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Since: Mar 11

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#1 Mar 4, 2011
About 5 months ago I became with friends with a woman named "Ashley". We have become the best of friends but recently my feelings have started to change. I think about Ashley all the time. I wonder what it would be like to hold her in my arms and kiss her. Oh yea, guess maybe I should say that I am a woman too. I've never felt romantic feelings for another woman before. I am married, no kids. I'm not really happily married. I love my husband but I'm not in love with my husband. Ashley is in the process of getting a divorce. I am so confused by these feelings that I am having for Ashley. Sometimes I think maybe she feels the same way but I'm not sure. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid that if I'm wrong and she isnt having these feelings too that I will ruin what is a really good friendship. What should I do? I don't want to hurt anybody but these feelings that I am having are driving me crazy. HELP????
YEP

United States

#2 Mar 5, 2011
looks like the devil has taken advantage of a situation. You need to get on your knees and pray for the Holy Spirit to come into your very being. I would also suggest that you be in a spirit filled church in the morning. You can be set free, but you got to want it. What you are feeling is just wrong and I think you know that. Don't let the devil ruin so many lives.
woo

North Tazewell, VA

#3 Mar 5, 2011
I Agree Yep!!!!!!Pray,beg the good Lord take those feelings away and believe and it will be do!!

Since: Feb 11

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#4 Mar 7, 2011
dont listen to those holy-er than thou people. do what you think is right and what you believe in.... something you can do is email her as some one els and see what her belives are as far as lesbian relationships or you could bring it up like say something about your husband liking girl on girl porn or something like that and see where she stands on the matter before trying to dive deeper into the relationship
Child of God

Cedar Bluff, VA

#5 Mar 9, 2011
Correction- don't listen to Ripley. God plainly tells us in the bible both that same-sex relationships are wrong (Levitcus 18:22) and that those in same-sex relationships will not enter into Heaven (1 Corinthians 6:9-11)
Don't lose or damn your precious soul just for lust. Likewise even aside from the blatantly immoral and sinful, even abombinable nature of homosexuality what about the Seventh Commandment- Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery!
Drop to your knees and ask God and Jesus and the Holy Spirit to help take this tempation form you or help you resist it please.
God please help this poor child. In Jesus's name; Amen
A Christian

Tazewell, VA

#6 Mar 9, 2011
Those feelings are purely evil. God never intended on people being gay or having homosexual feelings towards each other. That's the work of the devil, everyone has their weaknesses when it comes to sin. And the devil knows that, and he knows how to get you hooked where he wants you. God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve. God created woman for man. There isn't anything natural about 2 men or 2 women. And for the people who say they are born gay are wrong and I feel sorry for them. God wouldn't bring a baby into the world with sin already. Babys are the most innocent and precious things. People shouldn't blame that on God, he clearly condems it in the Bible. He even destroyed 2 cities, Sodom and Gomorrah because of homosexuals.-(Genisis 19:1-29)

Leviticus 18:22= "you shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination."

1 Corinthians 6:9= "Do you nont know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, not idolaters, not adulterers, not homsexuals, nor sodomites..."

WHAT MUST I DO TO BE SAVED?
ACTS 2:38 "Then Peter said to them, REPENT AND BE BAPTIZED in the name of JESUS CHRIST for the remission of sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit."

JOHN 3:3-5 "Jesus answered and said to him, Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God."
Nicodemus said to Him, "How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother's womb and be born?"

Jesus answered, Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he CANNOT enter the kingdom of God."

Matthew 10:32-33= "Therefore whoever confesses Me before men, him i will also confess before My Father who is in heaven.
But whoever denies Me before men, him I will also deny before My Father who is in heaven."

Revelation 22: 18-19= "...If anyone adds to these things, God will add to him the plagues that are written in this book; and if anyone takes away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God shall take away his part from the Book of Life, from the holy city, and from the things which are written in this book."

Revelation 22:7 "Behold, I am coming quickly! Blessed is he who keeps the words of the prophecy of this book."

Everyone needs to start living like God wants us to be, cause one day he is coming back and we better be ready. It will be a sad awakening for most.
Child of God

United States

#7 Mar 9, 2011
Amen! Praise God!!!!!!!!!!
yeah

Philadelphia, PA

#8 Mar 9, 2011
eve and adams first wife was lovers so go for it girl
A Christian

Tazewell, VA

#9 Mar 9, 2011
yeah wrote:
eve and adams first wife was lovers so go for it girl
Adam only had one wife...
A Christian

Tazewell, VA

#10 Mar 9, 2011
Eve was his wife
Child of God

North Tazewell, VA

#11 Mar 9, 2011
I think, unless I am mistaken that person is referring to the mythical figure Lillith, supposedly the first wife of Adam and mother to all things evil and unholy. At least I think that is how the legend went, Bobby-Mac just mentioned it briefly

