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Since: Jun 08

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#1 Dec 24, 2008
Ladies,
...One of the worst fears that you have as a married woman is to one day discover that your husband is gay. The thought that he will cheat on you is bothersome---but, the thought that he will cheat on you with another MAN is truly disturbing. If you discovered that your husband was engaging in a homosexual relationship, you would be one of two things---devastated or relieved...Having said that, I now reveal some of the many signs that might indicate that your husband is gay...

1) He frequents gay or bisexual Web sites. Check the history in your Internet browser.
2) Receives lots of phone calls from other men.
3) Has an abundance of male friends with whom he seems too close or too familiar. He often mentions his male friends.
4) He overreacts to anything concerning gay men---he seems extremely homophobic. He uses the expressions, "That's so gay" or "He's so gay".
5) He doesn't have a real interest in sex with you.
6) He makes "gay" jokes, or has revealed a certain amount of rage aimed at homosexuals or homosexual behavior. He is a gay-basher.
7) He wants to have anal sex with you.
8) He leaves early for work. He gets home late from work.
9) He goes on overnight fishing/hunting trips. He goes on all-day fishing/hunting trips.

...The CDC estimates that 4 million women have been involved in a relationship with men who have had sex with other men. That's a very, very big number. According to the Family Pride Coalition, 20% of all gay men in America are in heterosexual marriages. 50% of all gay men have fathered children...

...Gay men aren't necessarily effeminate. They do not all have a lisp. Those are stereotypes...

...Why do married men get away with having homosexual affairs? Because the wives do not suspect..."It could NEVER happen with MY husband", the naive wife thinks...I know for a 100% fact that married men WILL have affairs with other men...

Since: May 08

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#2 Dec 24, 2008
Some plausible observations GG... However: I totally disagree with no. 9--Could be the male in question likes to hunt/fish.:)

Since: Jun 08

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#3 Dec 24, 2008
If my husband would be gay..I would want him to come to terms with himself. I would hate to think he would be living a lie.
Hubby doesn't go anywhere over night without wifey!Lol!
I think when our spouse's are up to anything..the other knows. If our partners might be gay...I think we would have signs leading to such!
However as a female and "if" my hubby was gay...Well let's just say, you cant compete with the oposite sex! Nor would I want to try...If hubby would be gay ...I wouldn't want him to keep wasting my time. It would be just another one of those things ..no different if he was having an affair with another woman.. It would hurt like hell, but inturn doing me a favor.
Let by-gones be by-gones!

Since: Jun 08

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#4 Dec 24, 2008
...Gay-basher aka homophobes are almost always repressed homosexuals. If a "heterosexual" seems preoccupied with destroying or bashing the homosexual community, likely as not that "heterosexual" has some deep-seated psychological problems (due to his repressed homosexuality)...

question for gay guy

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#5 Dec 25, 2008
What if your husband/boyfriend is not obsessed with anal sex, but is obsessed with "doggy style"?

“Respect me-I'll respect u”

Since: Jun 08

Flood zone in No Man's Land.

#6 Dec 25, 2008
Shootist wrote:
Some plausible observations GG... However: I totally disagree with no. 9--Could be the male in question likes to hunt/fish.:)
Totally agree with ya Shootist. 95% of the men here in WV enjoy hunting and fishing, and BY GOD, that doesn't make em' gay..
According to GG, if a man breathes, that makes him gay!
I keep my man *PuRtY* damn happy and I Go Hunting/Fishing With Him, Does that make me a Lesbian??

“Respect me-I'll respect u”

Since: Jun 08

Flood zone in No Man's Land.

#7 Dec 25, 2008
BTW That wasn't an attack on GG, I respect him, his opinion and his lifestyle is his own business. But # 9 on the list is RIDICULOUS..

“Respect me-I'll respect u”

Since: Jun 08

Flood zone in No Man's Land.

#8 Dec 25, 2008
Oh and just one more thing, I gotta know this, What if it's the woman who likes anal sex?? I know a lady who won't have it no other way, does that make her a gay male trapped inside of a woman's body!?

