Should 12 year old girl date 18 year ...

Should 12 year old girl date 18 year old guys?

Created by Tylers_Angel on Jun 18, 2010

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Tazewell, VA

#45 Feb 26, 2011
BL0U wrote:
and I bet that 19 is very mature for his age...hahahaha
Actually he is! Extremely!

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#46 Mar 1, 2011
HaHaHAhHahahahahahahaha
jane

Pineville, WV

#47 Mar 1, 2011
one thing for sure my 12 year daughter would not date and older guy and shes not even old enough to date yet so if any older guys mess with my baby it would be on at 12 there just a baby still but think they know it all but know nothing!!!!

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#48 Mar 1, 2011
I like the way you think Jane.
To you girls who are 12,and dating a 18 year old, just to fill you in,that is completely and TOTALLY ILLEGAL!
just an opinion

Spanishburg, WV

#49 Mar 3, 2011
you want to know what happens when a 12 year old dates a 18 yr old. ask Karlie W @ #10.her momma should have never let her go wiht them older boys or men. ever body blames the mamma and they right. 12 year olds aint grown. they just think they are. they dumb mommas need to be smart enough to tell them no.

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#50 Mar 7, 2011
Your opinion to funny, but REAL.

Since: Mar 11

Davy, WV

#51 Mar 8, 2011
who in there right mind let there 12yr old daughter be with an 18yr old?maybe if he was 13yr old but they wouldnt go out on their own they would have a parent to shaperone. Girls these days are getting pregnant at 10 and 11 that is the parents fault in my opinion and should get in trouble for allowing it.I would let my daughter have a boyfriend, when i feel she is old enough,but i would be there with them to make sure they stay innocent.the 18yr old would want to bed the child. If they were "in love" he can wait till she was 18!!! the girl may look older, but when you have a child at the age of 12 what then?? I didnt have a boyfriend untill i was almost 19yrs old, and that was my choice, i am 26 and i have the same man!!!
youaskinmeduh

North Tazewell, VA

#52 Mar 27, 2011
Why shure they should if they want to become pregnant,contract a social desease, have a abortion, destroy their life and if they keep the child burden the state and taxpayers to care for mother and child, other than that whats wrong, seems okay to me DUH!!!!!!!!!!

Since: May 10

Rooted in Reality

#53 Mar 27, 2011
Must be a sign of the times. I cannot believe that we are actually discussing this stupidity. But let MTV keep babysitting our youngins and this will be even more the "norm". SAD
Voice of Reason

North Tazewell, VA

#54 Nov 9, 2011
If there are young girls on here reading this please know that you need to get some help if you're in this situation. Whether you want to admit it or not you are still a child mentally, emotionally, physically and legallly. Men over eigtheen trying to date you is a predator and he will use and abuse you. I would be willing to bet that if you're dating an older man at that age and saying you're happy and it's ok you're probably just putting on a happy face. I know that there must have been and probably still is a lot of uncomfortable moments in a relationship like that. I don't even like to call it a relationship but whatever it is deep down there's that little voice or that gut feeling telling you that this is not ok. Statistically most girls displaying this kind of promiscuous behavior have been sexually abused and will continue to seek out these sick people because that's what they think they deserve and unfortunately that's what they are probably comfortable with. If this is the case please know that this man or men that you're "dating" are simply sick people. They should want a woman who is on their maturity level but something is not right with therm and that's why they seek young and vulnerable girls like yourselfs.if you read this and get defensive please just take a moment and really ask yourself if this is what you really want. Please don't sell yourself short in life. God loves you and he will help you if you're willing to try to get out of that lifestyle. And btw, I am a Qualified Mental Health Professional (QMHP) with a B.S. In psychology from Virginia Tech and several years working in the mental health and substance abuse fields. But more importantly I'm a woman who never wants to see a young girl live like this. If you want help reply to this and I'll point you in the right direction. Sorry for the long post...I just feel passionate about this.

