I have one big suggestion for your karmic situation...<quoted text>
Your vision is very limited then. Ahhhh.....the joys of dissenting from the orthodoxy of the leftist rainbow coalition, not all mind you, just some. After all anyone who dares criticize that secular sacred cow known as same sex marriage, by gosh by golly Mr Cleaver just has to be a bigot, it says so in the manual.
You, in the words of Bugs Bunny, are a maroon.
accept other people's marraige and relationships(including gay and lesbain marraige)
and the universe might reciprocate and allow(by law) your situation...
otherwise you are just digging a karmic hole for yourself.