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#1 Jun 10, 2013
back in the day everyone probally including your mother told you if you married me how horrible your life would be and how controlling i would be. funny sounds just liek what you went and married and i am so sorry you have to live that way, only wanted what made you happy. and from what you say aint noway are you happy.

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#2 Jun 10, 2013
yep, and was another lousy weekend. Don't get upset when I tell you this. Someone got mad cuz I wanted to put soaker hose under my big flower bed and needed someone to dig shallow trench to put in 50 feet. He was busy in garage, and had son #3 doing things for him. Told him fine, will do it myself. Did about 40 feet, and he comes and looks and remarks that I need to rest as I am over doing it and sends sone #3 to help me finish. This bed gets the hot evening sun, and I am doing this about 5 pm. Had already spend 2 hours just cleaning out the dratted thing to prpare for flowers. but my hair got sunbleached a little bit more. Oh and because of meds, I have to wear a long sleeve shirt and pants to protect my skin. But I came in afterwards, took a bath and then cooked supper.

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#3 Jun 10, 2013
mini me 1955 wrote:
back in the day everyone probally including your mother told you if you married me how horrible your life would be and how controlling i would be. funny sounds just liek what you went and married and i am so sorry you have to live that way, only wanted what made you happy. and from what you say aint noway are you happy.
They saw you didn't have plans for the future, and remember, my mom and sis knew ALL the gossips in town. Oh I won't mention saturday. Only good part was spending day with son selling ice cream at street fair.

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#4 Jun 10, 2013
4uplaid wrote:
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They saw you didn't have plans for the future, and remember, my mom and sis knew ALL the gossips in town. Oh I won't mention saturday. Only good part was spending day with son selling ice cream at street fair.
they were totaly wrong i had tons of plans for me and you. wouldnt nobody listen to me even you, but i didnt do much my self this weekend, talked ot ms dorty and asked if i coudl borrow the csbin keys maybe next weekend she is fixign to put it up for sale said she doesnt need it so figure if i can get away i will spend next weekend there one last time. and you just mentioned saturday lol so you know i will ask.

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#5 Jun 10, 2013
Maybe you can buy the cabin for yourself as a get a way. or even keep the boat there and have a permanent place for your boat.
The plans they were thinking of were career plans. Silly PB, Iknow you probablly had lots of plans for us, but what were your goals intead of just marrying me.
Had my head bitten off so many times, was nearly crying, all because I can't do anything, and when I do ask for help, get yelled at that "What can I do" or "son is just being lazy" instead of LISTENING to what we were saying and believing what I was saying. Instead doubts everything. Told him the cooler wasn't working. Found a frayed section and duct taped it. That worked a while, then cooler went out and ice cream is starting to melt, so we can't sell. He gripes that he can't come right away, cuz in wrong vehicle. He is in bad mood cuz Big R no longer carries gas for the bottle for the welder, and now he has to go so springs. And the griping at us for other things as well. Wanted to crawl in a hole and pull it in after me. I so dread the weekends.

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#6 Jun 10, 2013
4uplaid wrote:
Maybe you can buy the cabin for yourself as a get a way. or even keep the boat there and have a permanent place for your boat.
The plans they were thinking of were career plans. Silly PB, Iknow you probablly had lots of plans for us, but what were your goals intead of just marrying me.
Had my head bitten off so many times, was nearly crying, all because I can't do anything, and when I do ask for help, get yelled at that "What can I do" or "son is just being lazy" instead of LISTENING to what we were saying and believing what I was saying. Instead doubts everything. Told him the cooler wasn't working. Found a frayed section and duct taped it. That worked a while, then cooler went out and ice cream is starting to melt, so we can't sell. He gripes that he can't come right away, cuz in wrong vehicle. He is in bad mood cuz Big R no longer carries gas for the bottle for the welder, and now he has to go so springs. And the griping at us for other things as well. Wanted to crawl in a hole and pull it in after me. I so dread the weekends.
to much money for cabin he probally paid low 28 for it back in the 50's it had been redone and made modern with add ons most round there go mid 300's so naw it aint even my favorite lake lol, but it is quite. got my sights on a little place on a lake think i could swing by my self for bout 60k 3 bed two bath on a little lake kinda a pvt lake thing. been talkign to realtor mite could get for 53k if i agree to do some work which aint no deal on what need fixing. boat is to big for that lake wouldnt need it maybe get a small pontoon and be bout 40 minutes from work. so yes im making plans and looking. figure at the cabin im gonna try to get the guys to come one last trip let them bring wives and me come alone id enjoy it more that way then they can drink and what ever and me just fish and cook. one last blow out if i can get them to agree. had a offer to sell my dogs and i am considering it $900 for all 3. just feelign burnt out on a few things can always start over i have before. i am just tired of the life i live if you call it living i know there is more out there even if i have to be alone. sometimes that isnt as bad as being withsome and feeling alone.

