Should 12 year old girl date 18 year old guys?

Created by Tylers_Angel on Jun 18, 2010

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Tazewell, VA

#65 Jun 13, 2012
so sickening wrote:
<quoted text>Your parents as well as the 18 year old who should have enough since to think with the right head (the one on his shoulders, not the one between his legs!!) should all be in jail for this. Do you realize the state could take charges on your little boyfriend? your parents dont have a thing to do with it if your under 13 I think it is...hopefully someone will trace this and find out who you are and punish the so called adults in your life who should be taking care of you but are obviously letting you do whatever in the hell you want to do, and maybe get you some counseling for this issue. I have daughters and may the good lord be with the man who thinks 12 is a reasonable age for them to be doing grown up things...those men are called PEDAPHILES, and shouldnt be around little girls. And well some parents are just worthless to!!! And before you even say it yeah age is just a number once you are of age and matured a little bit then date all the older men you want to.
Be so glad when one of ur daughters get knocked up and you get knocked off your "holy er than thou" pedestal.
rose15

El Monte, CA

#66 Sep 26, 2012
In my opinion I think 4 luv their is no age plz don't judge me I'm jst giving my opinion
Bleh

Baulkham Hills, Australia

#67 Sep 28, 2012
Why should a 12 year old be robbed of her childhood?
And i reckon its way too early for a 12 year old to be dating
If she was 16 dating 18 it would be better
Fashionista123

South Saint Paul, MN

#68 Oct 23, 2012
No way that's crazy
Unknow

Media, PA

#69 Nov 5, 2012
Think about it_ wrote:
I know a lot of girls who are dating guys way older than them And its really thier choice if they wanna date older guys. I mean i dissagree with the 12 year old dating an 18 years old thing but its thier choice, not yours. If they like each other than hey, let them go at it and learn by it. You never know, they can fall in love and get married one day. My friend is 28 and shes dating a 49 year old...Its wierd but its her choice.
this is so true
wondering

Charleston, WV

#70 Nov 5, 2012
thatisRAPE
Whoa Nelly

United States

#71 Nov 5, 2012
I have a seven year old and when she turns twelve I'm sure she'll probably have a boyfriend at some point or another you can't stop that BUT you can control other factors such as going out on dates etc. I'll be damned if an 18 year old tries anything though....he will be shot on sight! As a parent it's your responsibility to know what's going on in your child's life, who they're friends with etc. It's also a parents responsibility to educate your child about life in general and the choices and decisions they will have to make for themselves. I think at 12 you are still a child but at 18? An 18 year old surely has different motives in a relationship than a 12 year old. This just goes to show you how many parents really don't give a sh!t about what their children do. For this girl to be allowed to do something like this just makes me sick-that goes for the 18 year old as well. She's a f-ing child you douche bag pervert! This girl doesn't stand a chance in this world because she wasn't taught any better. She'll probably end up pregnant in a couple years drop out of school and lose the best years of her life because she wasn't taught any better...it's sad but a known fact...and I'm willing to bet when all this happens the guy will leave her and go find another child to molest...
coal miners daughter

Albany, NY

#72 Nov 16, 2012
It's OK for a 12 year old girl to date an 18 year old boy only if they are cousins. That keeps it in the family. Just sayin'
mnm

Gloucester, UK

#73 Dec 27, 2012
Most certainly not
ILOVEJUSTINBIEBE R

UK

#74 Jan 4, 2013
Am 11 turning 12 this year the person I like is 18 turning 19 and he is justen bieber if any other guys asks me out no matter the age 11 12 13 14 and 15 etc I will say no and have said no. But if Justin Bieber ever asks me to be his girlfriend I will say yes. And for God sake all I 12 will want like me is a celebrity to hold my hand, buy me a drink and kiss me on the cheek or lip but not a french kiss. And all we want is a celebrity which is hard to find so don't freak out cause they will feel you don't trust them so they makeout which leads to you know what.
Bob

