something called face-time with her boyfriend (they could see and talk to each other on their ipods or iphones) after throwing a tantrum on her my question is how can i block her from doing this on her ipod or iphone they said that everybody does it but they would never do it again, but i highly dought there was any truth to that statement. any suggestions
while i understand why you are upset over this incident, you lost the battle right then and there when you threw a "tantrum." right then, you modeled a lack of self control and your teen is going to use this to her advantage. try and remain calm. you need to regulate here, and losing control only shows her one thing: mom is out of control. good luck.(and yes, everybody is doing it, even me, a 40 year old woman).
Duhhh

Pineville, WV

#17 Nov 15, 2012
Steph wrote:
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while i understand why you are upset over this incident, you lost the battle right then and there when you threw a "tantrum." right then, you modeled a lack of self control and your teen is going to use this to her advantage. try and remain calm. you need to regulate here, and losing control only shows her one thing: mom is out of control. good luck.(and yes, everybody is doing it, even me, a 40 year old woman).
How the hell is her child going to use anything to her own advantage?? I think that girl is probably in enough deep shit without actually thinking she can use anything for an advantage. That mother had every right to throw a tantrum, as you call it. If that had been my daughter, a tantrum would had been the least of her worries. If you, a 40 yr old female is also doing stupid shit such as posing nude on an IPhone for others to see, then that shows you have very low self esteem for starters, not to mention glutton for punishment and very stupid. Do you think you are going to be on the cover of PlayBoy Magazine?LOL. Teenagers will do stupid things in life because they are teenagers but one would think a grown woman would have better damn sense than to take nude photo's of herself,lmao.***Shakes Head In Disbelief***

Level 1

Since: Apr 12

Hunt Valley, MD

#18 Nov 15, 2012
Iteresting wrote:
<quoted text>If the male is a teenager, which he is,hes 15, Hes a child also. He couldnt be charged either. Both are underage,theres really nothing that can be done. Believe me, Her parents tried everything they could do to have the police to do something.
Possession of child pornography does not have an age restriction.. If they have it they are guilty.
Steph

Sausalito, CA

#19 Nov 15, 2012
Duhhh wrote:
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How the hell is her child going to use anything to her own advantage?? I think that girl is probably in enough deep shit without actually thinking she can use anything for an advantage. That mother had every right to throw a tantrum, as you call it. If that had been my daughter, a tantrum would had been the least of her worries. If you, a 40 yr old female is also doing stupid shit such as posing nude on an IPhone for others to see, then that shows you have very low self esteem for starters, not to mention glutton for punishment and very stupid. Do you think you are going to be on the cover of PlayBoy Magazine?LOL. Teenagers will do stupid things in life because they are teenagers but one would think a grown woman would have better damn sense than to take nude photo's of herself,lmao.***Shakes Head In Disbelief***
you've misunderstood. mom has every right to be upset!(tantrum wasn't my word, it was the OP's). all i'm talking about is the actual reaction to the event. exemplifying a loss of control does not help the situation is all; remaining calm and in control does wonders. this is not to say do nothing! far from it. i'm only talking about the quality of the REACTION to the daughters actions.

and no, i do NOT wish to be in Playaboy, do you? i'm very modest, always have been. just pointing out that a lot of people Sext - it's an inevitability of rampant smart phone use - statistics. that's all.
derek

Pineville, WV

#20 Nov 15, 2012
u wanna do some 'sexting' with me ms steph?..

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