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#7 Jun 10, 2013
4uplaid wrote:
Maybe you can buy the cabin for yourself as a get a way. or even keep the boat there and have a permanent place for your boat.
The plans they were thinking of were career plans. Silly PB, Iknow you probablly had lots of plans for us, but what were your goals intead of just marrying me.
Had my head bitten off so many times, was nearly crying, all because I can't do anything, and when I do ask for help, get yelled at that "What can I do" or "son is just being lazy" instead of LISTENING to what we were saying and believing what I was saying. Instead doubts everything. Told him the cooler wasn't working. Found a frayed section and duct taped it. That worked a while, then cooler went out and ice cream is starting to melt, so we can't sell. He gripes that he can't come right away, cuz in wrong vehicle. He is in bad mood cuz Big R no longer carries gas for the bottle for the welder, and now he has to go so springs. And the griping at us for other things as well. Wanted to crawl in a hole and pull it in after me. I so dread the weekends.
i had them plans also do you know i had enrolled at state tech in memphis? then changed and descided uca in conway actually spent 4 months there had a blast then descided school just wasnt my thing and left got the trailer went to work and tried to keep racign and living

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#8 Jun 10, 2013
solved the problem with the sr ring i got to thinking [ which im told can be dangerous] and i thought heck they make more so i ordered one told the store to replace mine i lost the kids wont ever know the difference. also sadly to say i gave up and sent grannys ring to my cousin. her son is getting married end of june and she kept bugging me so i got angry and told her she coudl have the thing i give them 6 months and they will be divorced and i want my damn ring back. guess i had a crazy weekend it seems

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#9 Jun 10, 2013
mini me 1955 wrote:
solved the problem with the sr ring i got to thinking [ which im told can be dangerous] and i thought heck they make more so i ordered one told the store to replace mine i lost the kids wont ever know the difference. also sadly to say i gave up and sent grannys ring to my cousin. her son is getting married end of june and she kept bugging me so i got angry and told her she coudl have the thing i give them 6 months and they will be divorced and i want my damn ring back. guess i had a crazy weekend it seems
I meant to tell you that I WANTED your SR but we got sidetracked on another subject. Oh my, you have been busy. But the kids have already seen the engraving, yes they will know the difference. I am so sad about your granny's ring. She must have really pushed some buttons to make you hand it over. Cuz someone else really wanted it as well. But will it seem as speical to us then? I feel it is my fault, cuz if we were married, then no questions about wanting the ring would have been brought up.

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#10 Jun 10, 2013
4uplaid wrote:
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I meant to tell you that I WANTED your SR but we got sidetracked on another subject. Oh my, you have been busy. But the kids have already seen the engraving, yes they will know the difference. I am so sad about your granny's ring. She must have really pushed some buttons to make you hand it over. Cuz someone else really wanted it as well. But will it seem as speical to us then? I feel it is my fault, cuz if we were married, then no questions about wanting the ring would have been brought up.
sr ring still in my possion waitign on you to claim it just as it has been since i got it. grannys ring i got it when i was almost 15 and my cousin was really upset so it has come up many times. i always told her it had a special use that i inted to use. well her son is a good kid and his girl have datred off and on since the 6th grade. doll i will buy you a ring of ours one that we want and start a new tradition of rings. after 36 years i figure granny would approve of me doing that. i want to put a ring on your hand of my choosing picked with love and devotion and pack it full of love everyday you have it on.

