Deadbeats

[know it]

i hate dead beat parents. im a mother and i love my children. deadbeats should be called out and completely embarrassed... so lets do it!!

[hahas]

where to begin. anthony moore

[srb]

ya kno i would say aj weisbrodt but ya know what my kids are so much better off without him he isnt doing nothin but a favor for us... enjoy jail.

[Patty]

I am not defending Deadbeat fathers, but what is your definition of one? Someone who does not pay child support or someone who is not involved in their child's life? Both?

There are TWO people at fault here. The mothers are also to blame for SOME (not all) of these cases. Too many young women are sleeping with these men and becoming pregnant. It takes TWO-women are just as responsible for birth control as men. Did YOU make sure that you were protected before sex? If so, then how did you get pregnant? Was it planned? If so, WHY did you allow yourself to get pregnant by a guy that was obviously not a good responsible guy to begin with? If you two were in a committed, solid relationship before getting pregnant, chances are that the father would still be involved and contributing to the child's well being.
Deadbeats are a problem--so are women who make bad choices and put themselves (and a child) in this situation. The father SHOULD pay, yes, but the women who whine and cry about their own irresponsibility and bad choices need to accept responsibility for their role as well!!!

[newport ky]

I know a mother that gets her child support faithfully from her eldest childs father but does not spend it on him. He still buys the school supplies, clothes, shoes, anyhting the kid needs and she still don't give him a break she won't even take the kid for a haircut then you see her and she got her nails done and new shoes and nothing he ever wears is not something that didn't come from him or his family members. It just pisses me off the she still don't cut the guy a break he spends every min with the child that he can and still all she does is take take take. I know her and it pisses me off but he can't get a break.

[Miranda]

hahas wrote:

where to begin. anthony moore

I kno Anthony Moore i grew up with him wheres he been at?

[Lester]

Do you know how many people have the name Anthony Moore? It is a pretty common name. While it is obvious that you are trying to 'embarrass' a guy with this name, you should take under consideration that other people may think that you are talking about a different Anthony Moore that they know and further more embarrassing an Anthony Moore who does not know you or perhaps does not even have a child! You should not mention names. Very unclassy and immature. Before you know it, people will be making up lies about someone on this post just to cause some trouble. So warning people: do not necessarily believe anything that you read on Topix!!!!!

[Barb]

newport ky wrote:

I know a mother that gets her child support faithfully from her eldest childs father but does not spend it on him. He still buys the school supplies, clothes, shoes, anyhting the kid needs and she still don't give him a break she won't even take the kid for a haircut then you see her and she got her nails done and new shoes and nothing he ever wears is not something that didn't come from him or his family members. It just pisses me off the she still don't cut the guy a break he spends every min with the child that he can and still all she does is take take take. I know her and it pisses me off but he can't get a break.

Some mothers can be deadbeats too!!!!!!!!!!

[srb]

ther are just as many deabeat mothers as fathers. i have a deadbeat mother. and my father raised me! but i work my ass off for my children i love them dearly and would do anything for them i dont see a parent can go a day without think about their child because mine run threw my mind constantly i was a young mother. but unlike all the little immature ones i learned to grow up and what was more important in life. yes you can make a mistake by making a child at a young age. but when that child gets here there is no more room for mistakes. grow up and TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS PEOPLE>!!!!!!

[srb]

i really don think its a gender thing i think it a will power thing. you either care that much or you don and in my case he dont. but there is nothing i can do about it. thats his decision. im still here for them and always will and i honestly don have time to complain..

[srb]

oh btw women need to stop having kids for the check..... please explain to me how 200 dollars a month will take care of your child? GET A JOB BITCHES