Teens and sex

There are 826 comments on the Journal News story from Feb 23, 2006, titled Teens and sex. In it, Journal News reports that:

For all the complaints that many people have about state education mandates, the fact is there are many areas of instruction and policy that are left to local school districts - not the least of which is sex ...

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franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#125 Jul 11, 2006
sexy mama wrote:
im so sorry franko,thats my little sis,her name is dallas,she likes u alot!
Somehow I feel like you girl(s) are not taking me seriously at all. AM I right?

Do you feel it's not right for a man in his 40's to want to have sex with a woman 18 to 25????

IT happens a lot! Especially guys with a lot of money or power - they're in their 40's and 50's and they have these girls in their 20's - of course they buy them jewelry, drugs, whatever they want ....

What is quite rare, but does happen, is when this age difference exists and there is a real relationship. This is what I was trying to explore with my posting.
franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#128 Jul 12, 2006
Jenny wrote:
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what? do u mean like Donald Trump. He's old, but look at all the women he gets. They're all like 20-30 yrs younger.
... well, THE DON would be one of the more high profile examples, but he is one of the super-rich and not an example for the masses .... I think that maybe 5% of the population actually applies in this category...

would that be a fair guess?
franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#130 Jul 12, 2006
Jenny wrote:
I guesse so.
Hey,Donald Trump is one of richest men in the world, I don't see why younger women wouldn't want to date or marry him. But sometime i think it's just for the money. It reminds me of Anna Nichole, but that's a different story.
Hi Jenny,

... well, let's bring this to another related question ...

...let's say a woman met two men. They are identical twins and have identical personalities.

One has an average job (which means the woman probably needs to work at least part time to raise a family), but he has a 7" penis and is the best lover she ever had..... so the sexual part of their marriage would be superb... but they would have to struggle financially ...

The other is somewhat above average income (but not rich), so she does not have to work, they live in a bigger, better house, have two nice cars, a speedboat .. all the frills. Their kids will go to better schools ...

But, his penis is 5.5 inches ( a little smaller than the national average) and he is a "slighlty less than average" lover sexually. She has enough experience to know that their sex life will always be "barely acceptable" and not as satisfying as with the other guy....

Which would a woman choose to marry???
rob

UK

#132 Jul 13, 2006
franko wrote:
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Hi Jenny,
... well, let's bring this to another related question ...
...let's say a woman met two men. They are identical twins and have identical personalities.
One has an average job (which means the woman probably needs to work at least part time to raise a family), but he has a 7" penis and is the best lover she ever had..... so the sexual part of their marriage would be superb... but they would have to struggle financially ...
The other is somewhat above average income (but not rich), so she does not have to work, they live in a bigger, better house, have two nice cars, a speedboat .. all the frills. Their kids will go to better schools ...
But, his penis is 5.5 inches ( a little smaller than the national average) and he is a "slighlty less than average" lover sexually. She has enough experience to know that their sex life will always be "barely acceptable" and not as satisfying as with the other guy....
Which would a woman choose to marry???
Thats a question wrote by a guy. Have you actually ever asked a woman what she wants in a man? They look for honesty deceny compassion, trust and friendship along with the L word. Women are not like men, they are not really interested in how big is penis is or how well he performs in the bedroom. love making to a woman isn't about orgasm its about sharing the most intimate part of their loves that they can and a way to express physically the love they feel for that man.

Having not read the whole of this thread please forgive me if I should already say something that as been said elsewhere.

First where did the poster who said that in Spain it is legal to have sex from 13 get their facts? It isn't and Spain actually as one of the stricter controls of this than any other. The youngest in Europe you can have sex is in the scandanavian countries where it is 14 but both parties have to consent and use contraception. If a girl under 16 gets pregnant the father of that child can be prosecuted. The majority of european countries is 16.

The UK as the biggest incidence of children of school age having children than any other country based on percentage against population. I know I live there.

Someone also mentioned that kids of 12 dont think about sex. Well sorry I was 12 when I first had sex and just 12. My daughter is 11 in September and she can describe accurately a hell of a lot and stuff that no 11 year old should know. Ask yourself why? School intervention is why. 8 year old they start them on the subject, the thinking is that this way they will have all the facts before they decide to give their virginity away. Because of this my ex wife and I both made the conciuod decision that we would not hide any of it from our kids. They ask they get a straight answer and believe me it works. Attitudes are changing thank the lord and the peer pressure I suffered and my friends suffered is not so bad these days.