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#11 Jun 10, 2013
4uplaid wrote:
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I meant to tell you that I WANTED your SR but we got sidetracked on another subject. Oh my, you have been busy. But the kids have already seen the engraving, yes they will know the difference. I am so sad about your granny's ring. She must have really pushed some buttons to make you hand it over. Cuz someone else really wanted it as well. But will it seem as speical to us then? I feel it is my fault, cuz if we were married, then no questions about wanting the ring would have been brought up.
if that someone is you as i said i will get a new ring that one had lost it's shine if your talking bout someone else wantign it that never was even a though and she was told so long ago

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#12 Jun 10, 2013
mini me 1955 wrote:
<quoted text>i had them plans also do you know i had enrolled at state tech in memphis? then changed and descided uca in conway actually spent 4 months there had a blast then descided school just wasnt my thing and left got the trailer went to work and tried to keep racign and living
Yes, I had heard you wanted to go to State Tech, and decided not to after you heard I was going there. We had a blast there, considering I was usually the only girl in class. I was spoiled to pieces. Should have went and been a way to win me back. Now turkey, why are you mentioning this now to me? You have never ever mentioned you went to uca or what you would have majored in? I have always wondered what you did the week after graduation. You just start off vaguely with you went to work whenever I asked. This is why I use to get angy in high school. You would give me vague answers, then I would find out different, and then you would confess up and tell the COMPLETE story. You always had a way of telling me enough to satisfy me and I trusted you were telling me everything then. You didn't volunteer to tell me things except what you wanted me to know, anything else, I had to ask, and I don't like have to pick someone for information that should have been given to me without having to ask. Same with dating, that is why I would get mad. You would tell me just enough to stay out of trouble until I found out otherwise, and then the war was on. You say yu never lied to me, but you didn't tell the complete truth either. So yes, that is why I question what you say, you give me the swiss chees version with lots of holes in it, instead of giving me the solid cheese leaving me with no doubts and no need to ask questions.

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#13 Jun 10, 2013
mini me 1955 wrote:
<quoted text>to much money for cabin he probally paid low 28 for it back in the 50's it had been redone and made modern with add ons most round there go mid 300's so naw it aint even my favorite lake lol, but it is quite. got my sights on a little place on a lake think i could swing by my self for bout 60k 3 bed two bath on a little lake kinda a pvt lake thing. been talkign to realtor mite could get for 53k if i agree to do some work which aint no deal on what need fixing. boat is to big for that lake wouldnt need it maybe get a small pontoon and be bout 40 minutes from work. so yes im making plans and looking. figure at the cabin im gonna try to get the guys to come one last trip let them bring wives and me come alone id enjoy it more that way then they can drink and what ever and me just fish and cook. one last blow out if i can get them to agree. had a offer to sell my dogs and i am considering it $900 for all 3. just feelign burnt out on a few things can always start over i have before. i am just tired of the life i live if you call it living i know there is more out there even if i have to be alone. sometimes that isnt as bad as being withsome and feeling alone.
Was this the other "thing" you did on Monday? Are you thinking of bying it now, and have for weekends? Care to fill in the holes? How are you going to have a party without your "wife" wanting to be there as well. Can't imagine her letting you have a party with out her?

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#14 Jun 10, 2013
major was going to be in construction engineering same as state tech. never told you this because to be honest didnt do muuch class time spent more time chasign the race car. i have told you everything bout me there is to know that i can remember , i dont want no stone left unturned that you can find out and have me to explain. as you told me stop living in the past lol. we aint in school anymore darling and i have told you some stuff if i had any brain i woldnt of told you can tthink of anything left important to tell you well i did throw a penny from the top of the world trade center in dallas once got in trouble over that. guess reasonm i told you this mornign is because you said your mom thought i had no plans. me and you both in school knew so little of each other we both picked info or heard things. i promice or even swear nuthin else important to know and if it is somethign i have forgot it somethings just pop in my head. it is kinda embarrising to know i only made 4 months at school. i am ashamed of that should of applied my self more. as for me loving you all these years and wantign you then and now as god as my witness that is the truth no lies or swiss cheese there you know it all. i have always wanted me and you togehter or woudlnt of done my sr ring that way

