I am sorry you lost your parents. Yes the parents are responsible because they were letting her date him. I am saying the school is not responsible. I do believe she knew what she was doing and she is also to blame but he even tho she consented needs to go to jail because he is NINETEEN. Like YOU said he is an adult. A 19 year old who has sex with a 14 year old should be shot! He knew better. And why she or any young girl would be hung up on him I do not know. lol. I don't know how old you are but it sounds like it has been a LONG TIME since you were in school. It's not that hard to find 5 minutes to have sex.<quoted text>are fkn stupiddddddddddddd they let their 14 year daughter date a grown a$$ man 19 yes in this case the parents are at fault it's like handing a child a lit joint n say don't inhale yes the girl and man is in the wrong but her parents did not step in and stop it you correct the child when they do something wrong not turn yr blind eye on them that's what being a reponsible parent is.and I lost my parents by the age of 9 so it's kinda hard to blame my faults on them when I only had them for a few years I have 2 daughters and 1 son and no way would I let them date a 19 year old at the age of 14
I have heard things are so bad these days that it is nothing to walk in the bathroom and see people having sex. Except it's usually 2 skank lesbos instead of male and female. But even when I was in school there were tons of chances if teens wanted to take them. And teachers cannot watch every kid every minute. It's not possible.
So yeah her parents are in the blame for letting her date a man that much older. But in this case he deserves to be on the sex offenders registry for the rest of his life. If she were 16 or 17 I would feel different. And if you check the laws I'm pretty sure 5 yrs different is enough to get serious jail time. If its like 16 and 18 it's not.