Steve Foster
lesson learned


#1 Oct 8, 2010
I debated whether to post this, since it was my own foolish heart that allowed myself to be used, but i decided to put my pride aside and be the bigger person and warn other women in the area of a player, user and abuser.

His name is Steve Foster, he lived in Whitewater but works in Newton at the Dillons Grocery store on Main and at the Sonic in Newton.

Ladies, he's a player on the internet, he prowls websites looking for victims. I havent quite figured out his game, but does the whole chat thing, the phone thing, the text thing and yes we met in person and went on what i thot was a wonderful date. He told me how much he wanted to see me again, how committed he was to me, and yes even used the "L" word after a bit of time.

It all seemed great, he's devoted, caring, loving and promises you the moon and even gets your children involved in it. Now here's the bizarre part, I get the whole thing about men playing women on the net for sex, they get what they want and move on to the next one. I get that...but this dude??? he woos you for quite awhile and you date but no sex...then you plan a weekend together, rearrage your life and your childs life for it, and he just doesnt show? He bolts before the sex??? Now i've asked many guy friends about this and they say he's either married and got caught, or he's gay and couldnt do it, or he's just a psycho woman hater that gets off on getting you hooked and then bailing.

He doesnt return messages, wont answer as to why he did such a crappy thing to someone that never did anything to hurt him. So ladies...if you know Steve Foster or are thinking about dating him...beware...he's a collector of hearts apparently and gets off on breaking them.

He's a coward that wont face what he did, doesnt have the guts to even answer. And yes, i realize how foolish i was to get involved with him, you dont need to post any responses telling me what an idiot i was, i am well aware of that now, but my purpose is to save another woman from being hurt by this scumbag user.

Steve, you're a coward and a liar. Karma will get you in the end and i hope im there to see it.
Robin McCullough

United States

#2 Oct 8, 2010
So sorry, Lesson Learned. Heartache is the worst kind of pain. Haven't heard of Steve Foster but know the type. Also I've played the game too; making dates and then not showing up. I'm not gay, but just liked to tease. I am really sorry about that now also. Too many nice guys out there that I hurt. Of course, there were also guys too willing that I hurt also, and they were cheating on their spouses. There is enough pain in this world without inflicting it on someone else.
More Cautious

Medford, OK

#3 Mar 4, 2011
I hope the the JERK Steve Foster sees this post because he is about as low as they come. He plays with peoples hearts and minds and then just disappears and will not talk to them again. I hope that he gets what he has coming to him for being a player and a hurter of women.
He lives in Whitewater, Kansas and works in Newton, Kansas at the Dillons Grocery Store and also in Newton, Kansas for the Sonic. What an absolute JERK.
Hair Twirler

Enid, OK

#4 May 1, 2011
just met him ladies, is there more? Do i need to run?

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