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#15 Jun 10, 2013
4uplaid wrote:
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Yes, I had heard you wanted to go to State Tech, and decided not to after you heard I was going there. We had a blast there, considering I was usually the only girl in class. I was spoiled to pieces. Should have went and been a way to win me back. Now turkey, why are you mentioning this now to me? You have never ever mentioned you went to uca or what you would have majored in? I have always wondered what you did the week after graduation. You just start off vaguely with you went to work whenever I asked. This is why I use to get angy in high school. You would give me vague answers, then I would find out different, and then you would confess up and tell the COMPLETE story. You always had a way of telling me enough to satisfy me and I trusted you were telling me everything then. You didn't volunteer to tell me things except what you wanted me to know, anything else, I had to ask, and I don't like have to pick someone for information that should have been given to me without having to ask. Same with dating, that is why I would get mad. You would tell me just enough to stay out of trouble until I found out otherwise, and then the war was on. You say yu never lied to me, but you didn't tell the complete truth either. So yes, that is why I question what you say, you give me the swiss chees version with lots of holes in it, instead of giving me the solid cheese leaving me with no doubts and no need to ask questions.
p.s as for state tech i was headign to class 1st time and got behind you on the interstate one morning had no clue where you were heading seems we arrived at the same place i watched you go in never sat foot in the building after that ever again that i swear also. have a witness that was with me. do not want to fight or argue over long ago stuff, i want to plan future with you in it. then we can argue on the couch and both ask what we want till we deside to make up in person. so if your gonna argue here your doing that on your own,

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#16 Jun 10, 2013
4uplaid wrote:
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Was this the other "thing" you did on Monday? Are you thinking of bying it now, and have for weekends? Care to fill in the holes? How are you going to have a party without your "wife" wanting to be there as well. Can't imagine her letting you have a party with out her?
no not on monday just have a realtor been looking as for the cabin she hates it there and the people that woudl go so she would know where i was. if i buy it it will be me there 24/7 monday through sunday 365 days a year.i told you everything i did doll i am not hiding anything from you, told you insurance i wanted to fix, talked to some folks bout my hounds, and rest of time was lazy.one day soon or later yoru either gonna tell me you wont ever be here or your gonna say your on the way i intend to be ready no matter what i get told.life i am living is like being sentenced to 20 to life with no parole, dont enjoy much any more and just get where i hate weekends i cant see you. i want so much in life with you and only you and i want to do and see things with you by my side together and enjoy every minute we have jsut as i always did. you say i liv ein the past to much thought of that to guess the past is when you were mine and i could touch you or see you just bout everyday. im ready for future tiny feet with you in it. no swiss cheese or holes open honesty and living arm and arm side by side

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#17 Jun 11, 2013
mini me 1955 wrote:
<quoted text>to much money for cabin he probally paid low 28 for it back in the 50's it had been redone and made modern with add ons most round there go mid 300's so naw it aint even my favorite lake lol, but it is quite. got my sights on a little place on a lake think i could swing by my self for bout 60k 3 bed two bath on a little lake kinda a pvt lake thing. been talkign to realtor mite could get for 53k if i agree to do some work which aint no deal on what need fixing. boat is to big for that lake wouldnt need it maybe get a small pontoon and be bout 40 minutes from work. so yes im making plans and looking. figure at the cabin im gonna try to get the guys to come one last trip let them bring wives and me come alone id enjoy it more that way then they can drink and what ever and me just fish and cook. one last blow out if i can get them to agree. had a offer to sell my dogs and i am considering it $900 for all 3. just feelign burnt out on a few things can always start over i have before. i am just tired of the life i live if you call it living i know there is more out there even if i have to be alone. sometimes that isnt as bad as being withsome and feeling alone.
Isn't that the house you were looking at a couple of years ago? can't remember the name of the town, but know they are now being bussed to marion schools. three bedrooms, perfect, one for you, one for someone else, and one for her mother. uh oh, forgot the girls, maybe they can share with their mom and grand mom. hehehe
By the way, do you think I would be safe in that area with your ex within a 50 mile radius of me and all her cronies? And isn't your commute about 40 minutes now? are you using your sister as your realtor or someone more realiable? Is it a log cabin or just a regular house?