The other problem I see and this tends to be an American problem is that parents in your country have a real problem with being open about sex with children and you are not exposed to it on TV like we are thus it doesn't happen.

Another poster was making comments about older guys with younger women. Well it happens the other way also and I happen to know a guy who is 25 years older than his wife and they have been happily married now for 11 years. He doesn't have money and both of them work. Age is a number after all and if two people love each other what is the problem?

The only time when age is a problem is when they are under the age of consent then the full force of the law should be brought to bear on these sickos

Rob
ilovesex

Shreveport, LA

#133 Jul 13, 2006
Bobbi wrote:
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Well there is a possiblity thats he could be pregant or not.But have her go take a test just to be sure..If not use a condom next time..
i whant to have sex but a condom whant fit in my penius what do i do
franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#134 Jul 13, 2006
rob wrote:
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Thats a question wrote by a guy. Have you actually ever asked a woman what she wants in a man? They look for honesty deceny compassion, trust and friendship along with the L word. Women are not like men, they are not really interested in how big is penis is or how well he performs in the bedroom. love making to a woman isn't about orgasm its about sharing the most intimate part of their loves that they can and a way to express physically the love they feel for that man.

Rob
Hi Rob,

SOrry to tell you this, but your description above is closer to fantasy than reality. Women ARE in interested in how well a man does in the bedroom, just not as much as men. And yes, extensive tests have been done that prove that a penis of a certain size range makes at least some difference in how good it feels to them.

Most women are not so shallow as to let it affect them that much ... but some find it more important ... some of the women in this forum have admitted it. One of the women was quite blunt saying she does't care about the size of the penis nearly as much as the size of his wallet....

A man should know what the woman he is with considers important, and if the woman he is with cares about size and he doesn't have it, then he should realize that maybe he needs to find a woman to whom it does not matter

... Yes, most women do prize some of the other aspects of the relationship more ... but this question is more about the men ... a lot of us want to make sure we are satisfying our women as much as possible, and so we are EXPLORING as to what we can do.

I had a girlfriend who had threee sexual partners before she met me. By coincidence they all had 7 to 8 inch length. I am an average 6 inches ... and yet she said I gave her more and better sexual satisfaction than they did becasue of the skills I had developed to satisfy her ...

SO, I know that size can be overcome by skill and by the depth of the relationship ...
Red

United States

#135 Jul 14, 2006
elloha oda nyaa foa ouya nowka igpa atinla
Red

United States

#137 Jul 14, 2006
hello do any of you know pig latin
Jared

United States

#138 Jul 14, 2006
ive had sex 7 times 3 times with one girl and 4 times with another guy. im 14 the girl was 12 and the guy was 16
Red

United States

#139 Jul 14, 2006
dude that is just not right your sick
Jared

United States

#140 Jul 14, 2006
my parents said i could so i did and it felt so good i did it over and over again
Jared

United States

#141 Jul 14, 2006
also ive done porn videos
rob

UK

#144 Jul 15, 2006
yean and I am donald trump
GOD

Yonkers, NY

#145 Jul 15, 2006
you people are goshdarn ridiculous!
nice forum
franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#147 Jul 15, 2006
rebeca wrote:
i am 15 and i think people should wait until marriage 2 have sex. other wise just don't do it. anyone agree or am i alone w/this decision?
... you are not alone in this, and this is the right choice for many people.

However, you are in the minority. I read a survey that said about 18% of all people do believe they should wait until marriage, although in practice only about 10% achieve that ....

However, about than 20% do wait until they are 19 or over ...
Early Childhood Adv

New London, CT

#149 Jul 16, 2006
jimmy wrote:
its not ur fault what they do kids have sex
Who's fault is it? The schools? The parents? The media? The community? Do you have any idea what HIV is ???

It's not fun, it's not pretty, and makeup doesn't cover it up...cause you can't see!
franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#151 Jul 16, 2006
rebeca wrote:
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see it's becuz of presure that is put on teens 2 do stuff they don't want 2 do.
You are absolutley right about that.

My ex-wife got pregnant at 15 (had the baby at 16 and put it up for adoption).

It affected her psychologically for her whole life.

