Cheating Husband
Focktard View

Bowling Green, KY

#42 Jun 12, 2012
this is at a different view...u are one sick puppy, just because u screw any and everything doesnt mean others want too!! 2 wrongs dont make a right punkazz biatch!!
Been there myself

United States

#43 Jun 12, 2012
I was cheated on like that & gave my X a second & third chance, kicked his butt out at the fourth! Now if you want to always worry when he is coming home where he is at what he is doing always having to keep tabs, then your a fool cause he has been at it for 8 years & loves another, maybe he asking for permission to stay & still mess around? I would say GTFO!
Can Anyone Say

Bowling Green, KY

#44 Jun 12, 2012
Selfish Coward? That's what you have sweetie, that is no husband i would not even refer to him as that (selfish coward) is what they should be named One who only thinks of himself...
sleepy

Greensburg, KY

#45 Jun 12, 2012
Women are just as bad as men about cheating. Fact is no one should do it. No one deserves to be hurt that bad.
well said

Bowling Green, KY

#46 Jun 12, 2012
You are right sleepy, they should get out of the marriage then find what they need
selfish coward

Lexington, KY

#47 Jun 12, 2012
Who wants to eat the same food every day, drink the same drink every day or watch the same tv show every day??
Everybody likes variety and change, it makes ya happy! Mmm ... gimme some strange ANY DAY!!
Imo

United States

#48 Jun 12, 2012
personally i believe some ppl cheat bcause they learn later they are not really in love with the person they married & they cheat to make up for what is missing in their life & some ppl do not intentionally mean to hurt anyone they get caught up in a situation they do not know how to deal with. I suggest if either of the spouses really want to change they should be open & honest about everything & try to make things manageable for any children involved.
Speaking from experience

Auburn, KY

#49 Jun 12, 2012
wow wrote:
<quoted text>
Thank you! These trolls on here were trying to make me out to be an idiot!! I'm going to make an EXAMPLE below and just show everyone what we mean:
8:55 pm- he called and said you were a crazy b!tch and he was going to take your child away
9:20 pm- he called and said he loved you and wants to work it out
IF something WERE to go down the above will
show that he is unstable. Then phone records could back up what you say. People NEVER think something will happen to them, but FOLKS
LISTEN UP!!!!! It happen to the best of us!!
Good luck!
you're welcome! I wanted it to be known that you are EXACTLY right!!! No written notes and dates/time of proof then you are screwed! Whether you think you will need it or not lawyers advise to keep the records just in case it called self protection and proof IF NEEDED! without it you can't remember the exact dates and such then you are stuck!! It has happened to more of us than people realize! I disnt write down dates and what was said and I was told if I had then it would have won my case hands down! So I started from that day keeping a notebook and writing it all down and believe me it has helped me in court! The two of us seem to be the only ones willing to share the knowledge we found out the hard way and get out down for trying to share said knowledge! You NEVER when you might need it!! So better to have it and NOT need it than NEED it and NOT have it!!! Just wish other would listen and take our advise. It sure could be what helps you get your children when you have proof of the other party pulling crap on you and thinking it doesn't matter if you write it down but it does!!!!

Since: Jun 12

Lanzhou, China

#50 Jun 12, 2012
My wife likes playing games,I like too.we always play Final Eden together.Every time we play it together,we will have a talk leading to each other's heart.From this my wife can lead out my secret.
- mmohunter -
impervious

United States

#51 Jun 13, 2012
ellen wrote:
by the way love the name impervious.. it does fit well with what I did ...
well... it couldn't be impervious w/me ellen :)
LOL

Frankfort, KY

#52 Jun 13, 2012
"Only problem weighing on me is that i take our marriage vows seriously"
"He has had affairs with five women that i'm aware of, two of those he told me he planned on leaving our marriage to be with them.
He has told me he has been doing this for the last eight years of our marriage"
and it's great that you do take your vows seriously, however unless both are willing to work hard & take vows seriously marriage will never work! Do you honestly think he takes his vows seriously? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who has NO respect for you or your child? With someone you will NEVER truly trust, and to think this person has put your health & wellness at risk for his own selfish reasons!!! I think you know deep down what you need/want to do, not only for you but also your child. I wish you the best!
ellen

Leitchfield, KY

#53 Jun 13, 2012
impervious wrote:
<quoted text> well... it couldn't be impervious w/me ellen :)
oh okay..:) nice that it all works for ya... lol
Pamela

United States

#54 Jun 13, 2012
Hello everyone, i had my check up done & it wasn't good news. Yes i have decided to proceed with a divorce with the news i recieved. My health is in danger because of his actions & will no longer be the same. So i now recommend any person involved with an unfaithful spouse, please get away far away from them.
BumAround

Bowling Green, KY

#55 Jun 13, 2012
Sorry about the health news, but now you see the danger. If they sleep around, you're exposed to their partners, who probably also sleep around. The math is bad for you. And in regards to that idiot who said change is good, why bother to get married? Just date and hope your crotch doesn't rot off.
not a rocket scientist

Bowling Green, KY

#56 Jun 13, 2012
Oh Pamela, I am so sorry to hear this.
ellen

Leitchfield, KY

#57 Jun 13, 2012
so sorry to hear that , you are in my prayers.
cowards

New Albany, IN

#58 Jun 14, 2012
This type of behavior is actually a sign of mental illness. That is the bottom line. It has nothing to do with their partner it is all about them. Their mental illness has taken control. It is called Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Get away and have no contact with this person. There is no cure.
ellen

Leitchfield, KY

#59 Jun 18, 2012
Imo wrote:
personally i believe some ppl cheat bcause they learn later they are not really in love with the person they married & they cheat to make up for what is missing in their life & some ppl do not intentionally mean to hurt anyone they get caught up in a situation they do not know how to deal with. I suggest if either of the spouses really want to change they should be open & honest about everything & try to make things manageable for any children involved.
i do agree. sometimes we love someone but find out they were never really in love with us there is a difference in being in love and just loving someone.
Zero

Bowling Green, KY

#60 Jun 18, 2012
Learn to really hate the bum. That's the first step in moving on. Just don't slash his tires.
meeee

Glasgow, KY

#61 Jun 18, 2012
Might as well keep him. They all cheat.

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