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#18 Jun 11, 2013
4uplaid wrote:
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Isn't that the house you were looking at a couple of years ago? can't remember the name of the town, but know they are now being bussed to marion schools. three bedrooms, perfect, one for you, one for someone else, and one for her mother. uh oh, forgot the girls, maybe they can share with their mom and grand mom. hehehe
By the way, do you think I would be safe in that area with your ex within a 50 mile radius of me and all her cronies? And isn't your commute about 40 minutes now? are you using your sister as your realtor or someone more realiable? Is it a log cabin or just a regular house?
house in mississippi and it would just be me going kids out of school well one headed to college. and yes you woudld be safe . she isnt like that only one you would have to worry bout is me and i cant promice oyu would be safe from me any time i wanted to reach for you lol. havent spoke to the sister since we had the issue we talked about dont know she could go there with licence as far as cronies they got their own issues in their own life to deal with most are goign through divorce or divorced and searching even had one or two ask me to leave and move in with them some friends huh. not interested in anybody but one person bein you.th ehouse is just a normal house sittin on a lake vinyl siding, has basemnet that has doors that look out to lake rear deck off the back, basement be good game room or storage has windo ac down there, house has central air, heat. floatign dock, storage building down by dock. it needs a peir rebuilt that comes off the back of property sits on i think a 175 x 200 lot. lots of trees and shade not in town but can be at a wally world in bout 25 minutes and there is a maw a paw grocery for quick trips. i have one friend that has a place there he loves it. jsut looking if i can get at a good price i can handle or maybe just buy a lot for bout 10k and mayeb get a cabin built but i do love this old house i have looke at it just looks like it would be a good home. it sets at the end of the road so no body drivign by all the time behind house is water. nearest neighbor is bout 75 yard up and you cant see their house from there. tons of fish in the lake has a rope swing off the side of the hill for swiwning looks good, so quit your worryign bout her and cronies you will be fine

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#19 Jun 13, 2013
I am back. work computer died on Tuesday, so work had to send me a new one.
The place sounds beautiful. You can always keep your fishing boat, but a pontton boat sounds wonderfully lazy to be on the lake. Does it have lots of windows? and I want BIG windows. I love out in the middl of no where. Does it have a small church near by? For 18 years, my nearest WM was 30 min away. we only got our mini "super" wm 2 years ago. But if you do get a lot, would you build a log cabin? with lots of BIG windows? and a fireplace? What would you do with other house? Why do you think you can barely afford it?
PS fires are about 12 miles south of me, but evacuation is about 9 miles away.

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#20 Jun 13, 2013
4uplaid wrote:
I am back. work computer died on Tuesday, so work had to send me a new one.
The place sounds beautiful. You can always keep your fishing boat, but a pontton boat sounds wonderfully lazy to be on the lake. Does it have lots of windows? and I want BIG windows. I love out in the middl of no where. Does it have a small church near by? For 18 years, my nearest WM was 30 min away. we only got our mini "super" wm 2 years ago. But if you do get a lot, would you build a log cabin? with lots of BIG windows? and a fireplace? What would you do with other house? Why do you think you can barely afford it?
PS fires are about 12 miles south of me, but evacuation is about 9 miles away.
figured you were helping the people out withthe fire problems. the older house has two big windows on the back plus the down stair basement has two windows and sliding glass doors, 3 churches id say with in 5 miles. this house at 55k im sure i could handle that even by myself the lady said if i would agree to let the owner not repair a few things he mite do 50k and from what i saw it woudl be easy stuff to fix just time and effort could do after work, putting windows in aint no big deal we can get windows as big as you want , the lot woudl be cheaper and i looked at plans for a log cabin that would be a two story with fire place and coudl be a 2 or 3 bedroom depends on which plan you want. it has guess im gonna say catheridial front wndow like a church. only problem with cabin is there woudl be ton of dirt work to have done, this lake was in a valley and surounded by hills so it can be uneven lots. the one i want was built late 50's early 60's and had a lot of thought put into it. it has brick fire place just a nice house on the lake it is quite and peaceful there. liek i said me get the house get you here and we do it up for you. windows , flower beds swings what ever. just need a place to put my fishing and hunting equipment place to sleep and eat im easy to please. but i did see us there in my thoughts. under the deck i can frame up a storage place no big deal. it is nice and better than a fixer up but has a few things need fixed. nuthin major. if i could afford ms dorths place it would be perfect but at 330k dont even want to think of it. at a place in my life where fancy and big is ok but im more just old fashioned and want comfy and nice. this place has all that

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