You're nit-picking because you can, not because it's right.<quoted text>
I repeat: "My point has been made and if you don't get it, you just don't want to."
If you were really so offended that a temple marriage causes such family grief, you would be making all sorts of loud cries about the evils of eloping couples, couples going places to be married where not all family has the finances to go there to witness that wedding. You'd be pissed about couples marrying in hot air balloons or under the sea or ocean and such things where families can't see what's taking place. You're nit-picking because you can.