Better to wait a few years .. doesn't have to be until you're married, but at leat unitl you're old enough to handle these possibilities better ...

IF someone pushes you ... just tell them NO, politely but firmly.

OF course, that doens't mean that if you're with someone you care about you can't have some fun.

Giving each other pleasure with the hands or mouth can be done very safely ..

but even that, don't give it away to just anyone ...
Early Childhood Adv

New London, CT

#152 Jul 16, 2006
franko wrote:
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You are absolutley right about that.
My ex-wife got pregnant at 15 (had the baby at 16 and put it up for adoption).
It affected her psychologically for her whole life.
Better to wait a few years .. doesn't have to be until you're married, but at leat unitl you're old enough to handle these possibilities better ...
IF someone pushes you ... just tell them NO, politely but firmly.
OF course, that doens't mean that if you're with someone you care about you can't have some fun.
Giving each other pleasure with the hands or mouth can be done very safely ..
but even that, don't give it away to just anyone ...
Do you have any idea how disease is transmitted? Didn't think so...what did you vote for Clinton? Get off the internet! You Idiot!!! Did I hurt your feelings??? Good! Now I know why your Ex wife is an Ex! Electric chair anyone?
franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#153 Jul 16, 2006
Early Childhood Adv wrote:
<quoted text>
Who's fault is it? The schools? The parents? The media? The community? Do you have any idea what HIV is ???
It's not fun, it's not pretty, and makeup doesn't cover it up...cause you can't see!
two things

(1) THe media. THere are commercila on TV now that owld have given moveis an R rating abck in 1970, for christs's sake!!!! ANd the cartoons such as Famiy Guy or SOuth Park that kids watch, which "normalize" adutl concpets in kid's minds. ANd the music kids here too....

... for example, a song by the group NO DOUBT .. they sing a line "ANd the boys get the girls in the back ..." this oculd be about two things . one, that they go to a back room to have sex, or give oral sex... or, if could be anal sex ...

... a lot of RAP songs convey the street culture and the macho culture of easy sex, doing for guys what the guys want, etc....

The "line you don't cross" of what's OK and what's not has gone so far left that, if you want to keep this away from kids, it's not just a mater of parents "not saying it in front of them", whic is easy to do ... you almost have to take away the TV, radio, CD player ... which of course would make you, as a parent, some sort of freak because all their freinds can have all those things

... oh, and you have to take away contact with freinds outside th ehouse ... because whenver your kids go with their freinds, they will get that influence from them anyhow ...

(2) which makes the true fault ... "society/commuinity/big business" .... people have not recognized the link between the moving of the "line you don't cross" and not put enough pressure on business/the media to put a stop to it.

ALso, the push to be less stern, not spank ... it lets kids get away with more stuff - they grow up from an early age with no boundaries ....

... maybe we should all become AMISH ...??
Early Childhood Adv

New London, CT

#154 Jul 16, 2006
franko wrote:
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two things
(1) THe media. THere are commercila on TV now that owld have given moveis an R rating abck in 1970, for christs's sake!!!! ANd the cartoons such as Famiy Guy or SOuth Park that kids watch, which "normalize" adutl concpets in kid's minds. ANd the music kids here too....
... for example, a song by the group NO DOUBT .. they sing a line "ANd the boys get the girls in the back ..." this oculd be about two things . one, that they go to a back room to have sex, or give oral sex... or, if could be anal sex ...
... a lot of RAP songs convey the street culture and the macho culture of easy sex, doing for guys what the guys want, etc....
The "line you don't cross" of what's OK and what's not has gone so far left that, if you want to keep this away from kids, it's not just a mater of parents "not saying it in front of them", whic is easy to do ... you almost have to take away the TV, radio, CD player ... which of course would make you, as a parent, some sort of freak because all their freinds can have all those things
... oh, and you have to take away contact with freinds outside th ehouse ... because whenver your kids go with their freinds, they will get that influence from them anyhow ...
(2) which makes the true fault ... "society/commuinity/big business" .... people have not recognized the link between the moving of the "line you don't cross" and not put enough pressure on business/the media to put a stop to it.
ALso, the push to be less stern, not spank ... it lets kids get away with more stuff - they grow up from an early age with no boundaries ....
... maybe we should all become AMISH ...??
Do you have any children??? If you do, then maybe you should try being a parent? If, not, don't be someone else's!

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