North Tazewell, VA

#75 Jan 9, 2013
Is it the same thing as a 15 year old dating a 22 year old
Back n the day

United States

#76 Mar 1, 2013
Age is just numbers been going on since old testament
Countrywild

United States

#84 Mar 27, 2013
If an 18 year old even looks at my daughter sideways will get their prized thing a jig cut off and then denutted and shoved down their throats!
girl

Harrisonburg, VA

#95 Apr 15, 2013
Kids today think its cool to be seen with an older person that is normal but tyring to date one thats a different story. When I was 14 I had sex with a 21 year old all they look for is a piece of ass sorry but its true. Im 17 and my little girl is about to turn 1 and when she is the age of dating yes me and her daddy will let her but only if its right and the guy is not like 3 years older then her I mean come on 12 year olds should not even be talking to 18 year olds. It wrong on the parents and the 18 year old. They should know better. My husband is 3 1/2 years older then me and we had the cops called on us. They couldnt do anything aboutbit because he wasnt 4 years apart. What Im trying to say that its very dangerous to be doing this

Since: May 10

Rooted in Reality

#96 May 13, 2013
ILOVEJUSTINBIEBER wrote:
Am 11 turning 12 this year the person I like is 18 turning 19 and he is justen bieber if any other guys asks me out no matter the age 11 12 13 14 and 15 etc I will say no and have said no. But if Justin Bieber ever asks me to be his girlfriend I will say yes. And for God sake all I 12 will want like me is a celebrity to hold my hand, buy me a drink and kiss me on the cheek or lip but not a french kiss. And all we want is a celebrity which is hard to find so don't freak out cause they will feel you don't trust them so they makeout which leads to you know what.
OMG. All you ill informed ADULTS should really read this from a typical 12, oops 11 turning 12, and be ashamed for "judging" these "young adults". It seems that this child has it all together, after all, she has turned down 11-15 yr olds in her quest for a turd that she will only see in her dreams and if she waits for him, she is assured of being a virgin for a LONG time.

And us adults thought we were know it alls.
A Person

Shelbyville, TN

#97 Jun 3, 2013
Maybe the 12 year old is mature??:/
Uknow

United States

#98 Jun 5, 2013
It is unbelievable to me that there is even a need for this topic to be discussed. A sign of the times I suppose. My only question would be, Where are the parents of the 12 year old? What mother, in her right mind would allow a 12 year old girl to spend time with an 18 year old boy? A 12 year old does not have the mental or emotional maturity to deal with this type of situation. Most Middle school drama is the direct result of children attempting to deal with emotions they are unequipped to deal with. They are still children on all levels. If you are a parent, especially a mother and you allow or encourage this behavior, you need help yourself. This is blatant child neglect. Turn off sleezy television, grow up and take care of your daughters. No child can be molested unless the pedophile has access to them. If an 18 year old is attracted to 12 year old children, there is a big problem there and someone needs to step in now. The laws are there to protect children, especially when the parents refuse to do so.
crazyk

Boomer, NC

#99 Jun 5, 2013
brown eyes wrote:
anyone that answered yes to this question is a PERVERT
I totally agree
Livelifenow

Bellefonte, PA

#100 Jul 5, 2013
If the child asks the adult to be there boy or girlfriend and the adult days yes I'm sure the adult will think of it ask just a little kid crush so as long as the adult doesn't try anything with the child then by all means go for it
Watchme

United States

#101 Jul 30, 2013
Hear me out, I don't need you criticizing me.
When I was 12 I had been through more then a lot of adults could even understand.. I was 12 dating a 18 year old, and I was very mature for my age.. My mom did NOT allow us to go places without adult supervision, and if I saw him it was at church or with my parents present, and I assure you that he never, not once tried anything innapropriate.. We was together for 3 years.. Now I am 16 and I am with a guy thats 21. I'm getting emancipated in March and we're getting married when I'm 17.. So, really its a matter of opinion but I know from experience that not every guy has the same intention.. but i would be very careful who you hang around.

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