Since: May 10

Rooted in Reality

#55 Nov 9, 2011
Very well put Voice of Reason.
Lakesha

Brookneal, VA

#56 Nov 9, 2011
gossip central wrote:
who in there right mind let there 12yr old daughter be with an 18yr old?maybe if he was 13yr old but they wouldnt go out on their own they would have a parent to shaperone. Girls these days are getting pregnant at 10 and 11 that is the parents fault in my opinion and should get in trouble for allowing it.I would let my daughter have a boyfriend, when i feel she is old enough,but i would be there with them to make sure they stay innocent.the 18yr old would want to bed the child. If they were "in love" he can wait till she was 18!!! the girl may look older, but when you have a child at the age of 12 what then?? I didnt have a boyfriend untill i was almost 19yrs old, and that was my choice, i am 26 and i have the same man!!!
Were you ugly?
really

Athens, WV

#57 Nov 10, 2011
what kind of sick sad world do we live in that this topic is even being brought up? String up the parents of this child,stone them,or hell bring out the firing squad. Because they are ignorant for even attemting it. I started dating at fifteen my first boyfriend was eighteen but I grant you my parents made sure we had no alone time. And my dad had the talk before our first date. scared him shitless he didnt try a thing. lol.
18 year old

Grafton, Canada

#58 Dec 26, 2011
i dont see any thing the mater with it
Just another thought

Cleveland, NC

#59 Jan 29, 2012
I don't see anything wrong with it...I am 14 my boyfriend is 17 about to be 18....
Caleb

Connellsville, PA

#60 Apr 30, 2012
i think you should be aloud to date any one you want i love this girl thats 18 and im 12 so u should be able 2 date any1

Since: May 10

Rooted in Reality

#61 Apr 30, 2012
Try learning to at least spell before you attempt to procreate. It is helpful when filling out a Birth Certificate in preparation for a child raising a child. Oh, also for completing a JOB application. A job is very handy in these cases because the child has a habit of wanting to EAT. Not to mention a car and a driver's license etc. Got to stop now, I'm laughing to hard to continue.
kiya

Akron, OH

#62 May 24, 2012
im 12 and im dating an 18 year old and were perfectly happy together ...
so sickening

Bluefield, WV

#63 May 24, 2012
kiya wrote:
im 12 and im dating an 18 year old and were perfectly happy together ...
Your parents as well as the 18 year old who should have enough since to think with the right head (the one on his shoulders, not the one between his legs!!) should all be in jail for this. Do you realize the state could take charges on your little boyfriend? your parents dont have a thing to do with it if your under 13 I think it is...hopefully someone will trace this and find out who you are and punish the so called adults in your life who should be taking care of you but are obviously letting you do whatever in the hell you want to do, and maybe get you some counseling for this issue. I have daughters and may the good lord be with the man who thinks 12 is a reasonable age for them to be doing grown up things...those men are called PEDAPHILES, and shouldnt be around little girls. And well some parents are just worthless to!!! And before you even say it yeah age is just a number once you are of age and matured a little bit then date all the older men you want to.
Hear me out

Homer City, PA

#64 Jun 4, 2012
Look I'm not agreeing with this by any means I do think 18 and 12 are to young, but I'm 18 dating a 15 year old and I'm still a virgin and so is she. Not once have I thought about sex with her until I'm married. But all you "parents" or "people" commenting on here about sexual attraction and them having sex and bein known as a slut or pedophile need to stop be so stereotypical! How many of you "adults" (cause God knows that word is thrown around alot) can say you were still virgins befor you were married I'm only 18 I do NOT know it all but I know enough to say that most of you are very judgmental and jump to the worst possible conclusion. NOT EVERY 18 YEAR OLD IS THE SAME! and again I do not agree with that big of an age diffrence mainly because it's illegal but 3 years I think is and ok age diffrence at this age but and my statement is towards all the people thinking all 18 year olds do is have sex and take advantage of girls just incase anyone wanted to say I was "condradicting" myself.

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