Since: Jun 08

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#9 Dec 25, 2008
...Let me clarify #9---Many men use the old "going on a fishing trip/hunting trip" as a front to actually spend time with their male lover. They are not off on the river or out in the woods---They are laid up in a motel with MR. X...Now, obviously, not all fishermen/hunters are doing this. The point is, you never know if your man is fishing or f--king, unless you are there with him...If he leaves you at home while he and his "friend" are off "hunting" or "fishing", you can never really know what they are up to. They tell the wives that they are fishing or hunting (the unsuspecting wives are at home, while the husbands are over at "Motel 6")...Is that clear enough? I apologize for the confusion (thought you could follow the program. My mistake)...

Since: Jun 08

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#10 Dec 25, 2008
...My most recent ex would tell his wife that he was working late at the mines, or talking with the guys, or had auto trouble, or pulled off the road to take a nap (on his way home from work). All the while, he was with me. Or, if she wasn't home, he'd sneak over here to be with me. Or, he'd tell her that he had to leave the house early (in order to get to work a little early)---then he'd drop by here to see me...

Since: Jun 08

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#11 Dec 25, 2008
question for gay guy wrote:
What if your husband/boyfriend is not obsessed with anal sex, but is obsessed with "doggy style"?
...If you have to ask, then you already have your suspicions...
Alien Ambition

Welch, WV

#12 Dec 25, 2008
I'm just wondering why we needed to be educated on the signs of a husband being gay? Homosexuality is wrong. It is a sin and not natural. What purpose is there for homosexuality? It is a weakness of people who are too insecure to interact normally with the opposite sex. Other homosexuals pursue those with this weakness because it is easily identifiable. Homosexuality is glamorized pedophilia. Queers are so gay!
whatajokeyouare

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#13 Dec 25, 2008
THE GAY GUY wrote:
Ladies,
...One of the worst fears that you have as a married woman is to one day discover that your husband is gay. The thought that he will cheat on you is bothersome---but, the thought that he will cheat on you with another MAN is truly disturbing. If you discovered that your husband was engaging in a homosexual relationship, you would be one of two things---devastated or relieved...Having said that, I now reveal some of the many signs that might indicate that your husband is gay...
1) He frequents gay or bisexual Web sites. Check the history in your Internet browser.
2) Receives lots of phone calls from other men.
3) Has an abundance of male friends with whom he seems too close or too familiar. He often mentions his male friends.
4) He overreacts to anything concerning gay men---he seems extremely homophobic. He uses the expressions, "That's so gay" or "He's so gay".
5) He doesn't have a real interest in sex with you.
6) He makes "gay" jokes, or has revealed a certain amount of rage aimed at homosexuals or homosexual behavior. He is a gay-basher.
7) He wants to have anal sex with you.
8) He leaves early for work. He gets home late from work.
9) He goes on overnight fishing/hunting trips. He goes on all-day fishing/hunting trips.
...The CDC estimates that 4 million women have been involved in a relationship with men who have had sex with other men. That's a very, very big number. According to the Family Pride Coalition, 20% of all gay men in America are in heterosexual marriages. 50% of all gay men have fathered children...
...Gay men aren't necessarily effeminate. They do not all have a lisp. Those are stereotypes...
...Why do married men get away with having homosexual affairs? Because the wives do not suspect..."It could NEVER happen with MY husband", the naive wife thinks...I know for a 100% fact that married men WILL have affairs with other men...
Boy you have sex on the brain dont you? What is it with you and all of your sexual threads that you have started on the Oceana and Pineville forum both?

