Good advice for "moving on"

Good advice for "moving on"

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Heartbroken

United States

#1 Jul 7, 2012
Its been almost a year and I just cant get over him. What can I do? I feel like im going crazy!

NightLily

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#2 Jul 7, 2012
It has been about the same for me and I have no answer for you but to just do it...move on girl. My ex remarried 2 weeks after our divorce was final and I still can't get him completely out of my mind but I have to move on.
noone

Murfreesboro, TN

#3 Jul 7, 2012
My advise is "fake it til you make it"!!!
Heartbroken

United States

#4 Jul 7, 2012
I guess it makes it harder that he is back and forth on how he says he feels. He has slept with a couple girls but hasnt started dating anyone. We still have sex sometimes and he texts that he loved me so much but we could never work out, etc. I know I should just stop talking to him but he was my best friend and in many ways, still is. He knows me better than anyone.i hate this.

NightLily

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#5 Jul 7, 2012
Heartbroken wrote:
I guess it makes it harder that he is back and forth on how he says he feels. He has slept with a couple girls but hasnt started dating anyone. We still have sex sometimes and he texts that he loved me so much but we could never work out, etc. I know I should just stop talking to him but he was my best friend and in many ways, still is. He knows me better than anyone.i hate this.
Honey my husband of 7 years did the same thing even after he married again...calling...texting...e- mailing how much he loved me until I wised up ~ blocked his numbers and blocked his e-mail address. You just have to let go ~ if it was meant to be, you would already be together.
lolz

Morristown, TN

#6 Jul 7, 2012
Alcohol will help ease your pain. If that doesn't work, try getting a job or a hobby that keeps you busy enough you don't have time to think about anything else

NightLily

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#7 Jul 8, 2012
Alcohol is NOT the answer lolz! Alcohol is a depressant and not a good idea. As bad as this is going to sound...find a guy that will treat you good, take you out and make you smile. No one says you have to fall in love but getting back out there will help you forget.
very true

Socorro, NM

#8 Jul 8, 2012
I'm there now its hard to go through it but just keep trying you have those days n weeks u see them everywhere u go or think about them all the time.
nosferatu

Miami, FL

#9 Jul 8, 2012
been there, still there :(
noone

Murfreesboro, TN

#10 Jul 8, 2012
Heartbroken wrote:
I guess it makes it harder that he is back and forth on how he says he feels. He has slept with a couple girls but hasnt started dating anyone. We still have sex sometimes and he texts that he loved me so much but we could never work out, etc. I know I should just stop talking to him but he was my best friend and in many ways, still is. He knows me better than anyone.i hate this.
The first thing is STOP the sex. It will never help you get over him. Sounds like he wants his cake & eat it too. Cut all ties is the only way.
danny t

Mooresville, NC

#11 Jul 8, 2012
I no the feeling me and my ex just called it quits and I hate coming home from work or going to bed the house is empty te bed seems so empty at night I just go crazy cuz I miss her she's moved on but I haven't I've tried talking to other women bit it ain't help g at all
girl

United States

#12 Jul 8, 2012
Ignoring the calls and texts is the best way I've found. Partying and drinking only made it worse for me. Block him on Facebook, too. Throw out any gifts he got you, pictures, anything that reminds you of him!

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