Since: Feb 11

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#12 Mar 9, 2011
Lilith was Adam's first wife and was cast of of the garden because she wouldn't bow down to a man so she resented god for being unfair twords her and became full of bitterness and evil. you got to rember back when the bible was written women were nothing. at lest that's what i herd. and if you do chose to be with her all Christians will hate you because thats what their religion teaches. i believe its not their place to decide whose evil or bad its gods and just because the bible seas its wrong does not give any one the right to hate or punish another human. but thats just what i believe dont hate me for it
Maybe

New Hope, VA

#13 Mar 9, 2011
TheRipley wrote:
Lilith was Adam's first wife and was cast of of the garden because she wouldn't bow down to a man so she resented god for being unfair twords her and became full of bitterness and evil. you got to rember back when the bible was written women were nothing. at lest that's what i herd. and if you do chose to be with her all Christians will hate you because thats what their religion teaches. i believe its not their place to decide whose evil or bad its gods and just because the bible seas its wrong does not give any one the right to hate or punish another human. but thats just what i believe dont hate me for it
you are trying to be politically correct and if so don't. We as Christians need to call it as we see it. As for Lilith, she is mentioned one time in the Bible, but nothing of the story that is told in ancient manuscripts is said about her in the Bible. As for Christians not judging evil, well that is just the devil talking, twisting scripture to get us in trouble. God gave us humans a mind to use and one of those uses is to judge what is good and evil, to embrase good and stay clear of evil. If we know a person who we have determined or "judged" to be evil maybe we can help that person to break away from their evil ways and lead them to Christ. If we don't judge them, well we never will help them. Now for the final judgement, that is God's, He will make the call as to who He will have in heaven, that is for sure what it is about when we are told not to judge. The devil is a master of confusion and would love for Christians to go around with their mouths sealed never calling evil for what it is. And no I for sure don't hate you for your comments, just give mine some thought.

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#14 Mar 9, 2011
Maybe wrote:
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you are trying to be politically correct and if so don't. We as Christians need to call it as we see it. As for Lilith, she is mentioned one time in the Bible, but nothing of the story that is told in ancient manuscripts is said about her in the Bible. As for Christians not judging evil, well that is just the devil talking, twisting scripture to get us in trouble. God gave us humans a mind to use and one of those uses is to judge what is good and evil, to embrase good and stay clear of evil. If we know a person who we have determined or "judged" to be evil maybe we can help that person to break away from their evil ways and lead them to Christ. If we don't judge them, well we never will help them. Now for the final judgement, that is God's, He will make the call as to who He will have in heaven, that is for sure what it is about when we are told not to judge. The devil is a master of confusion and would love for Christians to go around with their mouths sealed never calling evil for what it is. And no I for sure don't hate you for your comments, just give mine some thought.
so in outer words find people your religion deems evil and cram the bible down there throat until your doctrine deems them pure and saved and so god wont juge them to burn in hell. i wont even go into my believes on that one. because it doesn't matter and will accomplish nothing. this girl has a valid problem and im trying to give her advice according to what i believe and the first thing a lot of people reading this are going to say what you believe is wrong but leave your believes out of my believes i know i should do the same and should not of seed don't listen to these people that's not my disdion to make. she should do what ever she feels is right in her heart ether pray to god or think about it logicality. she might do the opposite of what we both say and do nothing about it but im just trying to give some advice so think about that before you start bashing me :)
Maybe

New Hope, VA

#15 Mar 10, 2011
TheRipley wrote:
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so in outer words find people your religion deems evil and cram the bible down there throat until your doctrine deems them pure and saved and so god wont juge them to burn in hell. i wont even go into my believes on that one. because it doesn't matter and will accomplish nothing. this girl has a valid problem and im trying to give her advice according to what i believe and the first thing a lot of people reading this are going to say what you believe is wrong but leave your believes out of my believes i know i should do the same and should not of seed don't listen to these people that's not my disdion to make. she should do what ever she feels is right in her heart ether pray to god or think about it logicality. she might do the opposite of what we both say and do nothing about it but im just trying to give some advice so think about that before you start bashing me :)
you should take a good look at what you are doing. I am not bashing you, but you are doing exactilly what you say I am doing. I am not going to push my Christain beliefs on anyone. I will tell them what Christ has done for me, I will pray for and with them, and with the free mind God gave them, they make their choice. I will define evil, and if rejected I will do as Christ directed, kick the dust off my feet and move on. I am finished with this post.
Oh Yeah

United States

#16 Mar 10, 2011
Shove your tongue down her throat, and see what she thinks.

Since: Mar 11

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#17 Mar 10, 2011
Hell Yeah I think I agree with Oh yeah!!!
Oh Yeah

United States

#18 Mar 11, 2011
confused1980 wrote:
Hell Yeah I think I agree with Oh yeah!!!
The worst that could happen is that you get pushed away, but I figure you will be living out your fantasy after you kiss her. You only live once and there are very few of us that get to live out our fantasies. Go for it!
Child of God

North Tazewell, VA

#19 Mar 11, 2011
Sure, maybe nothing else will happen. Until you stand before God and He sends you to Hell for not obeying His word
Happy endings

Bedford, VA

#20 Mar 20, 2011
I think you should do as so many have. You should get on you knees, but with a twist on it! be infront of your husband and ask you friend to join.

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