Since: Dec 08

Lerona, WV

#14 Dec 25, 2008
THE GAY GUY wrote:
...My most recent ex would tell his wife that he was working late at the mines, or talking with the guys, or had auto trouble, or pulled off the road to take a nap (on his way home from work). All the while, he was with me. Or, if she wasn't home, he'd sneak over here to be with me. Or, he'd tell her that he had to leave the house early (in order to get to work a little early)---then he'd drop by here to see me...
Since,you like to talk so much about your X.I have one question did he break it off or did you?You seem to want women to doubt their men.WHY?You know when she wasn't home and he sneaked over to be with you;you know it is possible she was doing a little "fishing",herself.Do n't count all women as being stupid or the wool pulled over our eyes so easy.My husband finds the opposite sex too attractive and the same sex relationships isn't our thing.To each their own.Decades later and still happy with each other.Yes we have had our arguments but hasn't everyone one time or another.If you truly love someone you will make it work.We have gone hunting and fishing together...lol..rethink#9.
outofthecloset45

Pineville, WV

#15 Dec 25, 2008
Alien Ambition wrote:
I'm just wondering why we needed to be educated on the signs of a husband being gay? Homosexuality is wrong. It is a sin and not natural. What purpose is there for homosexuality? It is a weakness of people who are too insecure to interact normally with the opposite sex. Other homosexuals pursue those with this weakness because it is easily identifiable. Homosexuality is glamorized pedophilia. Queers are so gay!
How dare you to associate being gay with pedophilia. http://www.straightintogayamerica.com/redefin... please read this article. Most child molesters are heterosexual males. I resent this characterization. How on earth did you come up with pedophilia and homosexuality. When I was 4 years old I was molested by a heterosexual man. Most gay men would never do this to an innocent child. Wake up and read the stats on it!!!!!!
outofthecloset45

Pineville, WV

#16 Dec 25, 2008
I have never said anything bad to anyone on here. But I just find Alien Ambitions comments to be obnoxious and insensitive. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but to set out to be vile is inexcusable. Please do some research on your topics A.A.
misplaced in nc

Greensboro, NC

#17 Dec 25, 2008
Okay This joke is over. Gay Guy is really a female. Am I the first one to notice this? Or is this woman trapped in a man's body without knowing it?

Either way, this dirty little poster is a woman who needs to get off the pc and get some sex (from some consenting adult) to get it off her mind a while. Nobody cares who's doing who if they have their own life. GG, GetchaSum. You will be alright. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, if that is what will help you. But remember, two wrongs don't make a right. YOU are the only person you have to wake up to for the rest of your life.

Marriage is a personal issue between a man and a woman. If you have a cheating husband, get off the pc and either please your man or pack his bags. It is the perfect excuse to do either one you want to. Go for it!

I know the net is the perfect place to pretend we are the person we would rather be, but don't let anyone drag you down that far. Pull yourself up by the boot straps and be proud to be a woman who is opening her eyes and getting ready to set things right. Wow, I can't imagine any man hurting me so bad I'd rather become one than the woman I am. Hang in there and deal with reality. Be who you are and proud of it. Stop trying to be a man to escape yourself. I'm sure God made you just fine. We are not responsible for the actions of our partners. Took me 30 years to stop apologizing for mine. He does as he chooses...now so do I. You can, too.

Since: Jun 08

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#18 Dec 26, 2008
...My "following" is growing and growing and growing. I like the fact that so many so-called straight guys (read: repressed homosexuals) follow me from thread to thread. They continue to bash me and try to antagonize me. Kind of curious, don't you think? Kind of curious that so many so-called straight guys know so much about homosexuality, and seem obsessed with THE GAY GUY!...
Crack Rabbit

Goldston, NC

#19 Dec 26, 2008
THE GAY GUY wrote:
...My most recent ex would tell his wife that he was working late at the mines, or talking with the guys, or had auto trouble, or pulled off the road to take a nap (on his way home from work). All the while, he was with me. Or, if she wasn't home, he'd sneak over here to be with me. Or, he'd tell her that he had to leave the house early (in order to get to work a little early)---then he'd drop by here to see me...
You futt bucked a Coal Miner???....Now you're gonna get black Lung!!!....who wore the Miners light...you???...or him???...

Since: Dec 08

Lerona, WV

#20 Dec 26, 2008
Crack Rabbit wrote:
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You futt bucked a Coal Miner???....Now you're gonna get black Lung!!!....who wore the Miners light...you???...or him???...
Now,I could not write something like that but I did get a good laugh out of that.Have you ever heard the old saying ,what is going on if the miner's light goes out? Wonder if that ever happened to the miner???

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